My boyfriend and I have an emotional crisis, and my boyfriend has an emotional crisis, how should I

How to say it, love in the student stage is beautiful, but in the face of life, it is so insignificant, everyone will have an unforgettable love, but who can guarantee that this unforgettable is not their last time, no one dares to guarantee, because love is regardless of age, good or bad, worldly, material. It's just a feeling, an experience. True and complete love leaves people with a beautiful and sweet memory, and brings people an encouragement and positive attitude; And the broken love leaves people with a kind of sad and worried memories, and brings people a scared and negative attitude!

In love, the roles between each other are replaced by each other, that is, love may become loved, and being loved may become love, only the love of the role of each other is really beautiful love, people can love at the same time, but also can experience each other's love, what a happy feeling, what a pleasant feeling.

Because everyone has to live and make efforts for tomorrow's happiness, love is so material and annoying in reality. So when people choose a future partner, they will have a trade-off, you can't have both, when there is no best of both worlds, people's minds appear whether to give up the idea of pure love, is this idea right, is it worth it? In fact, there is no need for you to delve into it, because no matter how you think about it, you will never think about what your tomorrow will be, society is changing, your thinking is also changing, when you are old and thinking about this problem, you will definitely feel very bored, very helpless, very regretful.

So what you have to do now is to go with the flow, do what you have to do now, and don't lose your present time and youth in order to think about whether you will be happy tomorrow. Be true to your heart in everything, follow him without regrets if you love him, no matter what he will become in the future, as long as your love is still there, don't consider breaking up.

The ancients always said that marriage should be the right one, marry a chicken with a chicken, these words are reasonable, do not underestimate the thinking of the ancients, the ancients said this for thousands of years, in order to let future generations treat marriage to be cautious and insist.

The human body and soul are changing all the time. It doesn't matter if you change, as long as you have a clear conscience.

As for your question, I think you will understand it after reading my words above.

The breeze is slanting and the shadows are turning, and it is difficult to break the love under the flowers.

Escape is not ruthless, green willows love spring for 10,000 years.

Love is an ethereal thing, but there is no money and fame here, it is so pure, but sometimes it is so small compared to worldly things.

Don't think too much, go forward bravely, there are too many things that will change before you have time to choose, not emotions but the outside world can't help but yourself.

I can understand how you feel, because I once had such a beautiful love, but the premise of our choice was different, but we separated. My heart hurts, of course, it's much better now, but every time I think of him, my heart is so calm, because the love at that time was too pure and simple.

However, I still believe that if two people truly love each other, nothing can separate them.

I think your answer is left in later life, when you go out of the campus and into the society, maybe your eyes see a different sky.

Don't be too anxious to choose something now, and don't let it become a kind of regret.

Hope you can be happy!

Time will tell. But don't let the impulses of the present make you feel sorry later. So, my advice is to meditate and wait until the two of you have regular jobs before deciding whether to get married.

After all, falling in love and getting married are two different things. Not necessarily, the person you like will be able to marry you together; Your married husband isn't necessarily the type you once liked.

When you walk more and experience more things, you will make the wiser choice. If he really loves you, he will definitely wait for you until the day he gets married to you.

Marry him. Or you'll regret it. In the future, you will not be able to buy your happiness with any amount of money.

Now he loves to play because he is still uncertain and immature. But please believe that even if a man loves to play, he has a sense of responsibility and a mission to fight for, especially for the woman he loves.

You have to observe before communicating, don't just run away and talk. If you let him know your mother's thoughts, you will be together in the future, he will have a knot in his heart, he will have problems with your mother, and you should find a better way to motivate him. You did it.

Don't say anything like what your mom said.

In case he doesn't have a good job in the future, you will be jealous of others, but in case he has money, you will also worry about him being distracted, so people will always live in contradiction People in love think that they are the happiest people in the world, and they can't live without each other, they often lose their ability to judge, and only see each other's advantages, and after marriage, they pay too much attention to each other's shortcomings, so that the contradictions affect the relationship from small to large, so it is better for you to find each other's shortcomings now, see if you can accept it, and then decide whether to continue your love Your mother, you also have to do a good job, her intentions are good, don't think she is annoying, you will understand her current mood when you have your own daughter in the future

You are a very sincere girl, and I was a little touched by what you said.

I think it's best for you to have a deep heart-to-heart exchange, mainly about the way forward.

He still can't control himself, so you're worried about whether he'll be able to move up, right?

In this exchange, you first have to tell him about the pressure your family is putting on you and your own worries. I hope he can be admitted to the undergraduate through his own efforts, give himself and you an explanation, and also give your mother some hesitation when she refuses to speak.

Things always have to start step by step, and that conversation is crucial. So you should prepare first, you can rehearse it yourself, talk less nonsense, add more sentences and exclamation sentences to your words, your face should look anxious and hesitant, and when it comes to emotion, it is better to shed tears.

Don't be disdainful, it always doesn't hurt to think about what to arrange first, and love with a little bit of goodwill is also more satisfying).

After that exchange, I believe he will give you a firm answer, but everything is difficult at the beginning, so you have to supervise him more at the beginning, believe in yourself, believe in him!!

I'm in a similar situation to you.

You can only make your boyfriend work harder, you have to tell him what your mother said to you, let him know the truth, of course you must be on his side, and then let him try.

I think if he loves you, he will definitely do it, and then the only thing is to let the people in your family see his performance, and your family is also good for you, and if you see your boyfriend working hard, he won't say anything. Don't mess with your mother, that's my experience.

I always believe that I would rather find someone I love than just someone who loves me, even if I know that the process will not be very happy, but what I emphasize here is that it is really important to find someone I love.

Keep loving him, maybe you won't find anything like him again in your life.

If your family can guarantee you happiness for the rest of your life, let them be the masters, but a very real problem is that they can't give you the happiness you want, only he ......Let's see for yourself.

I really bless you and envy you.

First of all, it depends on what you think in your heart, if you really want to be with him, you should work hard with him and help him with tutoring, instead of letting him go. You tell him the truth about your family situation, and show your position that if he really loves and is willing to work hard for you, then he is the person who really loves you and is worthy of entrusting him for life.

If you love him, you should believe him,,, tell him what you think, but pay attention to the method, boys have self-esteem, if you want to live the life of a young grandmother, then leave him early, and you have to struggle together when you come out of college, unless you have a family, I wish you happiness.

Since I like it, I have decided, so I will inform them, and the most simply way is to have children after graduation, so that it will be 100% successful, and my sister got it like this, yes.

Just be good with him, the person who can be good to you for a lifetime should be cherished, what's wrong without a good job, as long as two people love each other, as long as they can maintain the life and daily needs of two people, it is enough, can't be too snobbish, can you be happy if you find someone who is rich but doesn't love yourself?

In your heart, you still love money, so find someone who has money, so as not to quarrel over money every day in the future.

Love is great, far above all else.

Where there is love, there is a future.

b No matter what, always believe in love.

I can't stand it after reading the first 6 lines! You are so hypocritical!

I've been with my boyfriend for a year, and I have recently had a relationship crisis, how to solve it? As time goes by, even the best relationships will be more or less in crisis. And it's not terrible to have a crisis in your relationship, it's terrible to know how to deal with a crisis when it comes.

In fact, at this time, it is enough to do the following.

1.Identify the precursors of an emotional crisis. We must find out the cause of the emotional crisis.

Why the hell are you arguing? We have to be clear. If there is any misunderstanding, we must explain it face to face.

Dealing with problems rationally and staying calm is the most important way to deal with an emotional crisis. In fact, at this time, two people might as well let go of their emotions and have a good chat. Tempered communication does not solve the problem.

Don't be angry. Sit down and have a good talk. Maybe when the anger on both sides subsides, when you look back, you will feel how childish and ridiculous this quarrel was.

2.Find new freshness. After two people have been together for a long time, the relationship may gradually become dull, which is what we usually call the loss of freshness.

Improving the freshness of getting along will make each other's feelings deeper and less prone to emotional crises. Husbands and wives get along for a long time, and aesthetic fatigue will naturally occur. At this time, some small games should be played from time to time to improve the freshness of getting along so as not to get tired of each other.

Creating a new sense of freshness helps to attract each other a second time, makes the relationship more stable, and helps to alleviate the aesthetic fatigue between each other.

3.Don't be careful, don't take each other too lightly, and pay attention to each other's strengths. When there is an emotional crisis, we must learn to be considerate of each other.

The more we love each other, the more we should learn to tolerate each other. If it's not a matter of principle, don't worry too much. But the fact that most men and women only focus on each other's shortcomings when the relationship is strained, which often leads to more conflicts.

We should find out more about each other's strengths and see each other's contributions for us, instead of accusing each other of being wrong.

Personally, I think that if you encounter such a situation, then you should immediately reflect on your own problems and learn to think from the other person's point of view.

Find the root cause of your quarrel, then work with the other person to fix the problem, and then start over.

Two people can calm down and talk, so that the emotional crisis can be solved, talk about it well, talk about the problem, talk about everything, and there will be no contradiction between the two people.

You should care more about your boyfriend, go on more dates with your boyfriend, go out on a trip with your boyfriend during the holidays, create some small surprises for your boyfriend, and think more about your previous sweet relationship, so as to solve the emotional crisis.

First of all, what is the problem of emotional crisis with your boyfriend? Then we can tackle the problem. If the problem is not being able to trust each other, then spend more time with each other and get to know each other better.

You should choose to communicate with your boyfriend, and you also need to give the other person some trust when you encounter a crisis.

For couples, it is actually a very normal situation to have a sense of crisis, which can not only let themselves know how to cherish each other more, but also help us protect each other's feelings, so how should we deal with such a situation?

Therefore, I have the following suggestions to share with you.

1. Communicate with your other half.

When we find that the relationship between us and our boyfriend has changed, we must find our boyfriend in time to communicate, and tell each other all the thoughts in our hearts, so that our other half can know what they think, so as not to misunderstand themselves. Because for couples, if we all hide the truest thoughts in our hearts, then after a long time, even if we want to save such a relationship, it will be very difficult.

2. Find the problem.

When we find ourselves in a relationship crisis with our boyfriend, we must find the problem, so that we can better solve the problem between ourselves and our boyfriend. Because only after all such things are resolved, can the two get along with each other better, and similar things can be avoided from happening again. In the past, I also had such an experience, at that time, I just blindly felt that there was a big gap between myself and my girlfriend, but I never wanted to solve such a problem, so in the end, the two of them were not able to get together.

The above points are some of my personal suggestions, and I hope they can be helpful to all of you. At the same time, I also hope that when you face such a situation, you should also take the initiative to find your other half and take the initiative to admit your mistakes, so as not to increase the misunderstanding between the two people, and it is also conducive to us to save such a relationship, I hope everyone can pay attention.