A guy cares about me, but I don t like him

Updated on psychology 2024-04-11
13 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    In this way, you ask him out, but don't give him too much hope, you can first explain what you mean by asking him, and then slowly tell her that you also like him, but not love, you can use him to be your brother (or brother) to give him spiritual comfort (this trick is still very spiritual for boys).Like you, developing into brother and sister is a very good ending. Find a suitable time and try to tell him, otherwise, both of them will be very distressed.

    Believe me, you'll be the same as before, or better than ever.

    I wish you a long friendship

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    You can hint at him, for example, if you tell him, actually, with you as a confidant, I am still happy or something like that, and use this language to imply him.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    You don't really know what real love is, and you start to be afraid before you even step into love, and it's ridiculous to meet the wrong person at the wrong time.

    Meeting the right person at the wrong time is a sigh.

    The right time to meet the wrong person is a hurt.

    Meeting the right person at the right time is happiness.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    It's better to let him know sooner to save him more when you get it, and you'd better stay away from him Understand.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Speak your feelings so that everyone will not suffer.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Don't refuse, I'm in the same situation as your friend, I'm already a stranger to me, but I still like her very much!! And I think of her every day ... I can't extricate myself ...

    But I advise you to break up with him! I can't help it.

    Or break up with him later, anyway, unless he makes you like him.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Tell him tactfully, don't force yourself to come, it will hurt him.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    If you show him this passage, he will understand, and if he doesn't understand it, he will be a fool, and there is nothing to say to a fool. If I had been so considerate when I was a child, I wouldn't have taken so many curves......

    The more he drags on, the more he hurts, it's better to end that kid now, if the kid's emotional intelligence is high, he can figure it out, maybe he can be friends, real friendship is not an accessory product of unsuccessful love, that kind of "friend" is insulting friendship.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    There are many similar examples in reality, where you are very good to a guy, but the other person has no feelings for you at all. We have to look at this phenomenon rationally, that is, feelings depend on fate and whether they can attract each other. It's not about beauty, ugliness, money, or other conditions.

    Love is originally a matter of "you love me", like is like, dislike is not like, and you can't force it at all. If you are very good to a guy but the other person doesn't like you, it only means that you are not attracted to him, which is actually a very normal thing. Because being nice to someone else and being in love with you is not inherently causal.

    If there really is an inevitability between the two, then there won't be so many "licking dogs" in this world. So it's better to be sober, give up as soon as possible when it's time to give up, don't hang yourself on a tree, there are many good men in this world. Maybe you take the time to wait a little longer, or try to change yourself for the better, then it is natural to meet that man who likes you.

    Of course, if you really like him too much, then you can change a way to pursue the other person. First of all, there is a saying that "men chase women across the mountain, women chase men across the veil", which shows that girls are not as difficult as they imagined when they pursue boys. It's right that you're nice to others, but if you go too far, it's easy for others to think that your feelings are very cheap.

    Anyone has a great disdain for cheap and low-hanging fruit, and will give up whenever they want to throw it away. As far as feelings are concerned, boys want to pursue better women, so what kind of women are the best? Of course, it's the women who can't get it, or who seem to be very difficult.

    So if you want him to fall in love with you, the first step here is to put away his good feelings and regain his feminine reserve. Secondly, spend more time getting to know each other and let them feel your strengths and charms. After you get to know each other, on the one hand, you can see your own emotions clearly, and secondly, you can grasp each other's preferences in detail, and you can appropriately do what they like in the process of getting along with each other.

    For example, talking about topics that the other person is interested in, or giving the other person a favorite gift, etc. As long as he doesn't really hate you, the possibility of falling in love over time is still very high. In the same way, after others are slowly familiar with you, your good impression can also stimulate his good feelings, and some charms in your personality and appearance are easy to be slowly noticed by them, and then the opportunity for two people will slowly appear.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Because you are not his preferred type, everyone has their own ideal type in mind.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    I think it's probably because you're so ugly, so the other party likes you at all.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Probably because you're not his type of person, he's not interested in you. This is quite normal. After all, feelings can't be forced.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Summary. Hello dear, glad to have your question.

    There may be several reasons why a guy has someone he likes but still takes good care of you.

    1。Maybe you have a good relationship and usually have something to talk about. But he takes care of you in every way, and goes beyond the boundaries of friendship, so the person he likes may be you, he may not feel it himself, but his physical performance has made a feeling of liking you.

    2。Maybe in his eyes, you are already a buddy who talks about everything, and his concern for you is just a simple relationship between good friends, and of course you have to take good care of good friends.

    3。It may be that he wants to hang you and make a spare tire. Now there are many such people, anyway, they are just thinking, and they don't have to pay legal responsibility.

    A guy who obviously has someone he likes, but still takes good care of you.

    Hello dear, I'm glad to be able to answer your question A boy obviously has someone he likes, but he still takes good care of you, there may be several reasons1. Maybe you have a good relationship and usually have something to talk about. But he takes care of you in every way, and goes beyond the boundaries of friendship, so the person he likes can only be you, he may not feel it himself, but his physical performance has made the feeling of liking you.

    2。Maybe in his eyes, you are already a buddy who talks about everything, and his concern for you is just a simple relationship between good friends, and of course you have to take good care of good friends. 3。

    It may be that he wants to hang you and make a spare tire. Now there are many such people, anyway, they are just thinking, and they don't have to pay legal responsibility.

    Hope mine is helpful to you.

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