I just broke up with a girl who didn t love me, and I was a little sad

Updated on psychology 2024-04-11
22 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    I've also experienced things like you, you're doing the right thing, since she's not good with you, then don't be too infatuated, don't you be a girlfriend and a friend, won't it make you feel uncomfortable for the rest of your life?

    It's a little sad now, but for your long-term planning, according to my experience, you should be looking for a girlfriend right now, so you can forget about her sooner.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    There is no grass at the end of the world.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Sometimes, improper communication can cause a lot of misunderstandings.

    He wants you to do this, you want him to do that, no. So it didn't work.

    I'm thinking if you can be more honest, maybe it won't be like this, we all love ourselves too much.

    Actually, I'm also reflecting on this question.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Brothers. I support.

    Actually, I met her as well.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Don't feel bad, sort out your mood, go out for a walk, your love is waiting for you

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Absolutely wise, she's just enjoying what you're giving, enjoying the feeling of being more than people like, and the quality is not high. The deletion is absolutely correct, and later you will know that the sadness of the present is only temporary.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    It's a beautiful job, you can't be a girlfriend, and you don't even want to be a friend! Thoroughly, that's what a man is! What to be a friend? That's an excuse!

    Attaboy! And, of course, there are girls waiting for you!

    Treasure them

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Don't be sad! Time can talk about everything! Maybe fate hasn't arrived yet!

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Being sad for a person does not necessarily love this person, as a friend or a bystander can also be sad for it, for example, friends who have been together for a long time and see each other's unhappiness can sometimes be sad for it, but this sadness is not the kind of sadness with intentions, but a form of sadness, so the person you say will be sad for you although he doesn't love you, maybe it is the position of a friend who sympathizes with you and feels sorry for you!

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    1. What is past has passed after all. You have to think openly, and stop dwelling on those past events. Because you can't think about it and can't let it go, not only will it not help, but it will also aggravate your psychological trauma.

    2. Time is the medicine that heals psychological trauma. As time passes, you and your ex-girlfriend will gradually forget about each other and start a new life.

    3. Everyone has their own strengths and weaknesses. When you interact with other girls, you should look at their strengths and be good at discovering their cuteness. Look more, look more, and you will always find a suitable girlfriend.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Then make a girlfriend later, let the time dilute the pain** It's not too late to have a girlfriend after the pain. Be calm, be cautious and be quick.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    I met a few girls in just a week after we broke up, which shows that you can forget the previous one and you will like it when you meet her.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Time is the best healing medicine, and if you try it for a little more time, you may not be able to remember what she is like.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    It's only been 1 week, and you can try it in 3 months.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    It's good to have a better life after a breakup.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    First of all, you have to identify whether there is a real or fake breakup between you? You know, the difference is very big, fake breakup, to put it bluntly, the other party doesn't really plan to end the relationship, but just hopes to use the breakup as a means to make you pay more attention to him and give him more security.

    Therefore, in a fake breakup, after the other party proposes to break up, you must quickly contact the other party and sincerely seek to get back together. Don't delay too long in terms of time, otherwise the other party may think that you don't value him and don't care about him, and finally become frustrated and turn the fake breakup into a real want to end the relationship.

    If you are vaguely aware of a possible fake breakup, you can mention more of the previous memories when it comes to redemption. For example: I'm somewhere now, do you remember when we agreed to come here together?

    But now that I'm here, you're no longer with me.

    The main purpose of this is to use your shared memories of the past to impress each other and use your true feelings to resonate with each other. As long as you can make him feel that you are redeeming him, then he may be relenting and coming back to you.

    The situation of a real breakup is completely different from a fake breakup, and a sincere breakup is often the decision that the other party wants to end the relationship after a period of careful consideration. In other words, the other party is not impulsive at all, but has been thinking about it for a long time and has made up his mind to break up.

    Therefore, in this case, the period of the breakup is the most sensitive. When you have just separated, no matter how sad and desperate you are, you must not go up and pester each other directly. Maybe your intention was to keep him and keep the relationship, but if you do this, the end result will only be counterproductive.

    You know, if there is a real breakup between you, then when you just separate, he definitely doesn't want to see you again, no matter what you say or do, it's just in vain. It's better to wait until you've been disconnected for a while before texting him.

    There are two things you must pay attention to in text messages, one is that you must admit that you have accepted the reality of the breakup and will not struggle with it anymore. The second point is that you have to mention that you have improved and changed a lot now, and I hope to be friends with him. Generally speaking, as long as you lower your posture and say this, the other party will never push you away and reject you too hard-heartedly, so that there is a glimmer of hope for your reunion.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    In this situation, you have a responsibility that you can't shirk, you don't love this girl, why have you been with her for two years, what do you think in your heart, why do you want to break up now? Is there a girl you like again? If you don't love others in your heart, remember it early, don't drag it out, it hurts people for a long time.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    If you don't love her, why start with her? Some girls can't be touched, don't start with her if you don't have that idea, if you don't start, she may not fall so deep, how can she get rid of it now.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    True love is not necessarily a perfect match in the eyes of others, but a mutual fit in the hearts of people who love each other, tolerate each other, and care for each other. True love is the blending of heart and heart, the combination of soul and soul, it is a mixture of sweet and sour, but it makes you happy. True love is to make each other's life better and silently dedicated, regardless of how much or little each other pays, do not ask for anything in return, and only ask the other party to live better than themselves.

    This love warms not only themselves, but also the worldly hearts.

    True love is to know how to cherish when you can love;

    True love is knowing how to let go when you can't love!

    Because, letting go is the ...... having everything

    Love is a natural fate, not a stalker.

    When you cherish it, please love it well.

    Feel it with your heart. When you reap true love, you also reap your own happiness.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    To love someone is to accept all of his shortcomings.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    You yourself say you don't like it much. What are you still hesitating about.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    I don't do what I regret.

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