What do parents learn from their children, and what should parents teach their children?

I want to be like a child, and forget my worries quickly, without sorrow or trouble. Don't worry about how you earn and spend your money. Like a child, I don't imagine the difficulties and dilemmas of the future.

I still remember that when I was young, I also had troubles, my parents didn't let me watch TV, and I was strict about the time I spent watching TV. At that time, I wanted to grow up. When you grow up, you can watch it for as long as you want.

As a result, I grew up with a lot of troubles, and I didn't watch it as long as I wanted when I grew up. I have to go to work the next day. There's a lot of housework to do.

The child is still waiting for you to take care of it. Now my kid's TV is very hidden, and every time I forcibly turn off the TV, I must have the same idea as when I was young. When I was younger, I must have been like him, and I didn't think that my parents didn't let me watch TV because I was afraid of affecting my eyesight or academic performance.

I didn't expect to grow up with a lot of worries waiting for me.

Parents should teach their children to be a confident person. Self-confidence is an attitude, a belief that you can do a task or succeed. Self-confidence is essential for a child's development and can help them overcome difficulties and achieve their goals.

Parents can build their child's self-confidence by encouraging them to try new things, helping them learn from their failures, and giving positive feedback and affirmation. At the same time, it is also important not to overprotect the child, so that the child has appropriate challenges and opportunities for growth.

Parents should also teach their children to be responsible people. ResponsibleFriendship is an attitude of responsibility for oneself, others and society, which can make children responsible, self-disciplined and reliable people. Ulnar parents can let their children take on some household chores or tasks from an early age, and develop their sense of responsibility and independence.

At the same time, give your child the right amount of freedom and trust to give them the opportunity to make their own decisions and bear the consequences.

In addition, parents should also teach their children to be caring people. Love is a kind of care and care for others, which can make children become compassionate and warm people. Parents can guide their children to pay attention to others, respect others, and help others, so that they understand the importance of caring and caring for others.

At the same time, parents should also be role models for their children, influencing and educating them with their own actions and words.

Finally, parents should also let their children learn to be a person with the ability to learn. Learning ability is an attitude of continuous learning and growth, which enables children to adapt to the changing world and environment. Parents can encourage their children to explore new things, read, participate in various activities and classes, allowing them to maintain their thirst for knowledge and love of learning.

At the same time, it is also important to give children enough support and guidance to help them master learning methods and skills.

Build the ability to be self-confident.

The ability to take responsibility for Kaiqing's servants.

Learn to think.

The ability to face frustration in the face of stalking.

Interpersonal skills.

Basic ability to survive.

I often hear many parents say something like this: "My children never want to take the initiative to learn, and they have to be urged by their parents to learn, which is really a headache ......."This is actually a fairly common phenomenon, many children "are outside the school heart", do not like to learn, do not want to learn, the enthusiasm for learning is far less than the mobile phone games, etc., many parents try their best to no avail. If the child is pushed into a hurry, the parent-child relationship will be affected at least at worst, and the child may take extreme behaviors at worst.

For example, "Dad tutoring his daughter's math homework is too hot, roaring and slapping the table" that happened a few days ago, which aroused the resonance and heated discussions of many netizens. Many parents don't understand: this school and study is obviously the child's own business, how can it seem that the parents owe the child in the end?

In fact, children are not in a good mood, they always feel that their parents want to force them to study, and in the end they are often full of grievances, and even feel that they are suffering for their parents by going to school.

When a child's learning is completely passive rather than active, it shows that the child lacks internal motivation to learn.

1. The three elements that affect the internal drive of learningThe cultivation of internal motivation is certainly not achieved overnight, but requires a long process to achieve. Both adults and children have a common psychological need, that is, "a sense of belonging, autonomy and achievement". When these needs are fully satisfied, children's internal motivation to learn will be naturally awakened, and they will be more active, active and happy to devote themselves to learning.

**1.From the perspective of family education, the sense of belonging refers to the fact that children belong to the family and have a good emotional experience, which is mainly due to the unconditional acceptance, recognition and tolerance of parents to their children. When a child feels that he is being seen, recognized and understood by his parents, he gains a sense of belonging that motivates him to be positive, including active learning.

2.Sense of autonomyRegarding the sense of autonomy, we can simply understand that the child has actual control over life and learning. Children with a sense of autonomy have high expectations for learning, and regard learning as a matter of their part, showing an active learning state.

On the contrary, children who do not have a sense of autonomy tend to resist learning and regard learning as an extraneous thing, and they show a passive state of learning. The learning effect of these two different attitudes is naturally very different.

3.A sense of accomplishment.

The so-called sense of accomplishment refers to the child's ability and confidence to do things well.

When a child experiences success in something, and when a child is encouraged by their parents, they can feel a sense of accomplishment. Children who have gained a sense of accomplishment will be more willing to continue to persevere in their studies and maintain their internal drive for self-improvement.

If children have begun to have a sense of belonging, autonomy and accomplishment under our guidance and education, then children will have a very strong internal drive for their own learning and life. That means that we have helped the child find the will to grow inside, and the child will change from passive learning to active learning.

In family education, parents should pay attention to setting an example, influencing their children with their own behavior, so that children can learn correct concepts and habits from their parents, establish a good parent-child relationship with their children, understand the needs and ideas of their children, and help their children grow up healthily.

So what should parents teach their children in homeschooling::

1.Positive and optimistic attitude towards life: Parents should help their children develop a positive and optimistic attitude, so that children do not talk about enemies in the face of difficulties, and learn to turn decay into magic.

2.Ability to live independently: Parents should teach their children to live on their own, and when they need to take care of themselves, they need to acquire or make basic life skills such as food, housekeeping, and laundry.

3.Good interpersonal and communication skills: Parents should teach their children how to relate to people, how to build and maintain good interpersonal relationships, and how to communicate positively.

4.Correct Character and Values: Parents should guide their children to understand the right morals, values and morals, so that they can become socially responsible people.

5.Learn the habit of self-discipline: Parents should help their children establish good habits of self-discipline, including taking on tasks, following rules, and managing time.

In short, family education is an important part of a child's life, which is mainly the responsibility of parents, including moral education, psychological education, behavioral norms, etc., as well as mutual communication and mutual understanding between parents and children.