The girlfriend is not willing to bear the usual expenses

Updated on society 2024-04-09
42 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    She doesn't really love you. You make the situation clear with her and ask her if she likes your person or your money? I used to pay for going out with my boyfriend, but in private I would give him my own money, and I would feel quite face-saving when he paid for a treat.

    Even if it's my money spent. When two people are together, they shouldn't be angry because of money, so what should they do if they get married in the future?

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    I've had that too, but my girlfriend understands me and doesn't spend money on everything.

    What's in your situation, maybe that's what your girlfriend thinks, but she's usually dependent on you? If he thinks that men should spend money, that is to say, she thinks that the two of them are dominated by you, you can observe it, like who orders when you go out to eat, and listen to whose opinion you listen to first when dealing with affairs, if it is really you, then there is nothing to say, men are bitter.

    If not, it's time to think about why she seems to be together.

    In short, men are bitter, but those who suffer are valuable.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    It was the same when I was in school, I paid all the expenses by myself, and then we broke up. Brother, I suggest you, give up, such a woman is okay with you, and it's hard to talk about sharing weal and sorrow.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    With such a girlfriend, I have deep sympathy for you. I wondered if one day you really couldn't afford to pay, wouldn't she hang out with you anymore.........

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    I think it's better for you not to be with this kind of woman!

    Because I don't think she wants to be with you for a lifetime, if she wants to be a woman with you for a lifetime, she will think about you everywhere.

    If you both think it's just fun, it's okay to continue.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Stand up to the words of the buddies above! ]]

    Brother, you are so bitter, go and talk to her to see why she doesn't share a little. Isn't it now said that men and women are equal?

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    The sign that a woman is in love with a man is that she will start to save him money. She doesn't love you.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    If I love someone, I am reluctant to let my boyfriend spend money.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Women who won't save you money are thrown away.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Don't procrastinate. Isn't it easy?

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    She doesn't love you at all. I can't even afford to spend my boyfriend's money. I always want to save for him. How about your girlfriend.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Actually, the question is not here, the question is, what is she when you?!If you don't say anything, she just accepts it, you say you can't afford it, and she doesn't do it, then there is a problem.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    You have to force her to spend money, although she says that she refuses you, but you buy something for her, she will not be angry. The more you accommodate her in this regard, the more independent she becomes.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    I think you can find a chance to talk to your girlfriend and express the idea that you want to spend money for her, and I think she will understand you.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    It shows that the girlfriend's personality is also the kind of person who is very strong and doesn't like to ask for help. On the other hand, you may not have gained her trust yet. Because any dependency will only be directed at the people you like.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Personally, I think that if this is the case, then you should support her idea, and you can buy her some slightly cheaper items as gifts.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    I think you can respect her because a girlfriend like this is very much to be cherished.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    ..There is no way around this. There are few women who don't .. money

    It's in a woman's nature to love money!

    Isn't it weird?!

    However, I think that it is not necessary for a woman to find a rich person, but someone who is willing to spend money for her whether she has money or not.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Prove that your girlfriend has no real feelings for you and values your money more than anything else.

    Under normal circumstances, it is normal to spend money to buy things for your girlfriend, and it is your intention not to buy it at all, and the other party is angry because you buy it infrequently, because her feelings for you are not deep enough.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    , because he doesn't spend money on his girlfriend, his attitude is indifferent, it's like this, two people are in love now, if the boyfriend is not willing to spend money, or the girl will definitely be indifferent, you don't like people, people will marry you! If you don't spend money now, when will you spend money, and when you get married, you will be even more reluctant to spend money, and a man who is too stingy will not marry.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    Maybe this girlfriend of yours has no feelings for you at all, just has feelings for your money, this is also a more realistic society, when you give money, she will be hypocritical to you, good to you, you don't want to pay attention to you when you don't spend money, so he only looks at you for money, not for love.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    Because your girlfriend feels that you are too stingy, such a man is not worth it, and he will not like it, and he is reluctant to spend money to buy things for his girlfriend, she will definitely have an indifferent attitude, feel uncomfortable and uncomfortable, and after a long time, he will feel that you are not a good person, and he must have an indifferent attitude.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    If she doesn't give her girlfriend money to spend, she has an indifferent attitude, this is a woman who doesn't know how to love and is selfish. Such a woman will not live. I don't know how to cherish it. Just know to ask. Such a woman is not worthy of love.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    If you are a dime at your girlfriend and are particularly picky, then it can only mean that you don't love her enough.

    Not all girls are materialistic, spending money on your girlfriend is one of the ways to show love, and your girlfriend is indifferent to you, perhaps because she is disappointed.

    After all, girls want their boyfriends to spend money for themselves, which is a sign that proves that she is important in your heart.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    Why doesn't he have an indifferent attitude when he doesn't spend money on his girlfriend? It's normal that you mix up money to let your girlfriend spend it. If you don't let him spend it, he will feel that you don't have her in your heart and don't care about her. So indifferent to you.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    Why don't you spend money on your girlfriend? He became apathetic. I think all women want their boyfriends to spend money on themselves.

    You buy the gift yourself. It's a woman's nature to have to surprise yourself every now and then. If you don't spend money on her often, she will definitely become indifferent, which is a normal reaction of a woman.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    Hello friends, I think the attitude of not spending money on girlfriends has become indifferent, I think it's just that the money is too heavy, the money is too heavy, it's good to spend money, it's not good to spend money, I think it's not good, you have to learn, have a good attitude, you have to have a good attitude, you have to have a huh? Harmonious mentality, so that it can be good.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    Men are reluctant to spend money on women to prove that men don't have you, and such men don't associate with themselves, so they are indifferent to themselves.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    Because the girlfriend you meet is materialistic, no money and no joy! If it's the kind of spending money excessively, you should weigh whether to continue or not, and if it's reasonable consumption, that's your problem.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    Why don't you spend money on your girlfriend, she will be indifferent, you give her money to give it, you don't give her money to spend, she has an opinion about you, this is what you are used to, so if you don't give her money to spend, he will ignore you.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    Don't want such a girlfriend, because her approach is not to love you at all but to spend your money, such a money worshipper is not suitable for a good time, and now it is like this, and when they live together in the future, they will definitely not live up to the blessing if they fight and get angry because of insufficient money, so it is good to divide early.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    Why not give. You have to spend money, and he is indifferent. It shows that he doesn't really like you at all.

    You don't really like her, either. Just accomodating a friend. Or a lover.

    Catch the trend. Say you're not fit together. Nine people broke up.

    Find the one you cherish. The more they think they are paying for the one. That's what you should be doing.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    The giving between boyfriend and girlfriend is mutual, if he really just blindly takes. If you don't spend money on him, he will be angry, and such a girlfriend is not worth your nostalgia.

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    It seems that you don't get along with each other emotionally, but with money, and if you don't spend money on her, she will get angry, and it seems that she doesn't think about you at all, just thinking about how to play The money is spent.

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-04

    That shows that to a large extent, she is with you because she can spend your money, so she is indifferent to you if she doesn't spend money. Or maybe you barely spend money on her, that's why she's cold.

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-03

    Why don't you spend money on your girlfriend and she will be indifferent, because girls need to dress up, they need to spend money, if you don't spend money on her, you must be in your heart, and if you don't want to, you will be indifferent.

  37. Anonymous users2024-01-02

    If your girlfriend doesn't send him money, and he has an indifferent attitude, it is obvious that your girlfriend loves you, and money does not love you as a person, and such a girlfriend is not the best.

  38. Anonymous users2024-01-01

    Summary. In the first case, the guy can communicate directly and honestly with the girl to understand the other person's expectations and vision for the relationship, as well as the girl's real thoughts and reasons for saying this, and see if the girl has some deep reasons that are difficult to explain. If the second case is the case, the boy also needs to communicate and communicate frankly with the woman, understand the girl's expectations and requirements for him, and hope that he can adjust and improve in what aspects, so as to enhance the understanding and emotional connection between the two parties.

    Hello, I am honored to be able to serve you. Is this sentence pointing at a girl or at a boy? <>

    If the girl points to the rubber closure is that she doesn't want to pay, then, I think she may not have a firm confidence and trusting attitude towards this relationship, maybe the man does not bring enough security and trust to the woman, so the girl in order to achieve the purpose of self-protection and avoid being hurt, so she doesn't want to pay too much for this relationship. <>

    If the woman points to the boy, thinking that the boy brought her this understanding, it may be that the female Pei Mengqin has some misunderstandings about the man, or it may be that the other party really does not have a special ideal in the relationship, and does not meet the expectations and requirements of the girl, so the girl is given such an experience and feelings.

    In the first case, the boy can communicate directly and honestly with the girl to understand the expectations and vision of the relationship, as well as the girl's real thoughts and reasons for saying this, and see if the girl has some deep reasons that are difficult to explain. If it is the second case, the boy also needs to have a frank exchange and communication with the woman to understand the girl's expectations and requirements for him, and hope that he can adjust and improve in what aspects, so as to enhance the understanding and emotional connection between the two parties.

    In the relationship, if there are doubts and speculations between the two parties about the problem, the best way is to verify and verify with the other party, and exchange the true thoughts and feelings of both parties, so as not to escalate and expand the contradiction due to misunderstanding, which affects the depth of emotion. [Fresh residue resistant to which flowers].

    I hope I can help you, if you still have other questions or other sources of advice, I am very welcome to do further regret and communication <> with me

  39. Anonymous users2023-12-31

    She verbally said that you are unwilling to spend money for her, and what she thinks in her heart is that you don't love her enough, deeply, and the woman feels that the more you pay for her, the more you will be able to do it.

    The more you love. She. Do you refuse to spend money for her because you are poor and more frugal, or because you don't love her enough and are reluctant to spend it? ?

    If your girlfriend breaks up with you just because you are reluctant to spend money, it can only mean that she doesn't love you deeply, and you will break up. Anyway, there will still be such feelings if you want to. You remember that people who truly love each other do not distinguish between each other.

    What's yours is mine, and what's mine is yours. Treating the other person as oneself is true love.

  40. Anonymous users2023-12-30

    Bye-bye bye-bye, of course! There's nothing to talk about! It's okay if you don't have money, but you have to have a good attitude! It's good to get AA.

    Ask. Go Dutch? When the man picks up the girl, he also said that he wants to find a woman with similar economic conditions to him to be a GF, which may help him reduce the economic burden of Hongji, and both parties go out to negotiate the conditions for inviting dinner before going on a date.

  41. Anonymous users2023-12-29

    This shows that she has a very wrong understanding of money, but you should also buy her some AA system appropriately!

  42. Anonymous users2023-12-28

    Good evening, I'm Mr. Chaoyang and I'm glad to be able to ask you questions. <>

    First of all, here, not all women want to rely on each other, not that you spend money on him and it's over, it's not that it's over to satisfy his material life, in fact, being together is more about needing a spiritual security, at this time, if he doesn't covet your money. Then you can properly deal with a mental investment, you know? Care about him, care about him, and give him enough sense of safety.

    It also proves that such a Xiangshou woman, she is relatively empty and independent. Do you understand?

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