Who can solve my psychological problem?

You're a bit pretentious and try to put down your identity and be an ordinary self. I believe it will be fine.

Hahaha... Although you have a lot of questions.

But fortunately, you still know how to reflect, and it is completely too late to correct those problems from now on.

If you don't have it at all, then you need to reflect on it. You're still a student, and there are so many people in school, how can you not find someone who fits?

Or are you not looking for it at all? Learn to be kind, respectful, and even take the initiative. Slowly understand talents, know whether they are compatible or not, how do you know if you don't take the initiative to approach people and don't give people the opportunity to get close?

The feeling of not being understood is lonely, painful ... So you start to put down your face, let go of your arrogance, and start greeting your classmates with a smile. As long as you are sincere, even if you can't speak, there will still be people with bold personalities who are willing to be friends with you.

If you want to be friends with someone, then you have the same hobbies and common topics to discuss, so.

I don't think it's as complicated as you think, there's no need to complicate simple problems, the so-called otaku is to stay at home and not go out, except for the Internet, don't communicate and communicate with other people, so why do you have more time to go out?

How can you make a difference if you stuff yourself in one space all day?

Secondly, there is no need to impose other people's ideas on yourself, others say so, do you think you are like that? What about your own opinions?

Don't you even believe in yourself? Rather believe a text.

You may have a bit of low self-esteem, and later in your life, you try to talk to others, and it will help you! Thank you! I really hope you can get out of this predicament!

Arrogant and withdrawn. You try to relax and be at peace. Participate in more group activities, such as going out with the dormitory people to play sports, playing, participating in some activities organized by the college or student union, this is mainly to enhance your sense of community, team spirit, sometimes listen to the opinions of others, do not act alone, but also have your own position, this has to be weighed by yourself.

It will also make you mature and sensible.

I also go online a lot.,It's true that the Internet is very tempting.,But if you have other hobbies.、Interests.,I won't put all your energy on it.,I have another hobby now.,I like to go to karaoke with my classmates.。 Again, participate in more group activities and try to fit in with your classmates. If you don't try, you're running away and it's not advisable.

I suggest that you work part-time (a way to get in touch with society) or find a job on the forum**, the work will make you fulfilling, and it will also make you feel fulfilled in your work.

At the same time, communicating with others more at work, communicating, talking more (not making you whine) will make you happy, believe it or not?

Playing online games is nothing, just a way of self-satisfaction, but you can't rely on this for the rest of your life to achieve yourself.

It's normal to be arrogant, but the premise is that you are very good, in fact, most of the cattle people I have seen are relatively approachable, and you will talk about it when you have proud capital.