How do I let go of a relationship, how do I let go of a relationship

Damn, feel sorry for you, that man is a**, big**, what he said is an excuse, if he really loves you, he won't leave you alone, so, you must find him clearly, but the tone can't be too vicious, otherwise it will be self-defeating, he will annoy you, he may not pick you up ** or something or disappear in your life, you are really pitiful, I don't know how to help you, come on, you can only face your own mistakes, men can't easily believe it, ah, I really want to help you scold that man, mother, what kind of man, you really shouldn't think about him anymore, he's a bad guy, he doesn't deserve to be nice to him.

To love Him is to believe in Him.

It is happier to believe in him than to hate him.

Maybe time can make you forget everything, make your life easier, and don't let hatred weigh you down.

It's better to thank him for the feeling of love he brought you, and this relationship will be remembered as a good memory.

You've been dumped. Never mind. You're still young, and you still have a long way to go.

It is recommended that you watch "My Name is Kim Sam Shun" to see how Sam Shun is strong in the face of being abandoned by her boyfriend and rediscovering her love and career.

Be kind to yourself and put it down quickly.

Eldest sister! Can you punctuate it?

Not having money really hurts a man's self-esteem!

Don't try and force yourself to forgive someone who betrayed you.

Betrayal is already an established fact, and it is also a tragic result, if you force yourself to forgive, isn't it unprincipled, and there is no distinction between right and wrong?

Betrayal can never be truly forgotten, let alone truly let go. The only thing we can do is to make ourselves more and more peaceful and less concerned.

Trying to heal the pain with the emotion of "forgiveness" is obviously not the best way, but it will make you fall into deep self-blame and remorse, why should you be so cruel to yourself who has been betrayed?

Perhaps many people think that "forgiveness" is the highest state of forgetting, but I would like to say that in the face of betrayal, it is impossible to use "forgiveness" to forget. No one can really forget the fact of being hurt.

But those who want to forgive betrayal are not relieved, but reluctant.

Instead of being a "seemingly saint" who is "fake detached", it is better to face your emotions truthfully and accept the current situation: don't try to forgive, don't try to get rid of it, time has the most wonderful effect on any pain, what about slowing down?

Respecting the principle of emotional dissipation and emotional dilution, and bravely going through these processes at what stage should be experienced is the greatest release for yourself.

2. Don't deliberately understand the reason for the so-called "betrayal".

Why should we recognize and understand the causes of "betrayal"? Isn't this rubbing salt on the wound?

Because any betrayal is destined to be deliberate at the moment it arises, no matter what the reason, it is a human error for the "initiator", so why bother to seek and explore?

Those who often want to get themselves out of the "betrayal" will sigh for themselves while also finding reasons for the "betrayal" behavior of the other party. I thought this was to show my tolerance and open-mindedness, but I didn't know that this was the biggest punishment for myself!

This process and practice of trying to understand the reasons for "betrayal" is like a total denial of one's past; It is also a "repetition of betrayal" of himself at this moment.

We really don't have to find reasons for those betrayals or things, the reasons are really simple, it's nothing more than that: I don't love anymore, I don't love enough, I give up on you.

3. The real letting go is "forgetting to let go" and remaining insensitive.

Don't deliberately let go if you can't let go, don't force yourself to forgive if you don't want to forgive, and return to the most basic and daily life.

You can vent, scream, and even rebuke the person who betrayed you; You can also drink and indulge for three days and three nights; You can also give yourself a little vacation and do what you once wanted to do but never had the opportunity to do.

In short, you can allow yourself to give yourself an exit and a certain amount of time after being betrayed, and gain relief in the short term, but you must not let yourself fall into the abyss of self-blame and "why".

After all, no matter how much you try to find out the cause or blame yourself, the person you once loved madly no longer belongs to you.

Waiting for the passage of time, you will find that you can really face "that person" without any waves.

Put it down? It's better to think about whether most people in the world are right to let go and part. It is very likely to be a kind of pseudo-chicken soup that asks people to give up their own self.

Isn't letting go of the notion of Buddhism? But how can people live and let go, only remember. Only remembering can it fade.

Letting go will only make people cold, brutal, and beautiful.

Those who have experienced it will know that a relationship is not so easy to say let go and let go. Or think you've let it go, but you don't.

Start a relationship all over again.