Why do perfectionists have high self esteem and be cautious?

Updated on psychology 2024-04-14
33 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    I'm such a person, because I want to be recognized by others because I want to be perfect, so I have a lot of self-esteem, I care a lot about what others think, and I can't tolerate a little sand in my eyes, and I am obsessed with some small things, so I am careful.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Perfectionism is a very assertive person at heart. Strong self-esteem is not wanting to be looked down upon by others. Careful eyesight is excessive self-esteem.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Because there is no room for sand in his eyes.

    To high standards for yourself, to ask others to meet their own high standards.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    That's not perfectionism, it's a mental illness with obsessive-compulsive disorder.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    …Because he's in pursuit of perfectionism, ah......

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    There are no perfect people, only an imperfect world.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    From extreme inferiority to extreme arrogance.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    I think perfectionists just strive for perfection, but they're not necessarily smart.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    It's not absolute, some seem to be perfectionists, but in fact they are very characteristic people, with very low EQ, and smart people must have both EQ and IQ.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    If you're a perfectionist, you're basically a very smart person, and you're basically a very powerful person with this idea.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Hello, based on your question, I think that being too perfectionist is actually not smart, because being too perfect often leads to failure.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    A perfectionist doesn't have to be smart, and sometimes a perfectionist, well, is just a perfectionist in something, but that doesn't mean he's smart.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Perfectionists are not all smart, they just have their own paranoia about some things, and they are more strict with their own paranoia, but it doesn't prove that this person is particularly smart.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    They are not necessarily smart, that is, they are demanding of themselves, they are strict with themselves, they are not necessarily smart, and there are perfectionists who are not smart.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Not necessarily all of them are very smart, but they are certainly very picky, and they want to be perfect for themselves and for others.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    A perfectionist doesn't mean he's smart, a perfectionist, he's just striving for perfection when doing all sorts of things, even the tiniest details.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Perfectionists are not always very smart, and some perfectionists will make some mistakes while pursuing perfection excessively.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Perfectionists are mostly smart because they are very attentive and observant.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    It must be very smart, otherwise it is impossible to be perfect in everything, only great people can do it.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    Are perfectionists smart? No one is perfect, and he has shortcomings, but he is more knowledgeable than others and is still smart.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    Perfectionists are generally more demanding on things, and I am more rigorous in doing things by myself, so she pursues perfection and is generally smarter.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    Are perfectionists smart? Not all of them are smart, and a perfectionist means that she is more strict about things and does not always show to be very smart.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    Perfectionists may not be smart, but they must be very demanding people who cannot afford to be sloppy.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    Not necessarily some perfectionists are very intelligent and attentive, but there are some perfectionists who are completely obsessive-compulsive.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    To be precise, perfectionism is not smart. Because perfectionism is only an ideal state, nothing can be perfected.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    There is no such thing as a perfect perfectionist, there are smart people and there are non-smart people, so there is no relative absoluteness in anything.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    In fact, perfectionists are not necessarily smart, they are just exposed to different environments, so they become perfectionists, like this is actually not good. I feel bad feet.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    Perfectionists are smart, well, there are a lot of them that are smart, and there are only a few who aren't.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    It should be, because we must pursue perfection in all aspects, and we must be more intelligent people

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    Let him pursue it, everyone has the right to pursue it, usually it is more tiring to associate with this kind of person, and if you can get along, you can get along and live, and if you can't get along, you will go your own way.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    The pursuit of perfection is certainly a good performance. And the demand for perfection not only changes the original quality. On the contrary, it will be more and more suffered.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    Hehe, I'm like this, but it's nothing, it's also a cleanliness fetish.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    2) Be critical of others: If a perfectionist is a boss, he is definitely a difficult boss. While we are critical of ourselves, we will also make the subordinates around us feel a kind of pressure, because we must be very strict with our subordinates.

    3) Shame on ourselves: Because of our introversion and high standards, we are often ashamed of ourselves because we are not satisfied with something that we do well, and we often blame ourselves. Although we are smart and experienced, once we are promoted, we have no self-confidence and feel that we are not competent.

    In addition, we have no ambition to climb up, and we always feel that our position is already too high, and perhaps a lower level or two may be more suitable.

    4) Stubborn one-sidedness: We believe that everything should be judged objectively like a test with standard answers. We always feel like we're defending our beliefs and sticking to our principles.

    However, these principles may not be taken seriously by others at all. As a result, we always fight alone, often losing battles.

    5) Like to be noticed: We strive for a certain ideal. In a stable society or business, we are always quick to take a stand, feeling that compromise is humiliation, and if no one pays attention to us, we will intensify it until someone does.

    6) Overconfidence: We are unrealistic, when looking for a job, if we are not a leading company, we don't need to talk, otherwise we will stand on our own. When we work in large companies, most of us volunteer to be responsible for more work than we can do.

    As a result, the task was not accomplished, but he still did not stop swinging the bat, but wanted to make up for his previous promise with higher merits, and ended up becoming a often defeated general.

    7) Nitpicking: Perfectionists are more rounded and Zen are more likely to notice some small details and strive to improve. We like to get to the bottom of things, and we will not only be satisfied with seeing the appearance of things, but also find problems that others know they can't find, and we can find fundamental solutions to the elimination of family dialects.

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