The so called giving is to give to have to get, how can you let yourself see it?

In fact, many people know a truth of giving, but few people can really see the s giving and deed, "she" represents pain, represents abandonment, "de" represents hope, represents happiness. We always want to get it, but we don't want to give it up, we always want to get the beauty of this world, but we don't want to sing and taste the suffering of this world. And what can really make you see is actually experience, because often only when you experience it, will you understand some truths, you will know how not to force it, and you will know how to really let go.

1.Only after experiencing the baptism of pain will you be more open-minded:

In fact, we always say that we want to let ourselves write about the suffering of this world, and when we look back, we find that the ordinary is the real life, we always want to give to get it, and we also understand this truth, but when things happen to us. We are miserable, more because we have not really experienced the choice of giving and taking, because often after experiencing a certain degree of judgment and their own experience, only after experiencing will we understand all this hard-won, only after experiencing will we make ourselves more open, thank you for the experience! <>

2.Read more and gain insight at the same time, but also put yourself on another level:

In fact, many times each of our lives is so short, we can not experience all the things in this world, but we can increase our own experience through our own experience, read more books written by others, just like walking the road written by others, you only read more books by yourself, and after you have grown knowledge, you will find yourself at another level and a higher level, so that you can really see it, truly understand the meaning of giving, and truly understand that there is giving! <>

When you are faced with a choice, you must think clearly about the consequences, because when you gain something, you may lose something, you must think seriously and learn to face it calmly.

If you want to see yourself, then you must first calm your heart, there are some things that you don't have to care too much about the result, only by losing some things, you can gain other things.

There is a return for paying, you must be willing to pay for everything, and you will get as much as you give, which is also a law.

You have to learn to control your desires, you don't have to be too yourself, you don't have to be reluctant to do what you don't belong to, just be at ease.

When something happens to us, we have to accept that we have missed it. We just have to try to look forward and hold on to it the next time we meet.

Tell yourself that what belongs to you will eventually come, and that some things are a burden in themselves, and letting go will make it easier for you.

In life, we must adjust our mentality, don't put too much pressure on ourselves, and face everything in life with an optimistic attitude, only in this way can we let ourselves see it.

It is normal for people to lose something all the time in their life, so we should not always look at how much we have lost, but look at what we really have.

True love is not expressed in words, it comes from the heart, when you fall in love with someone, your whole heart will be attracted to the person you love, fascinated by him (her), concerned for him (her), I hope you can see him (her) every minute, when you can't see him, you will always think about him (her), you will be excited when you see it, your heart beats faster, you will feel very warm and safe when you are together, really! Positive love a person will willingly take care of him (her) care for him (her), give him (her) everything he (she) wants, see your loved one happy you will also be happy, see him (her) troubles you will also follow the troubles, but you will do everything to make your loved one happy and happy, the real love of a person will want to grow old with him (her), and he (her) with each other, you will look forward to using all your love to bring him (her) the greatest happiness, and you also get another happiness in this process! I often think of him (her) and am happy, I mind him (her) very much, I care about him (her) very much, without him (her) it seems to have lost something, with him (her) I have happiness.

Feel it with your heart··

It's better not to see. It's better to forget.

The so-called reluctance means to be willing to give up. As the saying goes: "If you are willing to cut your body, you dare to pull the emperor off the horse." The meaning of giving is clearly expressed.

Giving and giving are two contradictory aspects. Giving up means abandoning, and there is a saying of giving up and giving up; De is the meaning of obtaining, and there is an explanation of obtaining and obtaining. But to be willing to use it as a phrase becomes a kind of will and gesture.

There is an explanation in Buddhist teachings about giving: "giving" is "giving", but he has nothing to give, and he has no gain, which is called "giving". "Shede" was first published in "The Four Disciplines of Liaofan". Buddhists believe that everything achieves itself in "giving".

The word "willing" has a rich connotation in the language of our country. Buddhism believes that giving is gaining, and gaining is giving, just as color is emptiness and emptiness is color; Taoism believes that giving up is doing nothing, and getting is doing, the so-called "doing nothing and doing nothing"; According to Confucianism, sacrifice evil to gain benevolence, and sacrifice desire to obtain holiness; In the eyes of modern people, "giving" is paying, contributing, and investing, and "getting" is the result, output, and recognition. Therefore, "willingness" is the embodiment of a philosophical thought, and it is also a choice that life must face.

Willing, willing, giving will be gained. Giving up is philosophy, it is the realm of life, and it is a kind of great wisdom! If you win, you will lose!

Letting go of what you don't want to let go of is giving up.

What you expect is what you don't expect.

Dream of Red Mansions Chapter 46": The old lady left the mandarin duck and couldn't eat, so she was willing to give it there.

Giving up is a kind of affection, a spirit, an art, a kind of understanding, it is not only a philosophy in life, but also the wisdom of dealing with the world, but also a state of life. Willing, there will be gain, there will be gain, there will be loss: small and small will be big, there is no reluctance, first learn to give.

Give up some and have some.

Willing to give, there is a gift to get, the old saying: fish, I want, bear's paw, also I want, the two can not have both, give up the fish and take the bear's paw; Life, also what I want, righteousness, also what I want, can not have both, sacrifice life and take righteousness. This means that when you have a trade-off between two things, you can't get both.

You can only discard one and choose the other. Many people often feel that it is a pity to give it up, and it is an honor to get it. Actually, it's not like that, and it's an honor to give it up.

Because if you are willing to give, you will have to give. If you've always had something that doesn't quite belong to you, or isn't right for you. So what's the point of having him all the time?

What is given is desire, and what is obtained is the blue sky. What is given is persistence, and what is obtained is joy. If you are willing to give up, you will get if you are willing to give; Gains and losses, gains and losses, gains and losses. If you see through it and let it go, you will know how to make trade-offs.

Hello. Giving up is a Chinese word, there is a giving to get, if you want to get, you must give up that is, you are willing to pay, not stingy. Giving up is a kind of wisdom and attitude in life, and it is the feeling and wisdom to go beyond the realm to make decisions about what has been obtained and what can be obtained.

It is also a kind of "life Zen" that is appreciated by both the elegant and the vulgar and enlightens the mind.

I think giving up is also a kind of life attitude, not necessarily to give up to get, but to have the courage to give up, only to give up the bad, it is possible to get better! For example, a person always likes to buy some ** things, but in fact, these things are not necessarily useful for life, buy more and more things, and the living environment is becoming more and more crowded, only when she gives up these unwanted things, the environment she lives in will be more comfortable!

Of course, only what was left behind came back, and this is overjoyed.

1. The word "giving", looking at the two words separately, "giving" naturally means "abandoning". "De" means "to get". There are those who give up in order to gain, and those who gain will lose them.

2. Shede also has the meaning of the adjective "generous" in some local dialects, for example, when Hubei people often praise their generosity, they will say: "So-and-so is so willing".

3. If you understand it more deeply, the word "giving" actually implies a certain philosophy of life, that is, "there is a giving to gain", only if you are willing to give up you can you gain more, so this saying is often used.

4. Memorize this sentence, which is more understandable and intelligent, and is also commonly used in daily life. ‍

That is: don't be obsessed with a thing that can't belong to you, that may make you lose a lot, you must know how to let go, let go, only in this way will you have your own part of the beauty, but the premise is that you can really let go?

It mainly means that if something is not ownerless and useless to oneself, it must be abandoned, and only then will it be suitable for oneself. In love, since the other party doesn't love you, then you have to learn to give up, you should go with the flow, don't force it if it doesn't belong to you, there is no way to decide people.

People have feelings, and that sentence is the meaning of "reciprocating the peach".