Life is like this, you can t cheer up, you can t pursue joy and happiness. I was in a lot of pain

Start to change yourself now As long as you know your mistakes and change them, it's good We all have to live well Because we will die for a long time Everything will pass, don't blame yourself Don't think too much Read more inspirational books If you can't help it next time, go and steal time Don't close yourself, people are social animals Not beasts The difference between us and animals is that we have thoughts We have more delicate feelings Believe in yourself to go on well... Friends, there will be no less He, is waiting for you in the distance There is time to see the sunrise, life is actually very beautiful.

When I was in high school, I stole other people's books in order to improve my grades, and the purpose was good, but the process was not very glorious! But what is there about it? You're repentant, aren't you?

Don't keep holding on to the luck mentality and don't steal now! I've already worked, try to let go of yourself, your own psychology is dark, and your gray self may not be what others see you! Why not live in the sun?

No one says you're inferior to ordinary people, that's just your own feelings! Whose life is above board? No one! Don't magnify the mistakes you've made, because they're all in the past.

Murderers still have a chance to repent! Now you've come to your senses, it's not too late!!

From now on, find a friend, have a good chat, preferably an extrovert, and learn more from him the secret of "happiness"!

I wish you a happy life in the future!

The prodigal son does not change his money!

You are mainly not confident. You may wish to do more things that you are good at, so that you can remember and increase your self-confidence.

Also, communicate with the friends you think are coming, so that before you know it, you will let go.

Get a psychiatrist. The problem is serious.

Writing too much, it looks tiring!

It is recommended that you see a psychiatrist.

It's okay to look at the blue sky and the sea, there are so many things in this world that we should pursue, and this world is not hopeless.

It should be related to the education from an early age, your parents cared too little about you, and communicated too little, so that you lacked the ability to communicate with people. You realize that your mistakes are not too serious, and slowly overcome them.

Was your family poor at that time? Knowing that mistakes can be corrected is a good child--

Forget all the unpleasantness of the past! Maybe you can change your habits, you know where your problems are, then better, you can try to contact more people, talk to them, and soon you can improve yourself!

In fact, it's better to forget the character that caused by self-blame.

If you blame yourself, you are still very good.

And swoop. You're also very young. Who didn't let go of mistakes when they were young?

If you take some things that you have done wrong to make your life so miserable, I think you are really tired and very fortunate to be like this. But remember. Many times people make mistakes. The most unforgivable self is yourself!

But as a human being, it's good to change your mistakes.

You lack friends or confidants.

It's true. I feel sorry for you. Saying goes. Lookers-on see most of the game.

You don't want to go on like this.

It's time to forgive yourself. Just forgive yourself. Then communicate and communicate with people more!

Everyone has their own abhorrent past, which no one can avoid, after all, people are not saints and sages. The key is to change the past in the future, don't bear too much psychological pressure, let the past pass, and face the future bravely. I also want to improve myself from all aspects, improve my literacy, and be interested.

Unpleasant、Forgetting is the best。

It's been so long, it doesn't matter anymore.

When I came out to work, I could joke with my classmates and friends about things at school.

It doesn't matter, if you have stolen Zhang San's book, you can now call ** to explain to him (or her) in person, say what you thought at the time, what you think now, and sincerely admit your mistakes to him (or her). Generally speaking, old classmates don't pay so much attention to the past, and they generally don't take it to heart for a long time, and they will forgive you.

When things are said, classmates may make some jokes about you as a thief, but it's just a joke between friends, and they won't take it that seriously.

If you open it, the knot will be released. There's nothing uncomfortable about it.

There are times when people make mistakes, especially during the teenage years. This is the most normal thing.

If someone has not made a mistake, then he (or she) is certainly not a normal person.

I also stole money from my family when I was a kid and was beaten badly.

Now I have also graduated with a Ph.D.

People, make mistakes, just correct them.

Don't always think about it.

It's boring to think about these things every day.

Be happy and live well.

happily go find a friend of the opposite sex and get ready to get married and live.

Wishing you happiness and happiness!

If you can completely get rid of the habit of thieves, it will still be accepted by society. Let's start by getting rid of bad habits, take the initiative in communicating with others, think more about your strengths, and be confident to come out of the shadows!

Take up self-confidence. Let the past things go over, start over, look up, look at the sunshine and say to themselves that they can, come on. Don't be negative, that won't help you, only if you have the courage to fight, you will be happy. Come on, come on.

If you don't have confidence in yourself, encourage yourself more, and be an upright person, alas, it's all the fault of society, so it's not okay to rely on others, work your own, remember to be down-to-earth,

Why do you think so?,I don't think you're as much as you think.。。。 Don't look down on yourself. Your behavior back then may indicate that you have some kind of mental illness or obsessive-compulsive disorder.

The symptom is: I didn't want to do it, but I did it. I regretted it very much afterwards.

Luckily, your tendency is to just take your classmates' books and those little things. Time has passed, but these things are becoming more and more of a burden for you. Make your heart heavier.

Advice: See a psychologist. They are very professional.

We laymen may not be able to solve your roots. Because OCD has a reason, your cause needs to be answered by a doctor. (According to my analysis, it may be that the study pressure was too high back then, and I came up with the idea of taking other people's books and making others get high scores if they can't learn.)

Stress can also come from the family).

Another: Don't give up on yourself. Your behavior is a little immoral, but not to the point of giving up on yourself.

If you have family members who love you, think about them. You should let go of yourself and live a relaxed and happy life. Because you have already said what you did back then, and your heart has repented about it for so long, it is enough.

There is no need to give up your life for this. Life is always going on, and it's your own creation!

Don't be so unconfident in yourself, everything will pass, and the bread will be.

I can understand your feelings, I used to be in a similar situation to you in the class, because it is the best middle school in the county, so the competition is very fierce, my grades are very inconspicuous in the class, and I am introverted and don't communicate with people much. Life was also very depressing, and in the end I failed the college entrance examination. I am repeating my studies this year, and I only found myself in a new school, my grades are among the best in the class, the teachers will pay more attention to me, and there is some communication between classmates.

I feel that I am a little more cheerful, and I have to take the college entrance examination in ten days, and I feel that it is time for me to harvest. Actually, what I want to say is, if you are still in a very depressed situation. You should find a new environment to start living the life you want, of course, you need to be fully prepared before committing to the new environment, you should build yourself according to your ideal self, you can buy a few sets of good clothes, change your hairstyle ......These are very important, and for others to respect you, you have to respect yourself first.

In the new environment, you can start from scratch, no one will know your past, you can completely let go of yourself and change yourself. I hope you get out of this situation soon.

You need to change, maybe you've tried to change, but you're not sticking to it, are you? Change requires persistence, we are changing, and we are progressing. If you want to change the perception and attitude of others towards yourself, you must first change yourself.

It is recommended that you read the relevant books, and perseverance will win. Also, be patient! If you want to get something, you have to give up something else!!

If you want to get it, you have to give it up! Go to a psychiatrist, consult, it's not good to be stuffy like this, or you can read the relevant books yourself.

Look at the point, everything is illusory.

thief"? Do you think you're a thief? If yes, then it means that you completely admit that you have given up on yourself, so I'm sorry, no one can persuade you, please think about it, in fact, everyone is God's masterpiece, try to associate with others and you will find that the original self-confidence gives you such a sense of achievement.

Don't be discouraged, when people make mistakes, just change them, I used to have a classmate like this, and now I mix very well.

You are very unconfident, it may be caused by this shadow in your heart, but after many years, you don't want to steal things to exchange money or anything, just to study, in fact, if you feel that it is really difficult to stand in your heart, if you don't want to let go and try to bring jokes to your former friends, maybe your friend won't mind, maybe he won't believe it, he just thinks you're joking, and he won't care, so you don't care whether they believe it or not, at least you say it yourself, If they didn't care at that time, you wouldn't have to tire yourself anymore Who hasn't let go of the mistakes, not to mention when I was a child, I was saying that it was enough to atone for my sins after suffering for so long Now you have to reposition yourself, you can't live in the shadows The past will let him pass, and the future will let him come Ha It's easier to say this, but it may be more difficult to do, it's okay, take your time, and believe in yourself The most important thing is to believe in yourself!

"Stealing books is not a thief" remember who said it? You also feel that you are wrong, so change it, it's not too late to make amends. Don't have a burden in your heart, correct your mentality, and bravely contact with your classmates and colleagues around you.

It's just that I look down on myself, and it's hard to read so many books for you, I don't even know what you've learned? It's sad! I don't think your family knows if they have communicated with you and enlightened you... If you had, you wouldn't be like this.

I feel that you have a problem in your heart, I don't know if it is caused by a bad family environment or other reasons, there must be a reason for it, you should reflect on yourself, carefully analyze how you are like this, or pay more attention to observe what your peers around you do.

When I saw this question posted again, I was speechless. That's it all. If you don't come out yourself, no one will get you.

Think about it for yourself, whether you want to live well or not. Don't be cowardly, be brave, let go of this little thing, and use your own ability to make up for your mistakes in the future. Get a psychiatrist.

Good luck coming out of the shadows soon. Don't be depressed anymore.

People live to experience joys and sorrows, birth, old age, sickness and death, in order to understand what people live for? In order to realize their own ideals, pursuits, goals, desires and values. Life is very tiring, very hard because the society is very unfair, life is very helpless, sad and sad to cry, find something to do, it is not boring Because, life is like this No one's life is smooth sailing, as long as you work hard, it is wonderful!

Be optimistic about anything and keep a normal heart. As long as you remember: don't give up this second, there will be a miracle in the next second Life is inevitable to fall and wait, you must be brave to look up, the sun is always after the wind and rain!

I'll give you advice, can you see it? 1.

Look at the world with another eye, not everyone in this world is very smooth, just look at how you solve it, for example, you were hit by someone while walking, others apologized to you, sometimes you still feel very angry, but you didn't expect that the person who hit you was actually more uncomfortable than you, Or think about the sentence "Happy is also a day, unhappy is also a day, why not be happy every day". 2.If you think that you will be in a bad mood, then you don't have to think about it, if you still want to, then keep yourself busy, let yourself have no time to think about it, let yourself live every minute to the fullest, and then don't fall in love with the bed when you wake up in the morning, get up when you wake up, get busy, open the window, breathe in the fresh morning air, relax your whole body, and let yourself imagine a happy little angel ...... 3.

Choose a place with fresh air, quiet surroundings, soft light, undisturbed and free movement, and take a position where you feel comfortable standing, sitting or lying down. 4.Move some large joints and muscles of the body, do it at an even and slow speed, the movement does not need to have a certain format, as long as you feel the joints let go and the muscles relax.

5.Take a deep breath, inhale slowly and exhale slowly, saying "relax" in your mind whenever you exhale. 6.

Focus your attention on some everyday objects. For example, look at a flower, a little candlelight, or anything soft and beautiful, and look at the subtleties of it. Light some spices and inhale the aroma of it.

7.Close your eyes and try to imagine some tranquil and beautiful scenes, such as blue waters, golden sandy beaches, white clouds, mountains and water. 8.

Do activities that you enjoy that have nothing to do with the specific things at hand. For example, swimming, taking a hot bath, shopping, listening, watching TV, etc. 9.

Life is easy, life is easy, life is not easy. Don't worry, there are a lot of people in this society who are almost like you, but they are all happy to live, not everyone can succeed, as long as you work hard to treat everything, take life seriously, as long as you take every day seriously, no matter how your life is, I believe it is wonderful. .

I sincerely hope that you are happy and happy every day! ~