I want to change, what do you want to change

The problem in the class is easy to solve, it is to find a chance to fight, it doesn't matter whether you win or lose, the key is to play your never-say-die temperament. Of course, if you are lying on your stomach and trying your guts, it will be better to exercise first, and then fight like that. Also, don't clash with many people at the same time, you can pick a thin point and beat him.

After the fight, you can no longer be as weak as before, and I believe that your living environment will be improved. I also have a similar experience, when I was a child, a group of 2b classmates always troubled me, and they blocked me on the way home after school, and after I took a knife and fought with them, they were honest, but don't take a knife, it's very dangerous. Well, that's all there is to say so that your environment at school changes, at least no one will bully you anymore.

Speaking of friends, I had very few friends at the time, because there were no people my age around my family, but they had known each other since childhood. Since I fought with them, they don't bully me anymore, but I don't have any real friends, what I did at that time was to study, accumulate a lot of money, then I was at the bottom of our class, and then when I graduated, I became the first in the grade, and the study problem was solved. So what about the question you asked my friend that hasn't been solved yet?

In fact, I don't need to think about friends at this time, why?

First, when my grades are good, my teachers and classmates will naturally change their opinions about me, and at that time, others will take the initiative to approach you and be willing to become friends with you.

Second, after going to school, there will be many opportunities for new people to come into contact with in the new environment, as long as you have your own advantages, you will not worry about friends.

Your father's problem.

In fact, every father wants his child to grow up healthily, and you should understand him. He may have some bad things or another, but I'm sure he still cares about you. He says something harsh to you just as he cares about you, the problem is that he can't express it well.

What you have to do is to change his attitude towards you with practical actions, you think about what he needs from you, in fact, every parent is the same, it is nothing more than a better academic performance, so that he can talk to others with a face. So be a good student, boy!

Now let's talk about the question of you being gay.

I think your idea is inaccurate, why. In fact, in the final analysis, the reason is that you have been in a weak position for a long time, others always bully you, and you want to be protected by others. That is to say, this is a negative product of the environment you are in now, when you change your own environment, you will be confident in yourself, your mentality will also change, you will be in contact with more people and things in the future, it will be fine, you can ignore this problem now, how old are you, think too much.

Take out your man's courage, prove that you are a man, give up homosexuality, homosexuality is your doubt that you are a man, that is, you are not confident, so be confident, friend! You must change, men are not necessarily absolutely interested in women, but they must not have sexual fantasies about men, the more others treat you as a woman, the more men you will be! It is the fate of men and will never change!

So stubbornly raised his head and said to this tormented world"No, I'm a man! Today is, and always will be! "

You are young and gentle. Everyone has their own life, for example, if a person can live to be 70 years old, then you still have a long way to go.

You can take some time to gather some common sense, get a more complete understanding of your doubts, and then slowly adjust.

The longer you stick to it, the more you will change.

The previous ones. Don't you think it's useless to give points, add 846854746....Try to help you.

We want people to change their behavior, not because they fear punishment for continuing to do so, but because they see other options that can better meet their needs at a lower cost. It's hard for people to change if they realize that our only purpose is to change them or if they feel blamed for what you want to change because of their behavior.

Event: A student joined the voluntary tutoring group with several other students at 8:10 every morning for the past month, and his learning enthusiasm and state are very good. He didn't expect to score 24 points in the monthly exam yesterday, which was also unexpected.

Me: I was so hungry that after you got the answer sheet and knew the results, your face was not good in the morning, and you basically didn't look up in a class. You're disappointed in yourself and feeling frustrated, aren't you?

Student: Yes, Teacher, I've worked so hard this month that I thought I could get 40 points. (My observation, my experience of his feelings).

Me: I know you're in a hurry, you're very worried about next Saturday's academic proficiency test, and you especially hope that you can pass it successfully. Then I would like to ask you, do you think your English learning has improved recently? (His feelings and needs).

Student: Of course there has been progress, teacher. I didn't know any grammar before, and I didn't know a few words, but now I silentize the words by myself every night, and then post them in the group you created. In addition, I can understand the tense and part of speech you talk about in class.

Me: I feel very happy and encouraged to hear you say that. George Bernard Shaw, the British Nobel laureate in literature, once said that progress cannot be without change, and those who are unwilling to change their ideas cannot change anything.

Not only have I seen your progress, but I have also felt your changes. Before English class, you used to sleep on your stomach, and the quizzes were all guesses, right? (My Feelings and Observations).

Student: That's right, I didn't understand it at all, because the junior high school teacher never cared about our migrant children, and I didn't learn English at all. I started to do the English test paper seriously, I was doing it, I fell asleep, and it was Mr. Huang who woke me up.

Me: I see, if you didn't fall asleep during the exam, you think your grades would be a little bit higher, right?

Student: That's for sure, because when I do the test paper, I can do some of the questions if I understand them.

Me: My dear, the teacher has a request, I invite you to take every class, every exam, every assignment seriously, is that okay? (My request).

Student: Teacher, I think so.

Me: It's only 8 days until the academic proficiency test, can we do it all at once?

Student: Teacher, I have confidence. I have to pass the academic proficiency test. (His needs).

Student: Thank you, teacher.

1. Exercise for half an hour every day, you can run, play badminton, swim, etc. This will allow you to be energetic and in a better position to face work and life. 2. Insist on reading for one to two hours a day.

This can change your mind, change your behavior, and change your outward temperament. 3. Diet conditioning, pay attention to health, go to bed early and get up early, this can help you have a healthy body.

Stick to the above three points for a while, and you will find yourself quietly changing!