What should I do, do I go for it or give up? Please advise the heroes

Let it be. Love can't be forced. Of course, you have an advantage, because you work with her and have more opportunities, so you should have more contact with her at ordinary times, maybe she wants to know more about you.

If her current boyfriend is not as good to her as you are, you will have a good chance after a long time. But, on the other hand, his current boyfriend is from the same hometown as her, so if you consider getting married, you have a little weaker advantage. So, work hard to make sure you can give her the happiness and life she wants.

You yourself said that you like her because she is very similar to the girl you used to like, that proves that you really don't love her that much!

If you like it, you will work hard to pursue it. If she's not married, you have a chance. Go for it ...

If you love her enough, stick to it!

In that case, let's pursue it. Both people have feelings, it depends on how you choose, if two people have a future, it is possible to love decisively and boldly. As for her boyfriend, you can completely ignore it, because only if you do better can you replace her boyfriend.

Let it be, it's good to be ambiguous, but at that time, it was embarrassing to be a confidante who was clear, and people had boyfriends.

I'm sorry IMHO

Does she have any problems with her ex-boyfriend? (She didn't pedal 2 boats) She also showed you that she couldn't forget her ex-boyfriend, so she couldn't accept you, so what are you struggling with, and what does this have to do with Sunshine Girl? What's wrong with her trying to deal with her ambivalence in an ambiguous way?

Boy: You think too much and you care too much.

Please adjust your mood for falling out of love, and don't distort other people's mentality just because you haven't caught it, it's not good.

Please make yourself happy.

No matter how smart a woman is, she can be a sheep in terms of feelings, the key is whether you are the wolf or not. Every woman has a hole of death. Besides, people have a mentality, too much to my liking, I think it's too cheap, and I don't cherish the people in front of me.

Therefore, chasing girls, distance, and rhythm are more difficult to grasp.

Chasing her, but she can't confirm whether you are chasing her, ambiguity may be the most difficult thing for a woman to resist. Because in ambiguity, women can satisfy their infinite imagination. If you're chasing her openly, everything is already clear, and there's no taste for it.

Got it? Don't show your cards when you haven't completely captured a woman.

And innocence is naturally a good thing, which is good for the future. But in the matter of chasing women, there must be a strategy.

Let's put it down and relax.

Women in love are very stupid, and what is your relationship, friends, you want to care about her, but he doesn't accept it at all, is it interesting? You know him, you know him, but that's just what you think, what about him? Do you really know him?

Let it go, brother.

Maybe they have unknown hardships between them, and they can't be together, before they understand the whole picture, don't talk nonsense, as if you are indignant because of rejection, no matter what, as a boy, you can afford to let it go, since you and that woman are impossible, just let it go, don't dwell on it anymore, her affairs have nothing to do with you, right?

You haven't started yet, so don't get too tangled and don't give up a forest for a tree!

If you love each other very much, but can't have each other, then stay away, love is between two people and hormones attract each other to have a magnetic field, outsiders are almost in, then look at the behavior of angry girls, it is better to stay away, out of sight is clean, you can also enjoy the body and mind, contact new friends and find more, when the girl regrets and repents, he will see your good, everything else is in vain, while keeping a distance, while enjoying life, how good.

In love, a woman's IQ is reduced, since it is best to be able to withdraw from it, and there is no need to dwell on things that have nothing to do with you in the future.

Give it up! She's not for you, it's only a matter of time before someone like her gets played! If she is not hurt a little, she will not know what love is!

Just wait for her to regret it! Self-righteous, thinking that she is very smart, in fact, others sold her, and she still laughed and counted the money for others! I hate such people, friend, I see that you are a person of affection, and I advise you, even if she is with you, you will hurt yourself in the end!

It is recommended that you stay away from this woman with complex feelings in your heart and find your true love again! Don't waste your youth!

Give up, find a woman like that, and you'll suffer forever

If you love wrong, you love wrong, and the sooner you see through it, the sooner you can be liberated.

Men, give yourself some confidence! Why should you always be trapped in the shadow of wanting to pursue her? Why not take a different approach.

For example, if you start your career first, if she really has a relationship with you or has you in her heart, she will also pay attention to you. There are many ways to do this! I'm just one of them.

Finally, I would like to advise my brother: If she doesn't care about you, then why should you care about her!! Everyone has the potential to find a partner who is destined for them.

Often, what you see in front of you is not as good as what you are when you are. Give yourself some confidence! Brother supports you!!

She may still not be able to let go, she can never forget that person, keeping in touch is a kind of sustenance, and she may still have some fantasies. You can't be on a tree, there are many people waiting for you to discover. I see that you have written so much with deep affection. Sympathize...

What about her and him, that's their business. The person you like doesn't like you, it's not something you can control and change. You either wait or walk away. is so entangled, there are so many good women in the world, why hang themselves on a tree. No need!

Give it up, the idea of a girl nowadays is very strange. They're playing ambiguous, and there's nothing left to do with you.

I also gave up, it's not that I don't like this, it's just that I can't afford it!

Not being able to forget is the proof that your love is present and profound, don't deliberately forget, don't indulge in pain for a long time, everyone.

Have your own journey, there will be all kinds of passers-by along the way, every relationship and every experience everyone is a mark left by life, whether the memories are beautiful or painful, they have already happened, learn to thank everyone in life who has met or parted.

Time is the best medicine, as time goes by, everything is no longer as unforgettable as it was at the beginning, adjust your mentality, life is short, youth is limited, you will not have too much time to wait to reminisce and pain, face everything with a normal heart, you will have more energy to face the future