What to do when a man is looking for clues that he doesn t want you?

There's basically no way to stop it. It's the same as picking a bone in an egg. How can I find out if I want to find some questions for you? If you want to solve it, you can only stop it at the root. Why the other party is looking for clues about you, find a way to change his attitude.

Men start to say that they don't want you for various reasons You need to cheer up If you are married, look at how the property is divided If you are not married, you don't have to worry too much There are many inappropriate for men and women to fall in love You also have to find a man who loves you Men don't love you anymore Barely tired to be together You work hard to earn money You live better than anything else.

When a man is looking for clues that he doesn't want you, it's time for you to get a divorce. If you do it right, you won't be afraid of him looking for it. At this time, you need to find a lawyer to start looking at how much you can get after the divorce, and what to do with the children.

He wants to break up with you, there must be someone out there, and it will be good for you if you can find evidence.

For men who find reasons not to want you, they should turn around and leave in style, don't have any nostalgia for a lifetime, don't hurt themselves to anyone's mistakes, women should live freely and happily, and don't feel sad for anyone.

If you really love you, you will never give up, true love will not be defeated before hearing your answer, if you are testing a man, please respect yourself, feelings do not need to be tempted, this kind of temptation is to humiliate the other party's feelings for you.

Usually in this case, it is good to take a beating.

If he behaves like this, it proves that he doesn't love you at all in his heart and just wants to find a suitable reason to break up with you, since he doesn't want to be with you anymore, what's the point of you staying by his side? Since you don't love it, you choose to let it go, and the love you get by force will not be happy.

Don't do bad things, don't be afraid of ghosts knocking on the door, let him find it.

But if you do something wrong, then ......

What is the problem? In order for a man not to want a woman, such a mother-in-law is enough.

I feel that men secretly love you and you will often peek at you. In most cases, a man likes someone and will pursue her fiercely. But there are also a few men who, even if they love each other deeply, will not say it.

However, something like affection is hard to hide. When you like someone, even if you think you're well hidden, you'll still show some clues. Men love you "secretly" and do not dare to express it, but will reveal these "clues".

Look at you oftenWhen you fall in love with someone and want to hide it, your eyes can't lie. The more we care about someone, the more we like someone, and the more our eyes will look at each other. This trace of love is often manifested in an instant.

When he sees you from a distance, his calm eyes are a little flustered. Looking forward to seeing your eyes, but afraid of being discovered. I can only pretend to look at you nonchalantly and look away.

In an instant, I passed by and stole a glance at you out of the corner of my eye.

When two people are chatting, the longer the other person looks at you。This suggests that he may be more interested in you than the content of the chat itself. Of course, the more likely he is to like you.

On the other hand, if you have too little time, your interests may be relatively small. Even the topic of conversation is not interesting.

Took good care of youIn a man's mind, when he wants to pursue a woman, he will try his best to show his various strengths. Women are naturally weak and not as tall as men. When they encounter heavy physical labor, they will want to show the strength of their "boyfriend".

For example, helping you to lift something, or lifting something higher. Gentle men will want to show their gentleness. Gentle men will open the door for you, bring you breakfast and care about things around you.

Although my love for you has never been expressed, he has also silently shaped my image in your heart. They may not express themselves particularly actively because the feeling is too obvious.

When we don't know each other, we make a good impression on you first. Only when the time is ripe will he increase his interaction and contact with you. So I think men secretly love you and you will peek at you often.

The above is a personal opinion.

These two sentences are not at all the same concept.

He will often peek at your various behaviors.

He is easily impulsive when he encounters something with you.

He's thrilled when he encounters something about you.

It may be revealed from all sides.

1. It's all about feeling, and if you feel right, it's going to be true.

Let's get a divorce. Ten years! Woman's youth!

divorce and marry him.

I just finished chatting with such a woman, and she is worse than you.

。。。Catch your husband's pigtails, expose them on the spot, and get a divorce.

If you think about it, you will get divorced, and remember that the premise is that you must think about it.

If you like the man you meet, you talk to your husband about divorce, he is willing to leave, maybe they will be happy, he does not leave, you tell him what you think, either go home often, or take you with you. Take care of the family.

Either you find out the evidence. Explain to him and leave him. Or live a good life.

It's everyone's need, don't grind.

First of all, it's not right for you to flip through her Weibo. Quarrels, there is no couple who does not quarrel. There's no need to look for any clues, I won't choose you if I don't love you!

Do you love her or not? You don't love her before, it's now. Be open to yourself and her and your love now!

The more experienced I know, the more I know how to manage and cherish. Give each other a relaxed vibe. No matter how firmly you look, you can't stop running!

As long as you love her enough, she will live up to you, remember one sentence: to love a woman, you don't need to know her more, as long as you love her enough! You will be her whole world.

If you want to open up, she definitely didn't know if her ex-boyfriend was 12 or 1234 before she met you. Work hard, I hope you won't just be in her top 5

Some things are more understanding and tolerant, people are selfish, all like this, of course, if she hasn't told you about her ex-boyfriend, and then she has been in touch with them, I think you should talk to her and say it calmly.

I think it's all in the past, the present is the most important, you have to believe her when you are with her, don't compare, and don't always think about her past, otherwise you will have to divide sooner or later, and it is enough to live happily every day.

It's not fun to look for yourself.。。 I know that I will be in a bad mood when I see it, and I still go to it, since I choose to be together, I don't care about the past of both parties.

Don't take what happened to her before and get angry with yourself now, what happened then has nothing to do with you. I want to be better, don't look for her so-called incriminating evidence, you go to your brother to play by yourself, only when you are happy can you be really happy. Emotional things are done willingly.

To love someone is to tear off your own skin and mend her wounds.

How are you upset? Slightly sore, angry, worried, tired?

Don't think nonsense, ask things clearly.

In fact, when two people are together, I personally feel that I don't want to mention the past, and the past is over, and the two of them have a good chat and communication, which can solve a lot of problems.

Send a message to the guy and he quickly replies to your message, indicating that he saw your message the first time.

However, if the person never initiates contact you, there are a number of reasons. Either it's a personality issue, or there's a special reason. Maybe he doesn't care about the relationship with you, or you really don't mean that much to him.

You have to think seriously about your relationship with this person, whether you want to continue to associate with him.

Of course, here we have to make it clear what is the relationship between you and him, whether it is an ordinary friend relationship or a lover relationship.

If it's a friendship, don't worry too much about this situation. Because many people just never take the initiative to contact others, but in fact, others are also very good. If it's a romantic relationship, it's a bit uncomfortable.

The specific situation still needs to be looked at on a case-by-case basis You can't generalize about everything.

The boy sent a message to him in seconds but never took the initiative to contact, the possible reasons are:

1. He has no feelings for you: When you get along with the opposite sex, a man no longer takes the initiative to contact you, not a sudden decision, but a deliberate plan. If I can hold back and not contact you, most of them have no feelings for you, look down on you, and don't want to entangle with you anymore, after all, people's hearts are slowly becoming indifferent.

Of course, for a man who never takes the initiative to contact you, a woman should also ask yourself if you can still feel that you are being loved, after all, a man who loves you will take the initiative to let you into his heart, because he really needs you and wants to put you in his heart, so he will often take the initiative.

In fact, in the process of getting along with the opposite sex, whether a man has you in his heart or not, women can perceive it, don't always have illusions, stupidly think that others may be busy, sometimes men don't take the initiative to contact you, because he thinks, it's the same with you or not, there is no feeling for you, women should understand.

2. Test whether you care about him: In the world of feelings, there is no love and hate for no reason. When you get along with the opposite sex, a man no longer takes the initiative to contact you, there must be a reason, maybe not because he doesn't love you, but because he loves you too much, he will use this passive waiting method to test how much he cares in your heart, after all, men also need a sense of security.

Therefore, when suffering from gains and losses in a relationship, men will try to use various ways to test or test a woman's sincerity, and will rely on various clues and details to measure a woman's love and dedication, and not taking the initiative to contact is one of the ways.

3. Innate character: When getting along with the opposite sex, every woman desires to be pampered, which is a woman's nature. In fact, some men are indeed born with a character, and they are obviously full of joy, but they are ashamed to express it.

Of course, there are also men, although they don't take the initiative to contact, but they are always very enthusiastic after receiving your messages, and they can always reply in seconds, in fact, most men like this also love you.

It's just that because of the introverted personality, I am ashamed to take the initiative to contact you, I am afraid of being disappointed, I am afraid that you will ignore him, I am afraid that my initiative will disturb you, or I don't know how to communicate with you, etc. Therefore, if a man does not take the initiative to contact you, sometimes it is not that you are not important, it has to be different from person to person, and it also depends on what kind of personality he has.

He may have a good impression of you, but maybe because he has been rejected before, he is worried about being rejected again, and he is also worried that he will be wrong, maybe he is still hesitating and waiting, but it is very likely that he just treats you as a friend, and you send him back to you is a kind of respect for you, and he doesn't take the initiative to send it to you because he doesn't want you to misunderstand that he replied to you because he likes you, after all, few boys will not take the initiative to the girl they like once.

In fact, it may just be that the boy is more shy and not good at taking the initiative to contact others, and it can be said in seconds that you still have a place in that boy's heart, maybe it's just that someone's personality restricts him, you can give a little initiative to guide the boy to take the initiative to contact you.

If it's the guy you like, it's your own careful thinking, maybe he doesn't like you at all, maybe he has a girlfriend, maybe he's really busy, maybe he just doesn't like you.

He probably compared.

Busy, I don't have so much time to take the initiative to say anything to you, he will respond politely when you initiate a message, he should be a slow person, but, I think, it's because he doesn't like you as much as you think.

In the song, it is often sung: Don't guess the girl's thoughts, guess and guess and it will be a bad dish. But boys, especially boys who can't get their attitude, you can't guess the mind, if you always let you guess, it's really tiring, especially this kind of quite capable of living, not taking the initiative, not talking about it, it's really annoying.

He should basically have a crush on you, but I don't know if he likes it the most. Personally, unless you are particularly idle, you don't like the news of people who don't like it, and sometimes you don't bother to reply. There are many reasons for not taking the initiative to take care of it, such as being more introverted, not knowing what topics to talk about, and just thinking too much.

When you think about whether he likes you, most of the time he just doesn't like it, he may just play with his mobile phone a lot, and you send a message and reply by the way, which just means that he doesn't hate you, and he can't prove that he likes you.

There are two possibilities: one is a character who is not good at words in itself, and the other is that you are not so attracted to him.

Since ancient times, communication between women has been process-oriented and emotional-oriented, focusing on expression, communicating feelings, relieving anxiety and finding intimacy through confiding. And men must be "cold-blooded" on the hunting ground and on the battlefield, they must be rational, they must isolate their feelings.

In life, many men are solitary animals who like to pursue independence, freedom and space, and are "sullen". He may love you, but he is not good at getting along with people, does not express love, is more repressed with his emotions, and is also used to avoiding. This may have something to do with the environment in which he grew up.

You can slowly guide him to learn to express love and emotional needs, so that he will become more and more daring and willing to share his innermost feelings with you, and your relationship will become more and more real, warm and integrated, and the connection with each other will become deeper and deeper.

He doesn't reach out to you, maybe you're not attractive enough to him. It's not that you're unattractive, it's just that you don't seem so fatally attracted to him.

The most primitive motivation for a man to be attracted to a woman is sexual attraction. This is more stable and long-lasting, and can attract the opposite sex to desire to establish a long-term intimate relationship with them.

Some men will be tempted to be with A and like to stick with A; And with B, they will maintain boundaries, lack mutual attraction, and lack of action.