How do I choose? Feelings are really annoying

Do you prefer No. 1 (your boyfriend from college) or No. 2 (the one that's good for you now)?

When you mentioned the engagement, he said that he hadn't seen his parents much, don't you think it's just like an excuse?

If it's a man who truly loves you, he won't care about you or anything. But that's not for sure, maybe he loves you too. It's just that there is some hesitation on this issue.

If his family is unhappy with your job, you can try to change jobs, you can discuss it with his family, and let his family feel that you have treated his family as your family. You can enhance the other party's family's good impression of you, but you can't listen to your family in everything, you must know that you and he are the protagonists after marriage, and love is to be managed by yourself and your other half, not by the families of both parties.

Let's talk about male number two.

First of all, do you like him? And. Do you know him?

This year the society is sinister, do you dare to guarantee that he is not a **?

But if he's not a ** and you have an emotional basis for him, I suggest you choose him.

Be a man. Think about the future in everything. Poor couples mourn everything, life is good, and parents can worry less, right?

The male number one has spent six years of your youth, but he is reluctant to give you a marriage, why? He is too realistic, and he dislikes you as soon as he gets a "junior high school teacher", and he doesn't care about your feelings. He is reluctant to break up with you because he is afraid that he will not find a better one than you in the future, so he wants to drag you along.

Isn't it enough to spend six years of affection on one person? How many six years of youth can a girl have? Don't be stupid, shift the target, the male number two is so good to you, and the conditions are good, make good use of the Spring Festival time to enhance each other's feelings.

There are not always suitable candidates like the second male lead, so you should cherish it.

Romance says that the relationship is a matter of two people and has nothing to do with other factors, but reality proves that this sentence is pure nonsense As far as this matter is concerned, I don't know how to give an opinion, however, I can analyze it for you The former may be in love when everyone is not working and you are more equal, but it ...... over timeMaybe he's numb. Otherwise, what would he ask so much of you With his work, plus your work, I don't think it can be used as an excuse for "forced by life" As for the latter, maybe it's the period of love, he is obedient to you, and he ...... when he gets marriedHehe, who knows......Or with the former, when you first fell in love, you were also obedient, so what about now......

If I were you, I'd definitely be with the shipyard. How convenient it is to come back in the future, plus he has been chasing you, he will definitely be ruthless to you in the future. And isn't that a great teacher if he has an establishment?

Six years of relationship can't make him quickly decide to get engaged to you, let alone get married, he is hinting that you will retreat in the face of difficulties, why bother with such a man. Cherish the man who listens to you for everything. You're going to be very happy!

Instead of finding someone you love, you should find someone who loves you, at least he won't be lukewarm to you. There will be no third party involved.

Find someone who likes you to marry, and you will have an easy time.

College classmates seem to be swayed by their family's opinions.

As long as the junior high school students have no problem with their character and are responsible for their feelings, it is better to choose this.

You don't have to have someone to love, but you have to love someone well!

When you have experienced loving and being loved, and learned to love, you will know what you need, and you will find the most suitable person for you and be able to get along for a lifetime.

But sadly, in real life, people who truly love each other for various reasons may not be able to be together;

The one you love the most often doesn't choose you;

The one who loves you the most is often not the one you love the most;

And the longest-lasting, it's not what you love the most, and it's not the one you love the most.

Only the person who appears at the most suitable time will really be with you forever!

No one deliberately wants to change his mind, he really loves you when he loves you, but he really doesn't love you when he doesn't love you, and there is no way to pretend not to love you when he loves you;

In the same way, there is no way for him to pretend to love you when he doesn't love you.

When a person doesn't love you and wants to leave you, you have to ask yourself if you still love him (her), if you don't love him (her) anymore, don't refuse to leave for the sake of poor self-esteem;

If you still love him (her), you should want him (her) to live happily, hope that he (she) is with the person you really love, and will never stop him/her, if you prevent him (her) from getting true happiness, it means that you don't love him (her) anymore, and if you don't love him (her), what right do you have to accuse him (her) of changing his (her's) mind?

Love is not possession!

You love the stars, and it's impossible to take them down and put them in the basin, but the light of the stars can still shine into your room.

In other words, if you love someone, you can also have it in another way, so that the lover becomes an eternal memory in your life, and if you really love someone, you have to love him as he is, love his good, and love his bad:

Love his strengths and his shortcomings, and never want him to become what he wants because he loves him, and if he can't change, he won't love him.

You can't tell the reason for really loving someone, you just know that no matter when and where, good or bad, you want this person to be with you;

The real relationship is that the two can stay together in the most difficult situation, that is, without the slightest requirement.

After all, feelings must be given, not just wanted to be gained;

Separation is an inevitable test, and if your relationship is not stable enough and you have to admit defeat, true love will not turn into resentment.

When the two are in love, they like to make each other swear and make promises, why do we swear to each other, it is because we don't believe each other, we don't believe in lovers at all, and these mountain alliances and sea vows are very unrealistic.

The sea is dry and the earth is barren, but it can't change my love for you!

knowing that the sea will not wither, the stones will not rot, the earth will not grow, and the sky will not be barren;

Even if it is the Tanaki Imperial Society, it will not survive that time.

When making a promise, be careful, don't make promises that can be fulfilled, it is better to promise what you can't do, anyway, it doesn't matter if you can't do it, remember that "impossible promises are the most moving".

In love, one thing is said and another is done;

The speaker does not believe it, and the listener does not believe ......

Who have you met in the vast sea of people? Who met you again.

1. Change the way you think.

Human beings are not saints, who can do no wrong? Besides, many of them are because of the little things in life, don't let the details defeat our love, defeat our marriage, have more understanding and comfort for our lover, and our marriage will get closer and closer to happiness.

2. Deal with problems rationally.

Maintaining one's emotions and staying calm is the most important way to deal with a crisis. Even if your feelings are irretrievable, even if you see the worst, learn to deal with the problem rationally so that things don't get worse.

3. Learn to say sorry.

How to deal with relationship problems? If you do something wrong, you should apologize to the other person. Sincerely apologize for what you did wrong. He must be able to tell if you are telling the truth or if you are angry. So, if the blame is on you, be brave enough to say sorry.

Fourth, enhance the freshness of getting along.

Husbands and wives have been together for a long time, and aesthetic fatigue will naturally occur, so we should play some small tricks from time to time to enhance each other's freshness, so as not to start to get tired of each other. Moreover, couples whose feelings are more likely to go downhill should pay more attention to constantly injecting fresh elements into their feelings, so as to effectively increase the freshness of getting along with each other, so as to better cope with the emotional crisis.

5. Increase shared memory.

Knowing how to solve emotional problems, but also knowing how to create shared memories, because common memories can make each other feel full of joy when they think of their lover, and then unconsciously raise the corners of their mouths, and all they think about is the time spent with their lover, and the advantage of increasing shared memories is that it allows you to experience more of the fun that life brings because of each other.

6. Control your emotions.

When there is a problem in the relationship between two people, both people must control their emotions, even if each other's feelings are irretrievable, even if they encounter the worst, they must learn to deal with the problem rationally to avoid things getting worse. When you are not calm, make a decision that you may regret.

Landlord!! You already have the answer in your heart! Asking us is just one way for you to tell!!

It's better to calm down yourself! A lifetime of things, in fact, what you liked at the beginning was exactly what you didn't have, and she had a bad feeling? Right!

Since you have chosen, why regret it? No matter how much we say, it's unintentional.,The landlord himself really wants to think about it.,Such a girl may be the type you like, but it's definitely not suitable for you to spend the rest of your life.,Listen to your parents.,The words of the family may not be wrong.,Think about it yourself.,No regrets.,I wish you happiness.。

Unless you don't have a knot in your heart, if there is a knot, it's a not-so-good metaphor, like a cancer cell that will spread sooner or later.

If you will regret leaving, but if you are still miserable together, you can leave.

I already have the answer in my heart All I can give you is support or disagreement In fact, these things can't be changed but can be controlled, how to make control start from life, since you care about him so much, then you have to make him care about you too, care about you, and be afraid of losing you.

I don't have a lot of experience. But I want to say a question, can academic qualifications represent one? Many big people don't have a high degree of education.

Do you love her? Does she love you? Think about it. If love is separated because of various misunderstandings, then it is useless for you to regret it later. Based on what you know about her, you say that she doesn't feel bad, so you should sit down and have a good talk, and there is nothing that can't be solved. Come on.

Talk to her! Understand each other, if you really can't do it, let's separate!!

This Give up, there is no grass at the end of the world, why should it be good for only one?

Ask yourself, is he the one you're looking for? If the answer is yes, sooner or later, so what?

If you are hesitant or insecure about the future, then consider your feelings for him.

However, this perception is difficult to change. You can also have a good talk with him. Every time, they are entangled in a lot of business feelings over one issue.

If he agrees with you, then follow the principle in the future, and if it doesn't work, break up. Although it is said to be a happy enemy, but it hurts feelings when there is too much noise.

Actually, you love each other, it's just that you want to have sex with a marriage license, and there's nothing wrong with that. He loves you, so there is nothing wrong with wanting to have sex with you earlier, to express and experience his love for you. Please don't struggle anymore, as long as one side compromises, the other side can achieve mutual satisfaction.

Or you believe that he is the person you are going to marry, have sex with him, and get more love from him. Or he cherishes you, you are born for him, and it is not too late to have sex when you get your marriage license. Choose one of the two, you discuss it, if you can't discuss it, it means that you don't really love each other, break up, don't be nostalgic.

I completely disagree with what was said upstairs. If the woman herself wants to and feels that premarital sex can take place, then there is no such problem at all. Upstairs asked the landlord to think about it, you are a man, unfortunately, I am a woman, I think it is not only wrong for women to protect themselves, but also should be advocated, you go to see the ignorant girls outside, who are not responsible for their own lives, who have had several abortions, and who gave birth to a child in the toilet and the young mother ran away, is there still less?

Even if a man promises to marry you, the promise has no legal effect, if it is fulfilled, it is called a promise, and when it is not fulfilled, it is empty words; Even if protective measures are taken to ensure that you don't get pregnant, but the landlord is reluctant, isn't it too much to propose to break up for this kind of thing? I support you, landlord, you have to continue to persevere! If your boyfriend insists on doing it, and if you don't do it, break up, then break up, you go and ask him, let him go outside to find a woman who can be with him all the time, can insist on loving him, and has his own principles, and see if he can find a man who is in the blessing and does not know the blessing!

If he doesn't cherish it, there will naturally be better people who will cherish you and will get the most beautiful and complete you.

The question is whether he wants to marry you, if he really wants to get married, if he always says that after two or three years, he wants sex now, then this man has distracting thoughts in his mind, and breaking up many times means that he is unwilling to respect you, and reconciling many times means that he can't get you willingly, and once he gets you, he won't look back if he breaks up again.