Hu Jun is a tough guy under his father s fist, should parents educate their children to do it?

Don't do anything about educating your children, because it will not solve the problem, but it will also exacerbate the conflict between you and your child. And the reason why we adults will do it is because we are angry, and people are irrational in an angry state, and they will not use their minds to think about children's words, nor will they analyze the real crux of the problem? Therefore, hitting people will not solve the problem at all, and it will also cause the child's rebellious psychology.

Some people say that filial piety comes out of a stick, and I think this sentence has no scientific basis at all. Children are human beings, they have their own thoughts and the ability to think, they are not animals, they are not able to obey the orders of their masters by beating. If you really beat your child like an animal, you will lose the ability to think independently.

Attaching everything to others is even more unsuccessful in this kind of education.

Therefore, the education of children should still be convincing and reasonable, and the purpose is to let him know right and wrong. We beat the child in the hope that the child can listen to him, so that the child will take a lot of detours. But wouldn't it be better if you told your child what you thought and let him really understand the truth?

In the past, parents were willing to beat their children because there were too many children in the family, and a couple might have 7 or 8 children, and they had to serve the elderly and work, so they didn't have so much energy to educate their children. But now that there is one child in the family, we need refined education, and we can no longer use the old methods. Times are different, and so must our approach to education.

Educating children must be done well with patience and the right way, although it is not guaranteed that every child will be educated to become a dragon, but at least let them know how to behave, how to distinguish between right and wrong, and how to survive in this world? <>

And parents should also control their emotions, when we hit our children, it must be because we can't make sense. If you can tell the truth, you won't do it, in fact, educating children is also educating yourself.

Although it is said that stick education is not feasible, but sometimes if the child makes a serious mistake, then parents should also consider doing it to the child, but be careful not to take it too seriously.

I think parents should educate their children that they should not do it, so hitting the child will only be counterproductive, and we must communicate well with the child and get along like a friend, so that we can educate the child well.

No, parents should teach their children to communicate well with their children, and doing things will hurt the child and make the child rebellious.

Of course, you shouldn't do it, you think that doing so will make your child feel inferior, and he will be especially afraid of his parents.

I think parents should teach their children that they should not do it, which will only make their children more rebellious psychologically, and they must know how to reason with their children.

As a last resort, do not do it, as this will affect the child's physical and mental health, but if it is really disobedient, they can be punished slightly.

I think it is still necessary to educate a child, if he does not hit him, he will never remember the mistakes he made, only in this way can he remember it firmly.

Parents educate their children that they should not actually do it, because it may cause some psychological damage to the child.

Therefore, there are two sides to everything, there are advantages and disadvantages to hitting children, we should adapt measures to local conditions, and choose different education methods according to different situations.

It is useless for parents to teach their children to do it, it will only make children more resistant to their parents, and they will also be alienated from their parents.

In the past, this kind of education may be useful, but now it is useless, and it will cause serious damage to the child's heart, so the education of children should still be based on communication.

It is useful, the old man often says that filial piety comes out under the stick, and it is okay to occasionally use a hand when educating children, so that the child will be afraid that you will not talk back to you.

It is useless for parents to teach their children to do it, and many times they cannot solve problems with violence, and it is better to communicate with their children carefully.

I think it's useful, when we were young, our parents always used force to solve problems, and we are growing up very well now.

Personally, I think it's still useful, there are many children who are particularly naughty, and it is not practical to simply communicate with them.

It should be said that it has a certain effect, at least the child will not dare to make the same mistake again, but it will also make the child dare not try.

In fact, it is not of much use to educate children to do it, and if you do it often, it will only cause a psychological shadow for your child.

I think it's useless for parents to teach their children to do it, and the best way is for us to set an example for them and do something that makes them worth learning.

It's really useless for parents to educate their children because this kind of education can break down your relationship.

It is the kind of education similar to that of a military family, and I feel that I am strict with the champion, so I will be very strict with Hu Jun.

His father demanded that he must be the first in his studies, and then he must help his classmates in their difficulties, so that he can establish very good friendships with his classmates.

Hu Jun's father was strict with him when he was a child, and the method of dealing with him was also more extreme, that is, the kind that belonged to the kind of filial piety with a stick, and the child would be beaten if he made a mistake, yes, during that time, the relationship between him and his father was very tense.