What flaws or deficiencies have you hidden in front of your partner?

Many people choose to hide their flaws or shortcomings from their partners because they don't want their partners to worry or worry that their partners will see their bad side. Especially couples who have just fallen in love, in order to give each other a good impression, they will choose to hide their shortcomings, and the same is true for me. I once covered up my shortcomings in front of my partner such as acne and poor study, but fortunately, he didn't care much after confessing later.

AcneI've had acne for several years, and I haven't been cured. Coupled with my own bad habits, such as staying up late and eating sweets, the acne is even worse. My boyfriend and I are in an online dating, and when we first got together, I didn't tell him that I had acne, and every time I sent him **, there was a filter.

Until the day we met, I was worried that he would see my pimples and put on a very thick foundation. I didn't dare to look at him head-on when we met, and kept my head down. I was very apprehensive about having to remove my makeup before going to bed at night, but he didn't seem to care.

Later, he also supervised me to treat my acne well.

I didn't study well when I was with him, I never told him that my studies were not good, and I didn't dare to tell him if I failed the course, for fear that he would think I was too bad. At that time, it was mainly because I was sick, which also affected my studies, but I didn't tell him about my illness. Until later, I really couldn't hide it anymore, so I could only tell him.

Unexpectedly, he didn't pay much attention to it, and he kept encouraging me to work hard to complete my homework.

I used to think that I was terrible, that I didn't deserve to be in a relationship, that I was so bad that no one would like me. Even if I'm with him, I'm still worried that he won't like me if he sees my bad side. Later, it turned out that I thought too much, everyone is worthy of love, and those who really love you will accept whether you are good or bad.

So don't worry about exposing your bad side and the other party won't like you, real love should be able to make you more and more confident and beautiful.

In front of my partner, I hid my short-tempered flaws. Because I'm afraid that if this defect is revealed, it will make my partner unhappy.

Conceal your height and make yourself taller by wearing height-increasing shoes to hide your lack of height.

I often hide my willingness to lose my temper in front of my partner, but after spending some time with him, my temper has really changed.

I try my best to hide my nervousness in front of my partner, and I always talk about it to hide my inner inferiority.

I hid my fear in front of my partner, because I'm more afraid of the dark.

I think that in fact, I will have my own partner in the future, and I will definitely not deliberately hide my flaws or shortcomings, because this will increase the conflict between the two people, and if I cover it up, it should be some small problems.

I'm a person who loves to shed tears, and when I watch a movie, I will hold on to it, so as not to let the other party see me crying.

In the vast sea of people, two people came together and supported each other to complete the road of their lives, which is something that needs to be cherished by both parties for a lifetime. There should be very few people who are together like the one expressed in the book without a little stumble, there should be very few quarrels, there are quarrels, why quarrels, it is precisely because there are unaccustomed to quarrels, why are you not used to seeing them, because they are not tolerated to each other, since regret is the person who needs to be cherished for a lifetime, why not tolerate, but to quarrel? When a period of time has passed, no one wants to recall that the days are full of quarrels, so we must tolerate each other, and avoid living a life that we don't want to live, especially when we have children, the children who grow up in a quarrelsome environment will cause lifelong pain to the children.

As for pointing out the shortcomings and letting them be corrected, this is a thing that requires strategy, everyone has shortcomings, and it is not possible to completely correct them by pointing them out casually by people close to them, in that case, how many more perfect people will be in the world, but in reality, do we meet many perfect people? Rarely or almost none. Therefore, it is up to the time to correct the shortcomings of a loved one or a couple, and at the same time to make him or her aware that he or she must correct his or her shortcomings, and to help and support him or her to correct them.

I believe that two people who love each other deeply will correct their own faults or shortcomings for each other, and self-motivated families will also support each other, constantly correct themselves, correct themselves, and work together to run their own families and move forward on the road to a happier one. Finally, I wish that people who love each other can tolerate each other, correct their own shortcomings, and live a happy little life.

In the world, no one is perfect, and each of us has shortcomings that others think are shortcomings or shortcomings that we think we are, or we are changing, or our nature is difficult to change. In the eyes of the partner, all this about himself is either being picked on, or being disliked, or being accommodated, or being tried to change.

I'm a hypocritical person, and I'm a little inexplicably picky about a lot of things. For partners, the perfection in the eyes at first will always become a person full of shortcomings in real life. But we are going to spend the rest of our lives together with each other, and we shouldHave the right mindset to face itHis shortcomings right.

When many couples evaluate each other, they always divide the advantages and disadvantages into two parts, which seem logical and clear, and can even list strategies and policies that adhere to the advantages and correct the shortcomings. In the past, I thought that I was also a cultural person, and I should always have some logic in doing things, and then, every expectation was full of changes. But then I found that the clearer and more arguable my thoughts were, the more desperate the facts were.

So, in the years that followed, I learnedLet go of the rules of the logic system

As time goes by, we look at each other's shortcomings, which seem to be less of an eyesore, and some of them are even slowly disappearing in the continuous running-in. At this moment, I should be glad that the so-called partner in life is not how many of his advantages I listed, but how many shortcomings he worked hard for me in life, and how many of my obsessive-compulsive hypocrisy and how many shortcomings I accepted. It's not that I have a prime minister's belly, but sometimes I worry about the trivialities of life, which is really hard.

Maybe it's because I've lived to a certain age and know that a person's temperament is not innate, but it can't be subverted overnight. So, the greatest power of love for a partner isAccept everything in him, including his bad temper.

Isn't there such a saying? It is called that no one is perfect, and no gold is naked. Gold can't guarantee 100% purity, and I feel that people are the same, not perfect, and there will always be some shortcomings of one kind or another.

If my other half has some shortcomings, then it depends on the shortcomings in that aspect, if it is not to support the elderly, then it is over, I feel that this partner does not want to do it, my parents gave birth to me and raised me for so many years, they took care of me in the first half of my life, I took care of them in the second half of my life, and now my other half does not support them, and even abuses them, this is something I can't bear, so I don't think about this, and it's not good for the child, this shortcoming is basically only the stepmother will have, so don't think too much.

Next, in terms of looking at people and things, it goes without saying that you are friendly to others, if you make friends disgusted who still associate and contact with you, and you can't be too wealthy, you can't always take advantage of a little advantage, as the saying goes, sometimes it's a blessing to suffer. If it's other shortcomings, I think it's acceptable, such as being in charge of finance, this is no problem, as long as I can save some money for me to buy a box of cigarettes to smoke, I don't have much to use. So my view in this regard is that there are some shortcomings that can be tolerated, but there are some shortcomings that cannot be tolerated, which will only harm others and ourselves.

On this issue, I think you can only learn to be tolerant, after all, no one is perfect, and this is something that we all know. Your partner has flaws, and you still have flaws, so there must be flaws in both, and in order for life to go on, the only way we can do it is to seek common ground while reserving differences.

If he has shortcomings, if it is some small shortcomings, you can also remind him, let him correct the weaknesses, big shortcomings, I think you can also solve the problem through communication, although it is not enough to say that it can be completely improved, but at least when getting along with you, there will be some convergence, which is also something you want to see.

When judging how a person is, when dealing with others, I hope you treat yourself as a mirror, for some shortcomings in his mobile phone, you also need to find out if there are any shortcomings in yourself, when your own shortcomings, you can't overcome them in a short time, and you are not qualified to ask others how to overcome them. I think this is not only for couples, but also for ordinary people in their daily interactions, so since even ordinary people can maintain such rules, then should there be more tolerance between couples In modern life, many people are respectful of strangers, and they are more harsh and blamed for the closest people, I think this is not conducive to the harmony of the whole family and the cultivation of happiness between two people.

I think the answer to this question varies from person to person, to put it simply, although the phrase "in the eyes of the lover" is only talking about the views between couples on appearance, however, this sentence can also be used in other places where couples get along, for example, in the eyes of the person who loves deeply, he can tolerate all your shortcomings, he will treat your little temper as cute, and he will think that your stupidity is also cute! No matter what, he can "tolerate everything", however, this situation will only be in the period of ambiguity and love, and what happens next can only depend on the mode of getting along between the two.

I'm a big, almost a bit of a bold type of girl, and I won't be like other girls, and I see my boyfriend like a kitten in each other's arms. I'll be like seeing buddies, there is talk and laughter between the two, maybe I'm more inclined to this way, so, later, my boyfriend complained that I was too indifferent, not a girl at all, coquettish, coquettish, wouldn't it? Well, it won't!

Maybe it's because of my personality! Therefore, my requirements for my boyfriend are generally not high, as long as he is a good boyfriend and does not do anything to mess with flowers, he can see the sun every day as he wishes, except for rainy days, of course!

Downside bar! Everyone has it, and there can be any perfect person, so as long as it's not a big problem, I won't say much. But so be it! Everyone will have their own bottom line, and of course I have it, so it is still necessary to "covenant three chapters" between the two.

First, you can smoke and drink, but you are never allowed to smoke or drink in front of me. I hate the smell of smoke the most, and the other thing is alcoholism, and I am usually allowed to have a few drinks with my buddies, but I can't get drunk like mud, otherwise I don't want to appear in front of me.

Second, you can play the game, but please don't play it for too long or regardless of the occasion. I'm not against boys playing games, boring time, isn't it a way to relax! Actually, I think it's like a girl watching a Korean drama, long live understanding!

However, you can't play the game all day and disappear every minute, without any news, without greetings and care, this is resolutely not possible.

The above two points are what I care about, and other small problems can basically be corrected by me, and the two of them get along, be more tolerant, and understand more, and everything will be fine.

When you choose to be with him, you must have found that the advantages in him outweigh the so-called shortcomings. Don't worry too much about it, when you find the shortcomings in your partner, go and focus more on the strengths of your partner.

Everyone has shortcomings, no one is perfect, and no one is barefoot. Don't try to change a person, especially when the person is over 25 years old, and he couldn't get rid of these shortcomings in his previous 25 years, do you think you are the Virgin Mary? The only thing you can change is yourself, to adapt to these shortcomings of him.

People are not perfect, everyone has shortcomings and advantages, since it is your lover, then tolerate his shortcomings, everyone's marriage is not always sweet, quarrels can also be used as the spice of life.

Everyone has shortcomings, and it is inevitable that there will be some certainty in the body of their other half when they fall in love, and two people will go through a run-in time, be able to accept each other's shortcomings, and always appreciate each other's advantages.