What do you do if you break up?

Even if it's muddy all day long, the sky is dark, soaking in the wine glass and recalling the voice and smile of the person you love, it's so reluctant. Even if you use alcohol to paralyze the mountain alliance and sea vows between the two people, the sea is dry and rotten, and you can't get out of the shadow of the breakup, but the next day you can't see the clear sky of your lover, you still have to really walk through the scorching sun. On this kind of sad day, it is very difficult to go out strongly.

Friends said that the only way to step on the day after a breakup is to grit your teeth and work hard. numb yourself with labor, and don't have time to think about the love you once had. This is also a kind of relief, competing with friends to see whose performance is strong, singing with friends, shopping with friends, square dancing with friends, all kinds of things, no time to think about the past, no time to recall, and gradually find that love to go away, love to fade, you are still the strong self.

Breaking up may be something that everyone will experience in their lives, and this pain may make us recognize the first step of love, the taste of heartache, and begin to experience it from that moment. In the face of the pain of breaking up, people with different personalities have different reactions, and many years later, everyone will feel funny when they think of this experience, as if there are some such things in youth, and what we desperately want to keep is actually the one who should let go in the end. Breaking up may be painful, but how many people have become a better version of themselves after breaking up, and have met the right partner for life, some experiences are like the darkness before dawn, in the past, even if you survive the storms of life, crying through, you will no longer tear your heart and lungs, as if there is an extra layer of defensive armor.

In the face of the breakup period, let the time ** everything, don't keep, don't regret, don't regret, and accept it normally.

Every pair of lovers have countless good memories in the process of falling in love, after the breakup, we can't say that we forget all at once, and it is impossible not to be sad and sad, all say that time is the best medicine, then we can only spend it slowly, since the breakup means that we are a lot of inappropriate to break up, after the breakup, go out with your girlfriends to play, just say that read more books at home to cultivate sentiment, to get busy yourself, it will not be so painful.

Time is the best medicine, the past is over, as a dream, nightmare, sweet dream, wake up is awake, no need to be sad, do what you like to do, do everything that can improve yourself, you are strong is the king, don't worry that there is no better person to love you.

It's inevitable to be sad when you just break up, but this is something that almost everyone will encounter, and only in this way can we grow, the main thing is that we have to think about it, don't hang yourself from a tree, as long as you have a clear conscience, the breakup can only be that you are not suitable. After breaking up, you feel that you have nothing to love and give up on yourself, which is irresponsible for yourself, and it is also a sign of cowardice, and it will make it difficult for your ex to do, as long as you are good enough, you will meet a better and more suitable for you, and you must have a positive and optimistic attitude towards life!

The sad mood after the breakup shows that the relationship still has a lot of energy, and this sadness needs time to fade and cannot be eliminated in a short time. If you can let yourself try not to think about this sadness, you need to vent it first, and it doesn't help to hold the sadness in your heart. Then it is to divert your attention, work hard if you work, study hard when you study, and participate in more activities of friends to avoid being alone.

Tell yourself seriously that I want to start a new journey.

Only you can save yourself! Time is good medicine, accept the breakup, after all, once loved, leave a good in the heart, the breakup represents each other is not suitable, start a new life, life has to go on, if you bloom, butterflies will come.

Don't talk, it will make me sad, just because I said a labor-management, my girlfriend just broke up. Although I know that I can coax it to be fine, but I really can't stand to break up like this, when the relationship is what, after the breakup, I feel that if you fill up the time, you actually find that it is really good to be alone.

1. If you can, don't contact it.

Break up decisively, and don't find excuses to disturb the other party's already peaceful little life if you can not get in touch. Breaking the thread will eventually push you to the brink of collapse.

2.Don't meet alone.

Once from falling in love to breaking up, the two must have complained, and the heart of guarding against others is indispensable, and they avoid meeting alone after breaking up. If it is not necessary, it will not be seen. If you have to meet, ask a friend to come with you.

3.Preserve the appearance of each other's hearts.

After a breakup, some lovelorns like to say bad things about each other behind their backs and slander each other. Be forgiving and forgiving, not to mention the person you once loved so much?

After falling out of love, some people look up at the sky at 45 degrees, and some people bloom in the direction of sunflowers. No matter how far each other's feelings go, I wish you who are in love or have loved each other can be all well after each parting.

An inappropriate relationship will eventually have a time when it can't endure, and the two can't come together and can wave goodbye in the end. What do you do in the moments after you break up? There are a lot of memories between you, whenever you eat or go shopping, recalling the previous moments when he was by your side, it is inevitable that there will be some sadness in your heart.

And the ** in the mobile phone, that is your eternal memorial, what will you do with these ** after breaking up?

Some people will keep it as a memento, after all, they love each other, and there is grace between the two of them, and they teach each other many things and truths. If this is unacceptable for your new girlfriend, I think you should consider the possibility of you being together. If it were me, I wouldn't object to my boyfriend leaving his ex-girlfriend's **, keeping it as a souvenir and proving that you really love it.

I don't care how good your past is, I just need you to be good to me now.

Even if you tear up your ex-girlfriend's ** in front of your new girlfriend, you shouldn't secretly think of her when passing by somewhere. Nor should anything come to mind in mind. So, you might as well generously tell your new girlfriend and leave her ** as a souvenir!

Because I want to cherish you even more! In fact, everyone has a past, and a ** does not mean anything, some are just beautiful memorials. After all, it's the person you love, so be kind to someone else's.

If you don't have that memory, or if you want to start a new life, then we can respect your choice to delete **. Because it's an inevitable thing, and you don't want to stay in the shadow of the past and not be able to get out, it's all up to you. That's it, hope.

1. After the breakup, we can remember the person who brought us a lot of laughter and a lot of sweetness, and remember the memories we have together, but we should not pull him out of the memories and into your current relationship. So what's the point? The best way is to let his image stay in your memories, you can sigh when you think of it, but you don't have to miss it.

Because what you have to do is to cherish the present, not to be immersed in nostalgia for the past all the time. Only by forgetting the past can we have a new goal, a new direction, and we can continue to move forward.

2. Besides, we don't have to deliberately avoid our predecessors in front of the incumbent. Why avoid it? Facing it generously is the best proof that you have let go of your ex.

There's nothing unsavvy to cover up, and when you meet your ex, say hello, say hello, introduce your current one, and finally smile at him with relief. You can't be a couple or a friend, but don't be strangers either. After understanding that we are not suitable, I also found happiness that belongs to me, because I have feelings for you, so I want you to be happy too.

If this is the attitude, the incumbent will not have too many ideas. Your generous attitude will undoubtedly make your current incumbent confident in the relationship.

3. Treating an ex is actually facing a friend who once knew each other. We used to know each other, and now we don't have the same relationship as before, but we haven't reached the point where it's awkward to see each other.