My boyfriend and I have been arguing a lot lately, and we ve had a very stiff relationship

Updated on psychology 2024-04-29
12 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    It's not to bow to the game, my husband is also a computer fan, that's how I treat him, you love to play, I love to play more than you, and then naturally he found out that I didn't care about him, and then he automatically turned off the computer, and forced to turn off my computer and then went upstairs to watch TV together.

    So, you don't fret, that's a good solution. Treat others the way they do.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    I'm a person like your boyfriend.

    She and I also got into an argument over playing an online game.

    She said I didn't care about her, she only cared about my game.

    She cried. I'm really sad.

    I deleted my game number for her sake.

    The wife only has one game to play again.

    Don't let the game stop you from having people who have been with you for the rest of your life.

    She didn't play with me as they said she would.

    Because girls sometimes learn impatiently, boys are required to play at a level.

    You can talk to him like my wife did.

    If it doesn't work, cry out.

    I think a man who truly loves you can give up the game for your sake.

    I bless you.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    He is addicted to online games, but you don't. You do what you like to do, don't talk about him, and then he thinks you don't care about him anymore, if he really loves you. He'll understand your intentions and stop being obsessed with that kind of game.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    It is recommended that you don't play, that can't enhance your love and may be discouraged by playthings, if two people play, it's better for you to use your brains more and think of a way to go out with two people, don't let him have a reason to play games.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Good recommendations for the second floor"You love to play, I love to play more than you"Hehe.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    I don't agree with the opinion upstairs, in case it is self-defeating. Let's talk!

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Have a good talk with him, just say that you like him to be too addicted to online games, and let him decide for himself. But don't be in a hurry, hehe, just change it slowly.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Hello, that's because in the process of getting along, the boyfriend knows how to deal with this matter. It may be that the more you persuade, the more entangled, so you will be reasonable. Or it is possible that his character is more mature.

    Why don't men coax you when you're angry, mostly because you can't coax you well.

    For example, the more you coax, the more angry you get! In other words, the more you coax, the more aggrieved you become. When a man suffers from such a situation, he will remember it and feel that coaxing you when you are angry is like planting a mine for himself! Once the coaxing is not good, it is easy to provoke the fire and make a fool of yourself in public.

    It's better to let yourself be rational and digest it yourself.

    As people often say, the only one who can save oneself is oneself.

    When a man is angry with you, he will no longer coax you, but will give up on you, let you be rational and communicate alone.

    Therefore, when a woman gets along with a man, if she is angry and the man comes to coax, she must know how to stop the loss in time, go down the ladder if there is a ladder, and never give shame. Otherwise, it is very likely that you will be left out in the cold.

    Since you chose her in the first place, he must have his strengths to attract you. It's not easy for each other to get engaged. Women are very sensitive animals who want to be pampered, hurt, coaxed, and loved.

    And men often don't understand.

    They think that women are the most vexatious. A little thing, it will be noisy. It's not a misfit. It's that you've been together for a long time. Knowing each other too well leads to aesthetic fatigue.

    And every man's personality is different, and some people like to admit their mistakes as soon as they make them. And some will never fight back once they quarrel. Actually, he doesn't coax you, maybe it's a benefit, women are always coaxed.

    When the time comes, it will be pampered and proud. It's not easy to meet someone you like. It is even more difficult to get married.

    Don't give up on a relationship so easily.

    Many years later, you will definitely regret it. And you just lack communication. You think he's not good. You can communicate with him. If after communication, you still feel that he is not the person in your heart. You might as well make another decision.

    Good luck. <>

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Summary. Hello dear kiss, I am happy to serve you, I am an emotional counseling teacher Zhuang Zhuang, good at marriage and family, love, psychology and other aspects of the problem analysis, typing takes a little time, so don't worry, if it is convenient, tell me in detail about your specific situation, in order to help you better solve the problem

    I've been with my boyfriend for more than 1 year, but I've been arguing with him for a while, and I'm disgusted with him, I regret it, I have nothing to do with him, and I'm not satisfied with what he does, and I suddenly want to lose my temper when I see him.

    Hello dear, I am happy to serve you, I am an emotional counseling teacher Zhuang Zhuang, good at marriage and family, love, psychology and other aspects of the problem analysis, typing needs a letter manuscript collapse time, so don't worry, if it is convenient, tell me in detail about your specific situation, in order to help you solve the problem more respectfully

    Hello dear, I'm glad to answer your questions, hearing your questions, I can understand the problems you encounter in love. Tantrums are a slow reaction from everyone's spine, but we can take control of our Sakura Lee emotions and make sure they don't let them affect our lives and relationships. First of all, I want to understand, what is the reason for your quarrel?

    Have you calmed down a little bit and had a good talk? It is important to be able to listen to each other and understand each other's feelings. In communication, don't use overly strong words or gestures, which can further complicate the conversation.

    Secondly, you can also think about how stressful your life has been lately. Are you having other issues that you haven't addressed and are bringing anxiety and dissatisfaction into your relationship with your boyfriend? Maybe you need to think and seek techniques about self-regulation, such as meditation, breathing exercises, etc.

    Finally, if you realize that you are already emotionally distressed and unable to control your bad emotions through the previous methods, then I recommend that you seek professional help. Psycho** or counseling may help your relationship by allowing each of you to better understand each other, handle problems better, and learn to control your emotions. The above is about your question.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Hello, a quarrel is nothing more than a disagreement between the three views. What are the common reasons for your quarrel with your boyfriend? Did you find it?

    When quarrelling, both of them will unconsciously shake out the things about Chen Sesame and rotten grain, which is a taboo in quarrels.

    So be sure to grasp the topic, if it is the other party's fault, you have to take a deep breath, calm yourself down, think about how to persuade the other party, don't use a quarrel, this will appear bad attitude, and it will be difficult for the other party to accept.

    If it is indeed your own problem, you must have the courage to admit your mistakes, there is no shame between two people, the most important thing is to understand each other and care for each other.

    Sometimes changing yourself changes your life. So change yourself in a targeted manner, I believe that the relationship between the two of you will become deeper and deeper, and you will get along more and more harmoniously.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    In our lifetime, we will meet the person you love the most, the person who loves you the most, and the person you spend your life with. First of all, you will meet the person you love the most, and then you will experience the feeling of love; Because you understand what it feels like to be loved, you can discover the people who love you the most; When you have experienced loving and being loved, and learned to love, you will know what you need, and you will find the most suitable person for you and be able to get along for a lifetime. But sadly, in real life, these three people are usually not the same person; The one you love the most often doesn't choose you; What loves you the most is often not what you love the most; And the longest, it's not the person you love the most or love you the most, it's just the person who appears at the right time.

    How many people will you be in someone else's life? No one deliberately wants to change his mind, he really loves you when he loves you, but he really doesn't love you when he doesn't love you, he can't pretend not to love you when he loves you; In the same way, there is no way for him to pretend to love you when he doesn't love you. When a person doesn't love you and wants to leave you, you have to ask yourself if you still love him, and if you don't love him anymore, don't refuse to leave for the sake of poor self-esteem; If you still love him, you should want him to be happy, you want him to be with the person you really love, and you will never stop him, if you prevent him from getting real happiness, it means that you don't love him anymore, and if you don't love him, what right do you have to accuse him of changing his mind?

    Love is not possession, you can't tell the reason for really loving someone, you just know that no matter when and where, good or bad, you want this person to be with you; The real relationship is that the two can stay together in the most difficult situation, that is, without the slightest requirement. After all, feelings must be given, not just wanted to be gained; Separation is an inevitable test, and if your relationship is not strong enough and you have to admit defeat, true love will not turn into resentment. So in the end, it is necessary to choose which one to believe in fate and let everything be.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    If a man does this, it means that he doesn't love you anymore, so it's better to give up and find someone who truly loves you to be happy.

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