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I think you're just impulsive, do you really know how to love? In fact, you just think she's not bad, didn't annoy you, and other girls around you, she is more agreeable to your liking, this really doesn't mean love, it's just a disguised appreciation, now maybe you understand what love is, I personally think, find an appropriate time, ask her out, just like an old friend reminiscing, chat, without any color, maybe in the conversation chat, you can get the answer you want, in the end you should take or give up, maybe really forget? Even if you don't know what to do, getting the final answer will force you to make a final decision.
Whatever the outcome, be decisive. It's 2009 now, not the 80s, such a subtle approach... Say it boldly, it's good for you and for her!
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Time can dilute everything, and the general way to forget people is to go with the flow and focus on other aspects, but if you want to forget her as soon as possible, you have to know her more, usually like a person because you don't know this person very well, the more you know about a person, the less easy it is to like, but when you find that she is not as good as you imagined, you will naturally not care so much about her, and you will forget it over time.
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First of all, I want to ask you a point, you said at the beginning of the article that you think she still has you in her heart, but I saw her attitude towards you written later, I think she should not have you in her heart, maybe she has really let go of your relationship, and you have separated. And you have also worked hard for your relationship, but she has no intention of changing her mind, should you also think about letting go of this relationship, a relationship that is so unreal on the Internet can easily replace your relationship for two years, what do you think is the point of going on with her again?
In fact, you don't have to think about your own dilemma, you don't have to retreat at all, falling out of love is very painful, but if you think about your future life, maybe there is a better relationship waiting for you, why do you have to spend energy on this relationship Feelings are a matter of two people, not one person's compromise.
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I hope you take this relationship as a lesson, don't hurt anyone casually, don't regret losing it, since you see that she has made up her mind, give up and find someone more suitable for you.
If you still want to be with her. Then it has to be changed drastically, not like before. Do you know what she likes most about you?
Give full play to your infatuation and love to express your affection well, and for a woman who is emotional, she will find that you are changing and feeling that you are becoming more and more attractive, and then she will not only change her mind, but also the women around you.
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After reading so much you have written, my analysis is that you love her deeply, but she doesn't love you anymore!! Why? Because it is impossible for a woman to really love a man and still reject him when he goes to her to reconcile!!
At most, it's just talking about it, but it's not like it in my heart! Also, you mentioned that she's becoming very realistic now, so I don't think there's really any need for you to go to her anymore. Now that she is so realistic, and there is another man in her heart, if you get her in the future, what will be the result???
Are you looking for a burden for your parents if you don't do it like this? So, I suggest, give up on her, and according to what you say, she doesn't love you at all, and whether or not you deserve your love is another matter. You yourself say that you have become bad yourself, then you have all changed, so let everyone go their own way!
This may be good for everyone, and maybe everyone will find a more suitable half for themselves in the future!! You should re-examine yourself, let yourself live a positive and correct life, you should work hard, you will meet a woman who loves you in the future, and you will have to pay for yourself in the end! Why?
I hope you can be a positive, confident, and useful man to society!! I also hope you find a woman who truly loves you!
I wish you all the best!! Brother, give points! It's so hard to watch, so hard to fight!
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Friend, why is it in a dilemma, I think you think too much, since you have broken up, it is impossible to be together, don't think about it, find your love again, there is no need to hang yourself from a tree. There are many good women. Why is it so simple that you just can't do it, I think it's because you don't want to do it, as long as you want to, you can do it.
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A relationship without results, even if you are barely together, will not end well! This is just a small episode in your long life! It can only be regarded as an experience, a memory! There is something more important than feelings! Chill out on your own time can make you forget everything!
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Move her with genuine affection, be romantic when you talk to her, but also do what you say, such as loving her to the extent that you can die for her. Because in this world, there is nothing more precious and worthwhile than death.
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Don't go to her, you're not the same you anymore, a lot of things happen and you can't go back to the past, many people will cherish it when they lose it, even if you are together again, can you do it at all and not mind the current conflict between you? Sometimes what you can't let go of is just the happy memories of the past, and even the feelings you have recovered have deteriorated.
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Ask yourself if you still love her.
If you love her, go to her.
Don't give up on what you have in mind just because you've changed something.
Even if she has someone else in mind, you should try to get her back.
Unless you think someone else can love her better than you.
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Hello landlord First of all, I have encountered a problem that I can't check much with you My girlfriend of 4 years met handsome guys because of playing dnf online and social reality and many other factors We are separated.
When a woman doesn't love you, don't force it to stay, fantasize about what chance you have The stronger it is, the worse it gets, if you really loved her, she loved you, everything is in the past, and now the only thing is to bless her, hope she can be happy.
There is really only one thing that a man loves the most, and a man knows best in his heart, can you feel it, feel it, please cherish it.
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First, you are not a human being because you dumped her first Second, she is likely to be dumped by you When you dumped the netizen you met later, did you go online? Sad, so find someone to rely on on the Internet will be emotional, and no matter how much you care, you won't be as wholehearted as before Because you've been sorry for her before Third, don't destroy other people's online dating Online dating is also love It's the same as a normal object It's just not together Who knows if they will be together in the future You'd better go to someone else This is not a human thing.
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Forget her. Time is the best antidote.
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To tell you the truth, there is no only relief that can be relieved is time ! But if you really want to get it back, you must tell her to make everything clear, this can't be trusted, it will hurt you and her like that It's really not okay Brother, you have to believe that everything is back to the past
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Dedicated to loving your boyfriend.
Don't look like your boyfriend because he looks.
And approached him on the initiative.
Although your mind right now is just to be friends with the other person.
But the contact time is long.
Presumably, the nature will change.
So cherish your current boyfriend.
Don't do things that you will regret in the future.
Bless the landlord.
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Hurry up and stop it, you're not a sign of loving your boyfriend, let him know that he will be very sad, really, I advise you to communicate with your boyfriend if you still have time, unless you still don't like him anymore! ~~
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I'm a boy. I think there is no initiative on the Internet, QQ is also used for chatting. So it's nothing, there are girls who also take the initiative to chat with me, it's nothing.
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I'm a man. We're in a similar situation to yours. We trust each other.
But I also believe that the environment can affect a person. So I'm most afraid of something like this. You usually chat a lot or text messages.
Internet access is also good. But you are really cruel to your boyfriend for doing something like that. Even if that's not what you intended.
It's better not to have that happen. Bless you all.!!
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There's nothing wrong with this, don't think too much about yourself, the average boy is self-aware, however, you have to grasp yourself and can't let your feelings indulge.
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You're treating him as your boyfriend, and as long as you get in touch with your boyfriend, you'll forget about him.
This is the emotional void.
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Your love has put too much pressure on you, and you should contact her often if you love her. As for what to say, according to your personality, you don't know how to say love or love-related directly, you usually say **shhhhhh You get through directly, and the moment you hear her voice, you know what you're going to say.
Finally, I remind you of a detail that you may already know, you must not hang ** with her first. I wish you a speedy harvest of your love.
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Asked to meet.
Everything was clear when we met.
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In fact, everything is best known in my heart, if it is really the above, I guess she is waiting for you to change, or she has been in contact with other boys, or she thinks you are good, seize the opportunity to seize it.
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Don't think too much about it! Go with the flow! If you are destined by God! Won't miss out on something!
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No, yes, you still have text messages at the door, you don't feel unfamiliar, you can talk to whatever you want.
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I add 100 points by all means! Know your mindset from here. Like it.
Remember not to do anything ugly. We treat things with a normal heart. I love it so much. Appears immature.
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Long-distance relationships. It's hard to succeed. I advise you to give up, she has delayed you for 6 years, how many more 6 years can there be in your life?
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If she asks you out, doesn't it mean that she loves you? Maybe she wants to confess to you when she goes out to play!
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Talk about life and friends, don't talk about emotional matters, so that she will feel relaxed and will be fine after contacting a few more times. And then always care for her and take care of her. If she's interesting to you, she'll definitely give you a hint.
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I don't want to get your share, it's too difficult, I can't answer, I just want to talk about my feelings. First of all, although they are friends, it is impossible to go back to the way they were when they were friends before, because there is a particularity in it, and they are afraid of being relatively speechless when they hit ** and meet. If you really want to meet, just go with the flow, and you don't need to deliberately prepare, because if you really meet, you may not be able to use it.
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In fact, I have always felt that there is no real friendship between men and women, it may be a little extreme, but the landlord is now encountering this problem is very spicy, if either party feels tired with the other party, then this relationship is very dangerous, the landlord should do things like a man, like her to love her, what is it to be friends, helpless to escape? In fact, do you know the landlord?,Sometimes the person we love may not be suitable for us.,Love itself is a very inexplicable thing.,It's not clear.,There are a few lovers in this world.,Finally married to your beloved.。。 There are really few .
With the change of age, time and space, our attitude towards feelings and lovers is also changing, even if she loves you tomorrow, it is still unknown whether you love her or not, why be so serious, relax your mind, play a **, talk about work, talk about life, tell her at the end that you miss her very much, keep a little distance appropriately, love will be more flavorful...
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Love is justified by external pressure.
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Either be lovers or break up, and it will still be awkward to be friends.
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In fact, they are all friends again, and her attitude is not very repulsive to you. You're going to have a relationship with her the normal way. Let's chat, ask about the current situation. Say whatever comes to mind. Don't be inhibitive. Relax your mind, and you'll be fine.
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Go with the flow, how to say it's your own business, hehe, talk about some common hobbies, homely words
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"How are you lately?"
It's good to have a beginning, so why bother with an end?
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There will always be days to think about the day, don't wait for the time to think about the time!
If you know each other by fate, why don't you have the courage to confess?
Is it really until there is no chance to express it, and the pain is repeated?
It doesn't matter how you express it, as long as it's from the bottom of your heart! Recommend Hongyan Biography! Against colloquial language expressions! Because the written language gives a sense of intimacy!
Be fast!!
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It's normal for you to have that last bit of worry.
I had the same experience as you.
But my results are out, and yours.
I remember that I also liked a girl very much at that time, and it was my favorite personality and temperament.
And we used to be together with each other, but the innocence at that time poisoned us, and I have always been unwilling to break up, I like her, I like her deeply, so I try to pursue her again.
There are many experiences that are similar to yours in between.
I've been holding that sentence for more than 1 year.
At the end of 2006, I did a lot of psychological warfare and decided to tell her.
But the result. I've said all this just to tell you.
There are some things that you have to decide.
Whether he is a failure, whether he is a success.
At least you've dissolved a knot in your heart.
Dispel it, and you'll charge the next target even more powerfully.
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