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Don't worry too much about it.
Just take care of yourself and don't let yourself speak ill of others behind your back.
You can insist on saying good things about others behind their backs, and I believe that one day it will reach that person's ears.
We are human beings, not gods, and you don't expect everyone to appreciate you and think you are good from the bottom of their hearts, right? So, it's okay, take yourself easy!
It makes more sense to spend your mind on people who deserve your attention than on what other people think.
Remind myself that I understand that it was a bit difficult to do at first.
But gradually you will get used to paying attention to what you like.
Treat your friends who are really good to you!
I believe that rumors will eventually come back to rumors.
If someone really says bad things about you, it goes through your ears.
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What to worry about, nothing to worry about.
Everyone has shortcomings.
Chewing the tongue is someone else's patent.
You don't have to say anything about others.
Praise others for their goodness.
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When your friends are going to talk about someone's not, don't follow him up on something else, you keep your best smile and don't say anything, let them know that it's not a topic you're interested in, or help change the subject once in a while When you talk about a friend, talk more about his strengths, praise your friend, or "enemy" :-
The most important thing is to be sincere, usually help your friends more, even if someone says bad things about you, but your other friends will not agree! They will support you, because, as it turns out, you are indeed a good friend to make friends with
I'll give you another detail, and usually pay attention to smile more
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Caring about what others think shows that you are a very self-esteem person.
is a person who is strict with himself;
This is a good aspect, and the aspect that is not conducive to your development is that you care too much about other people's opinions, sometimes you will inevitably be wronged, and sometimes, your own ideas will also be suppressed, so that your own ideas will not be developed, and you may lose a lot of opportunities for development. So, if the trade-offs are not one-size-fits-all. It's about specific things, specific judgments.
Caring too much about other people's opinions will have two outcomes: either you will die of exhaustion, or you will let others die. The best way to avoid disappointment is not to put your hopes in anyone or anything.
Maybe you still care about other people's eyes and think about how to please them. In fact, we don't have to care about other people's eyes in life, and we don't necessarily have to be recognized by others. As long as we have a clear conscience, our life can be easier, there is no need to bear the eyes of others, and one of the greatest freedoms in life is:
What kind of person do I want to be? The most beautiful thing is to listen to your heart's call and have the courage to take on challenges. Don't be distracted by worrying about what others think or fear the unknown, and passively accept choices in your comfort zone.
As long as you do it, everything will be fine! Don't let the trivial stuff get the hang of thinking and think that your dreams are too illusory – it's not like that.
You should focus on work and study, don't think about these meaningless things, so that the sense of spiritual fulfillment brought by your efforts for yourself will make you feel a sense of achievement, so that you don't need to care about other people's opinions, you don't need to go to others' recognition, because you know very well what you do every day, what you get, you don't need to care about some additional unnecessary things to make you have a sense of existence, in fact, you care too much about other people's opinions is to hope that others affirm you to get comfort in your heart, Work hard for yourself, your efforts, your achievements will become the driving force for you to move forward, the source of your life fulfillment, then you will not need other people's opinions to make you affirm yourself, you will not need some virtual things to fill your life, work hard, you will not be uneasy in front of the opposite sex, because you are confident, your soul is full, you can talk to it as naturally as normal people, struggle will make people confident, fulfilling, you have to make yourself strong.
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What if you care too much about what other people think?
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You especially care about other people's opinions, that is to make a stumbling block for yourself, tie your hands and feet with ropes, just do things comfortably, what do you think others think? You think that you are doing the right thing, you think that you are worthy of everyone, yourself, and your family are enough, and it is better to be happy and comfortable than anything else, and do not take into account the opinions of others.
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It is normal for a person to care about other people's opinions, he is a person in society, and she cares about other people's opinions, which is normal.
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The opinion of others that you care about is actually that you want to live as others imagine, what you have to care about is your own opinion, your own evaluation of yourself, don't care about others, you have to live as you like.
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It's not a good thing to care too much about what other people think, and you should learn to think about things from your own point of view, which is the best.
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Particularly concerned about other people's opinions, will live a very tired life, is a manifestation of the heart is not strong enough, in fact, everyone's views are different, the way of life is also different, why live according to other people's ideas?
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It should be a sensitive personality. You can imply that you don't care too much about what other people think, and that others don't have time to pay attention to you all day.
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Caring about other people's opinions means not being confident in yourself, or you still have to enrich yourself and be confident. in order not to be swayed by others.
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Alone, you have to live your own life and don't care too much about other people's opinions.
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I care about other people's opinions, which will only make my life very tiring, and I think that as long as you are worthy of your heart. Sometimes other people's opinions don't care so much.
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That is, you don't care about other people's opinions, you don't need to care about other people's opinions, and if you mean this, you care too much.
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True love is consensual, and the two are happy, and only in this way will happiness be reaped. Instead of one of them blindly giving, the other enjoying. This feeling is deformed.
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Hello, there is no need to care too much about other people's opinions, it is best to live in the moment.
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In other people's opinions, such a person must be very outgoing, and he is also very competitive, so he will care a lot about other people's opinions.
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It's hard for us not to care about other people's opinions, so you should also fight for yourself to take the lead in other people's opinions today.
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Don't care what other people think, just be yourself.
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I don't care about other people's quick handles, I just do myself, I think it's right, I do it, why care about other people's opinions, other people's opinions, maybe.
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I care so much about what other people think, I don't think it's necessary to care so much about what other people think.
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Why do you care about what others think? Because whatever others say, he goes to his heart.
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So you deliberately care about other people's opinions, this method, I personally think it is, it should be changed, don't care what others think?
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Nowadays, very few people can do it, they don't care about what others think, and it's actually difficult to live to themselves.
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Then your life must be difficult, you don't have to be like this, you should live for yourself.
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Don't care about what others think, others are others, and there's no need to care about what they think.
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I care about other people's opinions, and I think it's like living without self.
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I think it's important to note that people's fears are often caused by others.
You let other people's opinions dictate your life.
Letting others dictate your life is a direct result of misfortune.
There's nothing sadder than letting someone else's opinion take control of your life.
Do you really care what your parents, grandmother, husband, wife, children, or son will say about you?
It doesn't matter what they think if you do it. When you can't walk at 92, you never care who says what, or even what your aunt says.
Who is more pitiful? Because she never got it, she kept you suppressed.
Negative people cling to positive people and try to isolate them from the world as well, because they are exhausted.
I see this kind of scene everywhere in my work and life.
That's the way it is.
We all have shortcomings.
To me, it's like, why don't we introspect ourselves?
Why don't we see it that way?
It's like I'm good at this, you're good at that, and everybody is a maverick.
Are you really, really, really not going to live your own life?
Do your own thing, don't listen to anyone, what do you think deep down? Instead of living in a world where other people's evaluations dictate your actions.
You let your friends, your aunt or whatever, it invades your brain, and now you feel like you're making a fool of yourself. You value other people's opinions too much.
Many of us will hold a grudge and blame others other than ourselves.
You don't worry about what others think of you, you don't care what others think of you anymore, and you're relaxed. Suddenly, it's not how much money you have, or how much time you have, it's that you understand that you can do it.
Compared to your worries about other people's opinions, money and time don't stop you from moving forward.
Do you know what it looks like in your own mind?
You know what it's like to care about what other people think?
If someone denies me, I'm going to break down like I'm dead.
Again, don't care, when you get to that point, amazing things happen.
You know why? Because you're not scared anymore.
I want everyone to do that, because let me tell you one thing, that's the best.
You only live once, and it's much better to live for yourself than for others.
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I used to care about what others would say about me like you, and even be careful that I had to do every word and action I had to do deliberately, but in fact, this is really not good, because when you pay too much attention to yourself in the eyes of others, you will often make yourself suffer from gains and losses, and ignore what you should really do, so that you live your whole life as if you are not living for yourself, but living for others, why bother? Furthermore (purely personal opinion) I think that people who care too much about other people's opinions may actually be people who want to be taken seriously, or people who don't know enough about themselves, because if you don't know yourself well enough, don't know your own strengths and weaknesses, it will be difficult for you to make a correct judgment on yourself, so others' evaluation of you has become a yardstick for you to evaluate yourself, but in the final analysis, how can anyone in this world know more about you than yourself? What others say about you, no matter how good or bad it is, it is what you see in the eyes of others, and the most important thing for people is to make themselves better in their eyes, just like someone even if everyone evaluates him very well, but he himself feels very bad, then he can only live a painful life in the end, so people should judge for themselves what kind of person they are, what kind of ambition you have, how you should work hard, and what will make you feel happy and happy, And these have to rely on their own personal experience and continuous attempts to obtain, other people's evaluation of you, you should only make a reference, can not be completely indifferent, what is said is indeed correct, you will seek change, because this is also a process of self-improvement, as for those who say bad things about you, it may be that your character does not let them like, but character is a unique sign of a person, some people do not like it, some people naturally like it, why should you lose yourself for some people do not understand, remember, as long as you feel happyThat's the most important thing, because it's what you're happy for yourself, it's what you really experience (of course, you can't do things that hurt others), then it's okay for you to feel happy, why bother what others are thinking? >>>More
Of course it will, because caring about the opinions of others will make you more rational in doing things, consider more comprehensively, and urge yourself. If you don't do a thing, everyone advises you not to do it, you care about other people's opinions, you will definitely think more when doing this, consider comprehensively, avoid failing others' views of you, and think of a good solution to the problem, and then do it, in fact, it seems that you don't care about other people's opinions, in fact, you care about other people's opinions, so that you can do things more securely, and remind yourself in your heart to be "careful".
Personally, I think it is more important to pay more attention to appearance, as well as material. For example, more attention is paid to whether the boy's outfit looks better than others, and whether the appearance is more exquisite. Is there more money to make, can it satisfy the vanity of girls?