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Of course, to take revenge on him, you can hire someone.
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<> "Retrieving friendship is not a one-man business.
The three finishing forms of friendship:
1.Dare not start a conflict, but end in conflict.
For the sake of emotional compromise, let the real needs retreat again and again, and the grievances become bigger and bigger, until the last outburst.
2.The abrupt departure of one party.
One of the parties in the friendship began to gradually stop sharing their lives, did not reply to messages, and gradually lost contact.
3.A melee that lacks a sense of boundaries.
Confidently meddled in the other party's life and made decisions on behalf of the other party, but in the end, one party forgot to check Li Zhi'en, and the other side meddled in trouble, and ended up chaotic.
The essence of friendship is the connection between two people in a specific time and space. Everyone is constantly changing, your values, social role, identity, social circle, ......are constantly changing, and so is your relationship.
How do you maintain friendships? More important than intimacy is the mutual support of friends, and the point of this support is to strike a balance between giving and giving, any kind of imbalance may lead to the collapse of the relationship between the two parties.
How to salvage friendships? It's not your own business, just as it's not anyone's fault that a friendship is gone, and if neither of you has made an effort in the relationship, you don't have to be alone to try to get it back. Once you've come to terms with the ultimate fact that friendship is fading, here are three tips that may help.
1.Learn to grieve and mourn.
Grief and mourning are important farewell rituals, don't put these grief alone, don't rush out to find new friends, spend some time hating their departure, spend some time "grieving", take some time to say goodbye to them from the bottom of your heart.
2.The end does not mean that the past needs to be erased.
The end of friendship does not mean that you have to write off the past, the memories left in those good times are still your treasures, don't just throw them away and deny them.
3.Don't leave anything untouched.
No one knows what the future holds, and this "old friend" you thought is likely to reappear in your life in the future, don't speak ill of this relationship, and leave an unknown space between yourself and him that belongs to the two of you.
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In fact, most men are not born bad. Although we will attack the scum of scumbags from the moral character, under the bad roots of human nature, every man will have a seed of deterioration in his heart, and if the environment and climate allow, they may take root and sprout. And the state and attitude of the woman who was with him represented "environment and climate" from a certain point of view.
Therefore, never simply accuse a man of being too bad. No matter how bad a man is, there is a reason, in the process of falling in love, women are completely at zero IQ. When it comes to dealing with some key issues, there is no sense of the bottom line at all.
This gives some men who are not self-disciplined enough and have false feelings towards you an opportunity.
So your best friend was hurt when she met a scumbag, I think maybe he did it, but on the bad side, her boyfriend abandoned her, but no matter what, as a friend, to comfort her, I think it should be done, don't mention some things about him and his boyfriend, you should take him out to play more, take him to see some happy things, do some happy things, solve the problem from the root of his emotions, and also to guide him correctly, so that he has a self-knowledge, self-awareness, Reflect on whether you are doing something wrong.
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You can tell your girlfriend to take this relationship as a lesson, and you must stay away from scumbags in the future, and tell her that after experiencing this relationship, you will know how to identify scumbags, and you will no longer be deceived about your feelings. Then take her to a movie, eat something delicious, and just turn your attention.
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The best friend was hurt when she met a scumbag, and as a friend, she could only listen to her tell you about her pain, so that she would feel better, and don't mention these things again.
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The most important thing for a girlfriend to meet a scumbag as a friend is to accompany her, at this time the girlfriend must be very sad, accompany her through the sad stage, and then listen to him complain and help her get out of the shadow.
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It is necessary to enlighten him in time, not let him have a psychological shadow, and accompany him to go around to relieve his mood.
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Don't forget me, my dear.
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