How to be a good boyfriend? How to get along with male girlfriends

In fact, there are many people who are very disgusted by words like male girlfriends and female girlfriends. Because many people feel that there is no pure friendship between men and women in the world. But I believe that there is pure friendship between men and women in this world.

But as a male girlfriend, the identity is very special, so how to be a good male girlfriend has become a key issue.

I'll give you an example, I actually have a good male girlfriend next to me. I can pat my conscience and say that I don't have any wrong thoughts about him, and I think he thinks the same way.

The two of us were high school classmates, and we got to the same table by chance. But instead of following the development of the story of Dog Blood, the two of us became good friends who could lose each other. The shortcomings of two people can be exposed in front of each other without any scruples.

In fact, we don't talk very often, but then slowly, when something happens, maybe the first person who thinks of him is him. Or when he has something, he actually thinks of me, and the two of us think of each other when something happens.

Many people say how can this be a good friend? I only think of each other when I have something, in fact, I think this kind of relationship is more reassuring for me, because our relationship will not dissipate like this because we don't chat, and it will not become very weak because of this. I feel that my male girlfriend is like a family member to me.

But his status is different from that of his boyfriend, because the two are completely different in nature, and male girlfriends are good friends.

So as a male girlfriend, if you want to manage this relationship well, what you need to do is not to treat the other party as a candidate for your object, get along like the same sex, and treat it with sincerity.

I think every girl hopes that she can have a male girlfriend, just like Li Dongye in the recently watched "The Taste of the World is Qinghuan", he is An Qinghuan's male girlfriend. Known as the best male girlfriend in China. I think if you want to be a good male girlfriend, you have to learn from Li Dongye.

Although I don't know if there is such a person in real life. To be a good male girlfriend, you need to have the following points.

The first point is not to think badly about girls.

There is such a sentence in life to describe those male girlfriends with ulterior intentions, that is, I treat you as a good friend, but what you want in your heart is to go to me. This is a no-go. If you want to be a good male girlfriend, you must face up to the friendship between two people.

Don't think too badly. Girls trust you to see you as a good friend. will come to you when I am difficult and sad.

If your mind is not pure enough. Cheated on your best friend. Then I don't think it's a male girlfriend, or even a friend.

The second point is to be on call.

If a girl has a male girlfriend, I think then she will rely on you very much, and also believe in you very much, if you want to be a good male girlfriend, that is to have an awareness, that is, not to be afraid of trouble, girls are very fragile, when she encounters difficulties, she will come to seek your help, at this time male girlfriends do not retreat, can help can not help, to help, to accompany her through the difficulties. This is very important. Guard her at all times.

When she is unhappy, she is responsible for making her happy. Take her to eat something delicious, don't talk to her, and agree with her decision. Don't give up on her regardless of success or failure.

If you really want to maintain a close relationship with the other person without touching the relationship, as a male girlfriend, I think the most important thing is to be able to give the other person a sense of trust.

Boys and girls generally do not have the same sex as pure friendship, even if most of them have become a love relationship, if you really want to have a long-term relationship, you should not take the initiative to go to the relationship, and you should be able to solve a lot of problems for each other, not only life problems, male girlfriends should solve each other's emotional problems.

The experience of having a male girlfriend is very happy, first of all, you must put yourself in the right position, because male girlfriends are a very embarrassing identity, which will occasionally affect the other party's feelings. Listen more, communicate more, and experience the feelings of others.

1.While being good with male girlfriends, you should also keep a good distance. Distance produces beauty, not only between lovers, but also between all relationships.

Only two people keep a proper distance. It can not only deepen the understanding of each other, but also not cross the line, go too far, the two sides will have a sense of alienation, go too close, and it is easy to have conflicts!

2.Pay attention to what you say, although you don't have to worry too much about talking to a man with a bold personality, but after all, everyone is equal, we also have to pay attention to our attitude towards speaking, don't let people think that you are a particularly casual girl, which is not good.

3.Give the foot to the other side, everyone knows that men care about face very much, so in some public places, you must try to give face to the opposite sex, so that he feels a sense of accomplishment, and he will be happy to be with you.

4.Use male girlfriends as girls. Male girlfriends can't become boyfriends and girlfriends, so if they do, they will start early. If you are lucky enough to meet such a good male girlfriend, as a girl, you can tell her some girl-related things, and you can also help him get to know the girl better!

If you want to be a girlfriend with a guy, you can start with the following points:

1. You first need to know and understand each other.

2. Unlike ambiguous couples, you don't have the idea of being boyfriend and girlfriend, you can introduce each other to others like a family, you can laugh together, cry together, and go crazy together.

3. You have a common topic, you can talk to him for a long time, and you can make an appointment to come out and play together.

4. You have common interests and hobbies, such as playing games, basketball or football that boys like or cosmetics, clothing and TV series that girls like.

5. The three views are the same, and they do not offend each other, and do not cross the relationship between girlfriends.

6. Both parties have a purpose or goal (for example, the man and the woman understand each other's views on a certain matter, or the boy's views on a certain thing) to facilitate each other's future love. Or for example, there is a goal to go to graduate school and university together.

7. No matter how close your friends are, if you have different genders, you still have to keep your distance. (Don't be ambiguous in the name of girlfriends).

8. You can help a male friend refer to the girls he likes (but don't have too many opinions), after all, girls understand girls' ideas better.

9. In the case that a male friend has a girlfriend, as a girlfriend, you must keep your distance.

10. When a male friend quarrels with his girlfriend, shut up or persuade him according to the situation. (Don't complain).

11. If you don't want to develop into lovers, try to minimize the number of people who go out alone to play or travel, and if you go, you have to open two speakers to open the room.

In fact, as long as you meet any of the above points, the two can become best friends, but making friends mainly depends on fate, and everyone's existence has its reason. With male girlfriends, you can talk about everything in the world, and you can also discover more hobbies and fun. They are not as calculating as girls and are not jealous, which will make you feel relaxed and happy.

first ask out to play together, and then when you are about to disperse, ask your own questions and ask him if he can be his male girlfriend, of course, provided that you don't treat others as spare tires, and your relationship is really very, very iron.

If you're doing well, just say it.

Summary. First, make sure that both parties are of good character.

Real friends of the opposite sex, in fact, there are not too many restrictions, it doesn't matter if you are tall, short, fat, thin, beautiful or ugly, the real key point is: the other party must have a reliable character. Friends with good character are not only comfortable to get along with, but more importantly, they understand each other what to do and what not to do.

Even if one of them has a love factor, he will stick to the bottom line and not touch the other party's family.

Second, know how to keep your distance.

A good friend of the opposite sex will know how to keep a little distance, which will not affect the intimacy of two people, and will make both parties feel very comfortable. It's like being a same-sex friend, so that it can last for a long time.

Friends of the opposite sex are not dangerous characters, and the relationship between the two parties should move forward in parallel and have no intersection. But if the other party tries to get beyond this relationship, then it must be stopped in time. After all, making friends of the opposite sex is to improve the quality of life, and if you have more troubles because of it, it will be more than worth the loss.

How to be a boy's girlfriend.

First, make sure that both parties are of good character. Real friends of the opposite sex, in fact, there are not too many restrictions, it doesn't matter if you are tall, short, fat, thin, beautiful or ugly, the real key point is: the other party must have a reliable character.

Friends with good character are not only comfortable to get along with, but more importantly, they understand each other what to do and what not to do. Even if one of them has a love factor, he will stick to the bottom line and not touch the other party's family. Second, know how to keep your distance.

A good friend of the opposite sex will know how to keep a little distance, which will not affect the intimacy of two people, and will make both parties feel very comfortable. It's like being a same-sex friend, so that it can last for a long time. Friends of the opposite sex are not dangerous characters, and the relationship between the two parties should move forward in parallel and have no intersection.

But if the other party tries to get beyond this relationship, then it must be stopped in time. After all, making friends of the opposite sex is to improve the quality of life, and if you have more troubles because of it, it will be more than worth the loss.

Finally, involve your partner. Having a friend of the opposite sex is valuable, but the relationship with your partner comes first, and if you want to make your partner less suspicious, let him or her join your relationship. Involving your partner in this intimate relationship can make the friendship more correct and long-lasting.

The famous host He Jiong and Xie Na are a pair of close friends of the opposite sex, for so many years, they have not only maintained this rare friendship, but also supported each other in their careers, even Xie Na's husband Zhang Jie is the red line of He Jiong. Many people are puzzled, why is He Jiong and Xie Na on such a good relationship, but Zhang Jie is not jealous at all? The reason is that He Jiong is not only Xie Na's close friend, but also Zhang Jie's "buddy".

Zhang Jie personally participated in this friendship, he witnessed the sincerity of the two people, and of course he would not be dissatisfied.

Summary. Hello, I'm glad to answer for you How to make a person a male girlfriend: first of all, keep a little distance, girlfriends and boyfriends are different, and the language should also be a little more restrained, too ambiguous will make the other party fall in love.

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Hello, I'm glad to answer for you How to make a person a male girlfriend: first of all, keep a little distance, girlfriends and boyfriends are different, and the language should also be a little more restrained, too ambiguous will make the other party fall in love.

If you want to maintain a friendship, you must do the following: first, don't always be exposed to his parents, second, don't always be alone, and third, don't be overly ......intimate with him

Male girlfriends, an internet buzzword, refers to male friends who have nothing to talk about, who can have fun and share their hearts together, but are not lovers. Mao Mao in the film and television drama "Breakup Contract" and Wang Xiaobei in "33 Days of Broken Love" are typical characters of "male girlfriends".

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Personally, I think there is no absolute friendship between men and women, since they can be confidants with each other for more than ten years, in fact, they like each other more or less in their hearts, maybe they are not together for some reason, but since he chooses to be with me now, he must consciously reduce his contacts. If he didn't do it, I would remind him, and if he still didn't do it, I would tell him directly to cut off contact, and the words "confidante or confidante blue" were learned from Qiong Yao**, everyone knows that Qiong Yao is a romance** author, confidante or confidante of blue face, they actually like each other all the time, but they can't be together for practical reasons. So whether it's a confidant or a confidant, it's like a time bomb between you.

Now that we know the nature of our confidants, I will cut them off. I often see two lovers who were originally very affectionate from ** or TV, and in the end they broke up because of their confidants. Now that I have learned from the past, there is no need for me to follow the old path.

Of course, I will tell him the reasons why I asked them to break off contact, and I will tell him that there are three major bottom lines in marriage that cannot be touched;

First, I have to have a confidant in life, and this confidant can only be me.

Second, I can't have an emotional relationship with anyone other than me.

Everyone is an adult, and now that you have a lover, you can avoid some things that can be avoided, let alone establish emotional relationships with people other than me. I think that as a mature person of the opposite sex, I should take the initiative to cut off contact with his confidant, and I should not be asked to remind him.

Third, don't be friends with people who speak ill of your lover.

Since you have been a confidant of the opposite sex with the other person for more than ten years, then she will say good or bad about me in front of you, and your opinions will be influenced by her. And she, as an outsider, can't easily judge our emotional condition, let alone judge whether I'm good or bad.