What is it like to have few or no relatives?

The experience of having few or no relatives is loneliness! <>

At the time of the holidaysCircle of friendsare visiting relatives and friends, but they can only stay at home silently。China is a country that attaches great importance to family affection, and every New Year's festival will visit relatives and friends, and everyone will get together to be lively and lively. When there are few or no relatives in one's own family, they lose the opportunity to visit relatives and friends, and naturally no one comes to visit them.

Especially during the Spring Festival, looking at the lively circle of friends, that sense of loneliness really arises spontaneously. There are very few relatives in the family, and what impresses me the most is that there was a reunion dinner during the Spring Festival one year.

No one came to my house, and we were a family of four sitting on one side of the table. This is really the loneliest reunion dinner I have ever had, and I will probably never forget it in my life. Having few relatives can also make people more introverted and independent.

When something happens to our family, there is no one to help, or there are very few people who can help. Therefore, most of the people in our family are not very good at dealing with people outside, and they rarely ask for help. When we face things, we show weakness.

Because there is no huge family to give us confidence. <>

Of course, having few relatives will also reduce a lot of unnecessary trouble。If no one comes to visit relatives and friends, there will be no bear children to break your figure, and there will be no troublemakers.

Come and stain your hanfu. During the New Year's holidays, there are no seven aunts and eight aunts to ask you about your work and give you a blind date. Of course, no one will come to trouble you often, and they will come to you for help over a little thing.

This way you can live your life in your own little home. <>

Nothing is black and white, good or bad. Even if we don't have relatives to visit relatives and friends, we can visit our friends and go out with our parents. If there are relatives to help you, there will be relatives who need to help.

Regardless of whether there are many relatives or few, I hope everyone can live happily.

There will be a lonely experience. You will feel that there is a lack of emotion in your life, and you will be very lonely.

Life is very plain, not to mention that there are conflicts between relatives, and a lot of unnecessary disputes are avoided.

There are no relatives and it feels a bit empty. Living in this world, there is no home, no relatives. There is only a struggle with people outside, helpless, and the mood is very cold.

The biggest experience is purity, there are very few relatives in my family, most of them are relatively close relatives, I can't see a few people during the New Year's holidays, no one asks all kinds of questions, and no one has all kinds of urging love, marriage, and childbirth.

One of the worst experiences is when you encounter something and no one helps you, or you feel very lonely, and sometimes you feel very helpless.

That's pretty much it for my family, because of some of the migration. It's very lonely during the New Year's holidays, and I never go to my relatives, and I don't have a lot of money for the New Year, that's it.

1. Now that many relatives live in different cities or rural areas, the movement is naturally reduced.

Relatives spend most of the year living in different cities or villages, moving back and forth, not only at the cost of time, but also with the cost of commuting. Even during the New Year's holidays, relatives will be dominated by their own families, and the limited holidays will be more budget-conscious, and the relatives who can not go will not go to the ordinary relatives, and the relatives who are inconsequential will become more and more estranged. In the final analysis, it is the relatives who first open up the distance of the space, and over time, the hearts of relatives will gradually become estranged, and the reluctance to go relatives will become normalized, and whether the distance between relatives is too close or too far, it is not conducive to the maintenance of family affection.

Article **2 Second, with the increase in the number of relatives who dislike the poor and love the rich, they become more and more disdainful of relatives, and they will feel bored when they go to relatives like this, which is a waste of feelings.

Relatives who dislike the poor and love the rich do not put family affection in the first place in measuring intimacy, but put family conditions and personal development in the first place in measuring intimacy, and the attitude held during walking around is closely related to relatives' family conditions and personal development. Family affection is becoming more and more impossible to talk about, even human affection will be very little, and walking around with relatives who hate the poor and love the rich, you will either experience the increasingly severe warmth and coldness of human feelings, or you will feel the increasingly severe cold of the world. Moreover, relatives who dislike the poor and love the rich are snobbish, and stepping on low and praising high will become a common trick, whether it is to become a good trick for developed relatives to become inflammatory, or to sneer at down-and-out relatives.

Article **3 Third, the relatives have changed, and they have become very different from the previous relatives.

Although the relatives are still the former relatives, they can't get back the feeling of the past, and there are fewer and fewer cases of helping each other, and there are more and more relatives who stand by or gloat, or even relatives who fall into the ground. Family affection has become a symbol, and the meaning of the representation has been seriously reduced. Since the change of the people who do not make trouble celebrate the big environment, you can also choose the small environment, with a streamlined liquid grip to achieve the advantages and avoid the disadvantages, the rest of the life is not not to go to relatives, but only with relatives who are worth walking, today's relatives are not the pursuit of quantity, but the pursuit of quality, relatives who should not move around, even if they move around once, it seems redundant.

I'd rather not go to my relatives, and I wouldn't go to my relatives for the sake of going to my relatives, my relatives have changed, and the way of going to my relatives still needs to keep pace with the times. If you stick to the old ways, you are very likely to suffer the loss of your relatives.

There are more and more people in the city, everyone yearns for the life of people in the city, and now people, especially migrant workers, go home once a year, you call him ** time relatives.

Of course there are, and certainly more than one or two. When returning home for the Chinese New Year, many people will visit relatives and key friends. But there will always be one or two relatives who will be very annoying.

There is a kind of person who comes to your house as a relative to eat and drink, and does nothing. Just wait for someone else to serve you. Maybe he just thinks of your house as a place to eat and drink for free.

For this kind of relative, it is acceptable at first, but after a long time, it cannot be tolerated. Especially the kind that is more casual in your home than in your own home, and there is a feeling of being on top, not only not helping with the work, but also yelling at five and six, pointing this and that. I completely regarded myself as the leader of this family.

How can this kind of person not be annoying.

There is a kind of person who may not meet many times, but every time he meets, he will take this as a good opportunity for him to show off his capital and show himself. Chatting with him is nothing more than how expensive his car is, how famous his clothes brand is, and how high-end restaurants he usually goes to eat. Can you not hate this kind of person.

Nowadays, more and more people don't pay so much attention to visiting relatives. Just go to the most important relatives' houses and sit down. And it doesn't stay long.

When you meet a relative you don't like, you don't have to worry too much about it. Loved it and will go back in the future. If you don't like it, it may be just this once.

The line is skilful.

When you go home for the New Year, of course, there are annoying relatives you don't want to face. I think these kinds of relatives are the most annoying, see if you have them around you?

1.Always think only of your own, selfish relatives! What to do first consider their own interests, like to stain the light, they have something, I hope everyone will help him, the world shouts but other relatives if there is something, just stay away, relatives are useful to get close, when it is useless, do not go to visit at home during the New Year's holidays.

Dealing with relatives with a purpose, such a relationship will not last long!

2.Relatives who have no sense of proportion and like to take care of other people's family affairs! Relatives are obviously not their own family, and every family has a difficult scripture to read, but every family has its own things that they don't want people to know.

But some relatives, under the guise of being good for their families, snoop on these things, can't solve the problem, and mess up, and the relatives are not as good as their own family, so they laugh at it, and if they live better than their own family, they are jealous, there are really a lot of such relatives!

3.Relatives who play with right and wrong, their own family is doing well, relatives will be jealous, and they will make irresponsible remarks in everyone's Kaihui Xun clan, which does not play a good role at all. This kind of relative should try to stay away from it and be careful to set it on fire!

4.Shrewd relatives, deliberately look at the movements of other people's homes, but if there is a little cheap, you have to take advantage of it, don't let him take advantage of it, he still feels that he is against him, this kind of relative must not be in deep contact, otherwise people will sell you, and you may still help others count the money.