My roommate is always yelling and startling, what should I do if I don t change it after being remin

Updated on parenting 2024-04-21
5 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    If the roommate is always yelling and startling, it will affect the normal rest and study of the rest of the dormitory。First of all, we should remind him kindly, if the reminder is useless, you can "fight poison with poison", and also use yelling to deal with him, so that he can't stand it. <>

    When a roommate disturbs the dormitory roommate because of a loud noise, the first thing we should do is to remind them kindly. After all, we don't want to make the relationship between the dormitories very tense because of this, and many roommates are very easy to get along with, but I didn't expect that this behavior of ours would affect the popularity around me, and it would make the people around me unbearable, so they will generally change as long as they are reminded a few more times. <>

    Of course, it is not that there are people who can't change anything, and then we should "fight poison with poison". When he's playing games, when he's resting, when he's doing his homework, whenever he wants to calm down, we can use loud noises to deal with him. I don't think anyone can stand it

    And when he can't stand it, he can let him know that making a big noise is annoying to the people around him, and at the same time, let him know that once he lets the people around him rest badly, the anger around him can also make him unbearable.

    When this can't be changed, you can criticize him vigorously, and criticize his behavior in the case of a roommate in a joint dormitory, whether he knows his mistake because of this or doesn't want to be criticized by his roommates again in the future, he will restrain himself. <>

    And when all else fails, the last resort is to get him out of the dormitory. It is possible to get him out of the dormitory by reporting his behavior to the teacher, or by boycotting everything about him in the dormitory. After all, it's not like I haven't thought about getting along well before, it's just a choice made when there is no way.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    If you remind you that you can't change it, it really can't be changed, a dormitory people come from all over the world, they grow up in different environments, so their temperament and temperament are also different, everyone should tolerate and understand each other, and it's good to get used to it.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    When I encounter such a roommate, I will choose to constantly remind her, and in the future, when my roommate has a habitual attack, I will wear earplugs in advance, or stay away from the dormitory in time, and of course, let others persuade her to change.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    I think that in a group life, you can't take care of it, it's his character, it's hard to change, you just make yourself more angry.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    You can follow his example. Let him feel how much he inconveniences others because of his shouting.

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