When you go back to your hometown, what should you do if you meet someone who deliberately shows off

The easiest way is to ignore it, since the other party is deliberately showing off in front of you, it means that in his psychology he thinks that you are not as good as him, regardless of whether he is really better than you in fact or not, in short, it is certain that this kind of person is very conceited.

And since you know that others are not as good as you and still show off, it means that this person does not have any good intentions, and he is in the spirit of watching your jokes, it is best for such a person to ignore him, and he himself is not at ease, since he is not at ease, why should he ignore him? And if you ignore him, he may stop after a while, and the more you ignore him, the more he will show off.

Of course, in addition to ignoring him and embarrassing him alone, there are other ways, such as if the person who shows you is someone you are more familiar with, then you also know a little bit about some of his previous embarrassments, since he is showing off in front of you, then you say something that embarrasses him, you don't need to specify who to say, just mention it, which will be better than you directly saying that it is his matter.

If you're not familiar with the person you're showing, then you can pretend, and the other party doesn't know exactly if you're real or fake.

For example, if someone else says in front of you that the glory of the king is so awesome, and they are already kings, then you pretend to unconsciously take out the glory of the king, if you don't have it, you can borrow it, and so on, in short, others show off with you, you pretend to be more powerful than others, anyway, you are not familiar with it.

It's a very annoying thing to show off in front of others, and most of them don't have much ability at all, the purpose of showing off is just not wanting others to see it, or it's a little ability, but the ability is not very big, whether it's that kind of existence, it's a very annoying existence, so this kind of behavior is either ignored or scolded to death.

Smiling face, everything you say is right, you are the richest, you have the most knowledge.

If you can bear it, or don't think about the incident, then you will let him show off, let him finish speaking, and then say again: "Oh, yes, that's really amazing" This trick is still very useful, and generally likes to show off is to be recognized, worship, just say it, it would be good to make him satisfied, and if you have a little look, you will know that you are impatient, and will stop the topic, and continue to talk about it without eyes, just pretend that you have ** called, there is something to be busy, go aside, Wait for him to show off his momentum before going back.

The face is not full of emotion, the tone is not excited and worshipful to say, this sentence is the most lethal, this ostentatious person can see that you are not interested and not envious, and can also feel your impatience with him, there is a feeling of hitting the cotton with a fist, obviously he wants to receive envious eyes, words of worship, become this kind of scene, he will stop by himself.

I don't understand what he has to show off to himself, and I don't want him to speak so arrogantly, so I just go back and suppress the things he shows off with things that are higher than him, for example, my child's grades are in the top ten in the grade, and his teacher says that he is amazing. Yes, my friend's child is too, and he is escorted by Tsinghua University and Peking University, is your child too? The appearance of a third party is omnipotent, pull out a third party that the person who shows off does not know, he doesn't know if there is, and it can suppress his morale, and even if he says that this is someone else's child, you can also say that it is the same child, and his child is really powerful.

He'll stop showing off.

The more he likes to show off, the more he doesn't, and because he doesn't have it, he has to pretend to be like that. I just want to fill the emptiness in my heart.

If that person says in front of you that he makes a lot of money every year, you say to him: Wow! It's so powerful, it's amazing, and I will ask you to teach me how to make so much money in the future!

If you show how expensive this thing is, you reply to him: "It's amazing, you have the money to buy such a thing." That would leave him speechless.

In fact, many people leave their hometowns to make money, all for the New Year or to be able to show off in front of friends or relatives one day, and they can't imagine how good they are doing, anyway, they can't stay in their hometown a few times a year, just listen to this kind of talk.

If the rebuttal will make everyone unhappy, presumably the person who shows off in front of you must also be your relatives and friends, and deliberately targeting him will make there a distance between you. It's rare to see people show off, and after all, they have to give enough face to others.

In fact, most of the people who show off in front of you are not as good as you, because you know what his situation is, and he himself knows what rank he is in, but he doesn't want you to think that he is not outstanding or incapable, so you need to constantly brag about yourself in front of you to improve your status and show that you are not so bad. In fact, only I know that if my teeth are broken, I swallow them into my stomach.

When someone shows you in front of you, you act as if you didn't hear anything, your left ear goes in and your right ear goes out, think about yourself as a high-end laptop, turn what this person says into a word document, and then right-click to delete it.

People who really live well in life don't need to show off, even if they are not rich enough, but they are rich enough in their hearts, and they don't care about some external things at all.

Hometown is a place that makes us feel more cordial, whenever we wander away for a long time, we always want to go back to our hometown to see, but in reality there are many things that make people feel unhappy, so that we feel that it is not an easy thing to go back to our hometown, if we meet this kind of casual display of people, we need to think about a better way to deal with it, so as to resolve this embarrassment.

First, avoid this kind of person, so that his display cannot be brought into play. For people who go back to their hometown, they will always have some feelings, no matter how they will mix outside, they will feel embarrassed when they meet someone to show off, if there is such a person by my side, I will definitely turn a blind eye, when the other party is still stinky and showing, I will pretend not to hear, and shift my eyes to do other things, if you want to make the other party more embarrassed, let him no longer continue to show off, you can be accompanied by some more exaggerated laughter, and change the topic with others, Thus making the other person feel that he has no way to continue talking.

Second, skillfully slap him and make the other party speechless. If a person always feels that he is doing very well, so he deliberately shows off in front of me, then I will go in his direction, and then scold him a few words, for example, if he says that his car or clothes or even other material comforts are very good, I will laugh and ask him if he is a high imitation or a shirt with someone, when he blushes and argues with a thick neck, I will tell him very calmly, I just say, there is no need to be so excited.

Third, deliberately counterattacked, leaving him at a loss. If the other party shows off that he is rich, I will pretend to be very pitiful and borrow money from him or ask for help, if the other party says that it is okay with a proud face, I will say a larger amount to make him feel overwhelmed, or he will also be afraid of being really borrowed money, and show reluctance, I will sarcastically mock him for being so powerful and so stingy, and the other party will feel embarrassed.

If you encounter this situation, you will definitely feel uncomfortable, so generally speaking, there are two ways to deal with it: one is to ignore him, make him feel bored, and there is nothing to say; One is that you use your own advantages to scare him!

Back in his hometown, he should have been an old friend who has known each other for many years, and when he meets such a person, he looks like a villain, which is the most unpleasant, so these two methods are generally unpleasant.

If such a person shows off in front of you, saying how good he is outside, how beautiful he is, if you really have nothing to do in the near future, you can completely ignore him, if he pesters you all the time, you can look at him with a smile, without saying a word, attack his psychological defense, and make him feel a little infiltrated: "What's wrong with him?" Are you doing better than me?

No, if he had been better off than me, he would have said my ......"Once he has that idea, you start winning. Of course, this method requires you to have a good temper, and if he says no two words and you get angry, it is recommended not to use this method.

Second, he has been showing off in front of you, and you feel that you are much better than him, you can listen to him, and then reply: "I thought I could treat you as my competitor, it seems that I think too much." Then tell him about your grades, of course, don't say too much, the more detailed the better, it's better to summarize your results in one or two sentences, so that he feels like a clown.

Therefore, when you meet a person who is ostentatious, you must first stabilize your position before you can return the favor to him.

If his display is for me to praise him a few words, then I will praise him a few words, and it is worth it to praise a few words in exchange for leisure.

As the saying goes, the more good you have, the more you like to show off, maybe the things he shows off are very common to me, even I have myself, but in his world it is a good thing, but I can't hurt his pride, and complimenting him is also a white lie.

There is no need to argue with a person, my good life is my business, I have nothing to do with him, his good life is his business, and I will not be dishonored.

Showing off is a person's psychology, and many people have the psychology of showing off, but with the maturity of time and the fact that they have seen more of the world, they will find that their display is really not worth mentioning.

People who like to show off are people who have never seen the world, and if he looks at the lives of big business owners and those who earn hundreds of thousands of dollars a year, they will know how ordinary they are.

Since he likes to show off, then I won't say too much, just fulfill his wish, as if I helped him fulfill a little wish, for me it is not enough to worry about it.

If I have already praised him, or keep showing it in front of me, if I have it, I will tell him that I have it too, even better than him, everyone is an adult, I want him to understand the reality, and it is not a child, everyone can humble him.

Recognizing the reality is good for him, maybe it will hit his self-esteem, and it will make him suddenly feel that the things he worked so hard to buy are very ordinary in my eyes, and he will be unacceptable for a while, and if he can't accept it now, he will be hit even harder when he goes to the outside world in the future.

Everyone's personality is different, their personalities are different, and their way of dealing with things is also different. When you go back to your hometown, there will always be people who show you how he is and what new things he has achieved. There are a few tips for this situation that can defuse the embarrassment.

If that person usually has a good relationship with you or he thinks that you have a good relationship, and he belongs to the kind of person who can exaggerate, when he says this, he should just share the joy of his success with you, let you know that he is doing well, and let you rest assured, and there is no malicious intent. In this case, listen carefully to him and give a few words of blessing.

If that person doesn't usually talk to you, just nodding his head to each other, and then he still talks to you about his achievements, then he is deliberately showing off, and for this situation, I don't want to listen to it, so I find an excuse to excuse myself and say that I have something, and it's OK to slip away.

If that person is not usually right with you, always likes to compare with you, and has a competitive personality, he likes to show off in front of you, and you don't want to have too much entanglement with him, just when he doesn't see you, avoid him, can't be provoked but can afford to hide, just bumped into it, and it's not a big deal to occasionally admit defeat, and slowly he himself feels that this is boring. If you really can't bear it anymore, if you don't anger him, go back, there is always a place to compare with him.

But in general, try not to pay too much attention to what others say, after all, life is lived by yourself, and only you can understand the feelings, as long as you are happy, what do others have to do with yourself, live your own life and let others say it.

We often talk to our peers when we go home. So in this group of friends, there are always one or two people who always like to show themselves in front of others. In fact, we don't have to feel uncomfortable when we meet this kind of person, or feel uncomfortable or something, one thing we should understand is that the more a person wants to show what he has, then the more he lacks such a thing, if your friend is in front of you, showing his own ability, or when he is very powerful in every aspect, maybe in that aspect, he is not so powerful.

When we meet this kind of person who loves to show off, we should not uphold a heart-wrenching attitude to face her, when she shows herself to you. There may be some people who want to suppress him in the face of this situation, and they want to suppress him by showing that they are better than him, but in fact, this does not achieve the purpose we want.

So in the face of such a person, how can we suppress his arrogance? That's to ignore it! If a person always wants to show himself to others, then what he wants to see most is the approving eyes and tone of others, and when you show an attitude of disinterest in what he says, you can deal a big blow to him and let him know that no one is interested in these things of his.

And then over time, he will slowly restrain himself. When I face anyone, I trumpet my exploits. We don't have to show others that we are particularly good or particularly good, when you are really good enough, even if you don't show yourself, others can see it.