What do you think about the blind date?

I think blind dates are a good choice to expand my social circle. In the past, when I was young and vigorous, I was also very opposed to blind dates, thinking that it must be those who are particularly ugly or have no ability to go on blind dates, and those who come to blind dates must be selected by others, so I don't want them.

But then by mistake, I went on a blind date because of the top bag, and I was just holding the mentality of having fun, but I fell into it. That's right, my current husband is from my blind date, and he is very good except for satisfying my prejudice against blind dates and not being good-looking, probably "I'm ugly, but I'm a model of gentleness"! Ha ha!

Looking back at the friends who are married around, in addition to the higher stability rate of developing from classmates to lovers, the stability of free love and marriage is not as good as that of friends who marry on a blind date, because when you are in free love, only the feelings of two people are considered, but marriage is not a matter of two people, it is the getting along and running-in of two families, and there are many contradictions in the middle.

Those of us who get married on a blind date, although there will be contradictions, but because we have adjusted each other's matching degree through the world before marriage, such as the right family, the three views are the same, and the families of both sides also have a high tolerance, so there are still fewer problems. Even if the young couple is momentary and wants to divorce, there will be parents, relatives and friends on both sides who will stand up and persuade them.

Compared with those who are in free love, the families of both sides don't know each other at all, there are many misunderstandings, and it is easy to fall apart when things happen, not to mention, many free loves are long-distance relationships, which makes the woman's parents very unhappy and feel that they have raised their daughters for others in vain.

I'm not saying how good a blind date is, I just want to eliminate most people's prejudice against blind dates, after all, if you have a narrow social circle, blind dates are also a good choice of mates!

I think it's very good, now for a college student like me who is about to graduate, I don't have a partner, and I don't want to look for it in the university, I want to find a suitable person in the city where I work after I stabilize myself.

Many people's first impression of blind dates is those blind date shows on TV, let's fall in love, let's date, big cities and small loves, love each other, and so on. But my biggest feeling after watching this circle is that no matter how old you are, no matter what job you have, no matter what your background, you want to find a partner who matches your status.

To put it bluntly, the job position should be comparable, the salary should be about the same, and there should be enough ability to stabilize in the city. To put it more bluntly, it is equality of interest.

I think it's a good thing, a capable person, he won't be very harsh, he won't have other things to worry about, and it will be more convenient to get along. You will not compromise someone's laziness and comfort because you love him. <>

My future plan is to try my best to find a job that suits me in the city I like, and stabilize it, and then introduce a boyfriend through a friend or something, and have a blind date, I think it is a very lucky and beautiful thing to meet the person I have been with for life in my best state.

Some people say, I don't care how much money you have, I say, you fart. Love without a material foundation has no future, only quarrels and pain. Why can the Korean ** goddess and the ugly husband Lee Sang-soon live a secluded life and love each other very much, because they are very rich and just want to live a life without eating fireworks in the world.

And we are all ordinary people, girls don't be stupid and say I don't care how much money you have, I care, I care very much.

This is not money worship, nor is it inferior values, there is no economic foundation and no superstructure, and anyone who has studied politics should know this truth. So, ah, the blind date is good.

As a senior blind date, I am still very qualified to speak. Since the end of the New Year this year, I have been on a blind date with 13 people. On average, two a month.

Although I don't like blind dates very much, there is no way to deny that blind dates can also meet good girls. Because I'm currently dating my thirteenth blind date, and I've already established a boyfriend and girlfriend relationship.

In fact, a long time ago, I also believed that blind dates would definitely meet good girls, but I felt that this thing was quite difficult. Because you have to have enough blind dates. I always thought that I would have to go on a blind date until I was one hundred and eighty years old to meet a suitable one, but I didn't expect her to appear so soon.

The previous blind date girls were also very good. Like the first person I went on a blind date, he was a very good person, and he was also very sensible. Especially able to be diligent and thrifty, it is also very profitable to work or something.

I'm a year older, but I still feel good. So I also wanted to have a good relationship with her, but what I didn't expect was that I always felt tired chatting with her. I don't know if it's ** inappropriate, anyway, in the end, we can only part ways.

After that, I watched a lot of them, and they were all very good girls, but I didn't even have the desire to have a relationship with them. Some of them can't grow up directly, some are too old, and some don't have a common language at all. I didn't even say I would see it, but there was always a glimmer of hope at home for me to take a look at it, saying that I would say yes or something.

Resistance is ineffective. Going against the parents ends up in the form of a quarrel. I knew that my parents were in a hurry, so no matter what it was, I went to see it, but the emperor lived up to his painstaking efforts and finally met a girl who felt very good.

We've been talking for more than a month now, and it's still feeling good, and I think my spring should be here.

There are good and bad blind dates. Personally, I don't resist blind dates, mostly because I'm afraid it will be difficult to find a marriage partner on my own, and blind dates are always a way to know people. Sometimes I worry that I won't meet the right person in the blind date, and the purpose of the blind date is too strong, and it is difficult to get involved in it.

For someone who has never been on a blind date, I'm still quite curious about blind dates. Now I'm busy with work, and I don't usually have much social interaction, so I am afraid that the only strangers I come into contact with every day are pedestrians passing by on the road. In this case, blind dates are also a good way.

So whenever someone asks why I haven't found a partner yet, I always say I'm waiting for a blind date, which often gets other people's incredible eyes.

Nowadays, many people are resistant to blind dates, I have seen cousins at home go on blind dates, most of them are matchmakers who lead boys to girls' homes, first parents ask about the basic situation, and then boys and girls are together to ask where to work, what to do, etc. This kind of blind date is really embarrassing, and because most of the two people are very restrained in front of their parents and outsiders. And it's hard to see anything.

Most of the blind dates have a lot of candidates in their hands, and a variety of choices will determine who is the best match. Nowadays most people are very proud, how can they stand that you are one of the others. And because the blind date is rushing to get married, most of them are very realistic, which makes many people disappointed in love.

However, this is not without benefits, at least the blind date can understand each other's families, which reduces a lot of risks. There are many people who marry far away and often don't know each other's families very well, and sometimes something not so good happens. Therefore, blind date can also be regarded as a way to seek stability.

If you can reap a love by yourself, a blind date is a chicken rib for you. If you can't meet love yourself, blind date is also an option. Adjust your mindset in case you meet true love?

If I had to talk about blind dates, I think blind dates are still very necessary for us. And some people may be very advocating free love, but sometimes free love will also have a time when it is wrong and unreliable, because the free love advocated by young people is mainly based on love, but in our lives, many times there is still a big difference between love and marriage, love may be as long as the two of you love each other enough, but marriage is to form a family between two people, and there are many responsibilities and obligations, he is no longer only as love-based as when he is in love, And after getting married, two people have to think about a lot more than they did before marriage. <>

Especially after the two have their own children, the responsibilities and things to be done will become more, love may only need to see whether the two people like each other is enough, but if the blind date then the two people need to see a lot of things, they will see whether the woman is a housekeeper, whether she is virtuous, and the woman will also look at the man's job, whether there is a house and a car, whether you can maintain a good economic situation after marriage, this is what the blind date people will think, and it must be guaranteed after marriage, indeed, Marriage is not child's play, there are too many factors to consider, so there are many people who have a boyfriend or girlfriend outside, when they reach the age of marriage, they will choose to go home on a blind date, because some people are indeed only suitable for falling in love, but not suitable for marriage.

Just like our village, acquaintances through blind dates also abound, even if some girls have boyfriends outside, their parents will ask them to break up, and then arrange blind dates for them, in fact, they don't blame their parents for their reality, but a society is too realistic, and they also hope that their children can live better, so in my opinion, blind dates are actually very necessary in our lives.

There is a good saying, a blind date is to forcibly pull two people who are not very smooth on the road of love together. Many families are formed through blind dates or introductions from relatives.

There is such an example around me, a cousin has stopped going to school very early, has been working outside and has no chance to contact boys, and has never looked for a partner, and then returned home and did not move, which is also related to her more introverted. Later, the adults in the village arranged a blind date for her, and several of them didn't agree, but they didn't like anyone, and finally the one finally fell in love. The two of them got along for a while and discussed getting married.

If it weren't for the adults arranging a blind date, I guess my cousin wouldn't be able to get married.,Get to know each other through a blind date.,If you can get along, you can try it.,If it doesn't work, just forget it.,It doesn't have any impact.。

There are also cases in universities where we introduce classmates to each other, but we are too young to think about so many things. During the summer vacation, a girl who played better with me introduced her best friend from high school to my buddy, and the two of them also sent each other **, and they didn't meet and talk in private, and they didn't determine the relationship, and they often went out to play and so on, but they never established a final relationship. Later, the boy didn't want to talk about it anymore, that is, because of a little contradiction, I think it was a bit far-fetched when I was together, if it was a good friend who introduced you to you, you might not be able to give face if you didn't go, but the relationship can't be far-fetched, or you have to look at it yourself and feel appropriate.

Blind dates have indeed contributed to a lot of marriages, but the probability of success is a bit low, but as long as we are good enough, we will definitely find a suitable other half.

In modern society, especially in some ** and film and television dramas, blind dates are always written as a very exclusive thing, but in fact, there has always been a blind date since ancient times, through the introduction of two people who know each other, if you like it, you will be together, and if you don't like it, you will be friends, just like there was a saying of an introducer before, and there was also a matchmaker in ancient times, which was not only in modern times, but he had a more suitable name.

Then again, blind date is born in response to the development of human beings in society, and it makes sense that this activity has been passed down through the years. Many men and women who have reached marriageable age do not know men and women of the same age for various reasons, or even if they recognize it, they will venture to express their affection, which will make people feel that Meng Lang is not in line with the fine traditions of our family. In the case of having no acquaintance and wanting to meet, it is very effective to get to know each other through introduction.

It's just that in today's society, this kind of behavior has also changed. We all say that this is a fast-paced society, blind date has become a very purposeful behavior, the two sides are no longer based on emotional exchanges, first of all, to understand each other's education, net worth, economic ability, before they can start to talk about feelings. This form allows people to quickly eliminate people who are not suitable for them in this high-speed reality society, and only when they find good conditions can they start the next step, which saves a lot of time.

But just because this is a blind date on the premise of marriage, but it is full of purpose, too material and realistic, so that some emotional people can not accept, these people believe in fate, attach importance to feelings, attach importance to marriage, this screening method completely loses the throbbing of a relationship and marriage, and will naturally be rejected, after all, many people still believe in love. But I think whether it's a blind date or fate, it's right to adapt to your own situation, everything has a good side and a bad side, it's how you see it, and it's not a few people who have a happy family through blind dates. Blind date is also fate in another sense.