Why can t I forget my ex girlfriend?

Updated on psychology 2024-04-25
4 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Man is an animal with feelings, and everything in life is your best memory. You used to love each other so much after all, even if you are no longer together now, but when you see those familiar things, you will still think of her. People are like this, only when they are separated, will they understand the goodness of the other party and the value of the other party.

    It's a pity that you've broken up. <>

    Maybe people are so good at pretending, so good at being cheap. When you're together, you're my heaven and my earth, and it's not any bullshit when you break up, and you even feel that the other party has some deep hatred and hatred for you, and you don't get along with each other for a long time. But after a while, you feel that life without her is really sad, as if you are not living a life, but a life.

    But what this can say is that you are still in love with others, and you may say that you are not, and you deceived yourself at that time. Only the human heart is the most real. Maybe you don't like her anymore, you've come out of that past.

    But you can deceive others, you can't deceive yourself, otherwise you wouldn't think of her often, think of the past between you, right?

    The time you spent together was not false, and during this time, you were very happy and happy. So, it's normal for you to miss this time from time to time, and it's normal to think of her, but if it's a lot, it's a little bit abnormal.

    You should also try to get out of it and not be too risky. If you think you really can't let go of her, then you go back to that girl and don't let yourself regret it. It may be that the breakup between you was caused by impulsiveness and did not really want to break up.

    People are always like this, when they get angry, they do everything, but at this time, their behavior is definitely not a decision made by listening to their hearts. So, be brave, maybe she regrets it too, she shouldn't have broken up with you.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    I don't think I can forget my ex-girlfriend, it's a painful torment for my heart. If your ex-girlfriend is still in love with you, has you in her heart, and wants to get back together with you, then you can choose to chase her back. But if she no longer loves you in her heart and doesn't want to continue to be with you, then you have to slowly try to let go of her, because this kind of relationship, wishful thinking on your own will not have good results and future.

    I think under normal circumstances, if you really like someone, it's hard to let go of her. Because, feelings are a very domineering thing, like is like, and you can't give up easily. Not to mention restraining your heart and letting go of the person you love. <>

    However, if it is impossible for you to get back together, you know very well in your own heart that you and her will not have a future. At this time, you have to tell yourself about the existence of these problems when you can't help but think about her, when you can't let go of her, you have to keep this worry and consideration of these real problems at all times, and warn yourself that you shouldn't be like this. You and her will never be together again, and you have to try to let go of her slowly.

    But if your ex is still in love with you, and there is still affection between you, then you should try to catch it back! It's not easy to fall in love, meeting is a kind of fate, don't give up a person you really like because of some trivial things. After all, it is not easy to meet a person in love with thousands of people, don't give up because of some trivial things, don't miss someone who truly loves each other, and don't let yourself regret it for a lifetime.

    If you love her, be brave! Don't be afraid of failure, as long as you treat her with your sincerity, you will reap your own happiness.

    That's my answer, I hope it helps you and I wish you happiness.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Boys have a consciousness that their ex-girlfriends are still their own women, so when their ex-girlfriends come back to them, they will acquiesce to any deviant words they say, and they are willing to do most of the things for them, because they subconsciously think that their ex-girlfriends are still their own women, and their men should fulfill all their wishes.

    It is undeniable that every man has this kind of inferior nature, and he likes his three wives and four concubines to hug him left and right, who doesn't want to have more confidants in his own red, the more peach blossom springs, the better. Even if he is an infatuated person, no one will hate to be liked by girls, because this is a kind of charm to prove himself.

    Because boys have a desire to conquer, even if this woman used to be their own, but now they don't belong to themselves, showing themselves in front of their former women, and now they are strong. I also want a lot of women to be around me, feel their strength, and then let the women they like admire. And men are also able to make their ex-girlfriends remember themselves, even if they are not together, they must let the other party remember them, so they often contact their exes and miss their exes.

    The ex-girlfriend is a very special existence, she used to be her own woman, but now that this woman does not belong to herself, the man can't accept such a thing, even if she doesn't like her now, but there is no way to see that the woman who once belonged to him is not his own. What is lost is more precious, I believe that not only men, but for many people, it is only after the loss that they feel more precious, when they really have, they feel nothing.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    I remember all the bad things, and the more time passes, the more I feel that he is not good, that he is not good to me, and I forget all the few good things.

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