Why can I still laugh when my parents are divorced?

I feel that this is related to the experience of your original family, you can laugh, there is a possibility that you are "heartless", and you may not be aware of the harm caused by the divorce of your parents, which may be a good thing to some extent. It may also be that your parents may not be very affectionate, and they may quarrel, so they are exposed to it, in fact, the subconscious already knows that the two are unhappy like this, and you actually subconsciously don't want them to quarrel like this, and now your parents choose to separate, which is actually good for both parties, so you won't have too much sadness.

I think you know more clearly: the helplessness that you have to accept under the objective realization. With earlier cognition, it is natural that you will not be seriously troubled by it, and as for the feeling of sadness, it will become weaker, and even have the illusion that you can't feel it.

In fact, you still hope that your original parents can reconcile!

Because, you may not have felt the real family affection from them, in fact, the parents' affairs have nothing to do with the children, whether divorced or not, you or you, the future life is only for you to break through, in this life, there are too many things that you can't figure out, of course, there is nothing difficult in the world, as long as you are willing to give up, it is how it should be, and you will accept it naturally.

You said that when you laugh, it means that you have a more optimistic personality. It is also able to mature to acceptance. The blow of the breakdown of the family. It's true that adults can't control children's things, but it's better to live a good life and face life head-on.

You can't control the affairs of adults. It can't be solved, so it's a helpless laugh. Or, their quarrel used to hurt you a lot, so, now that they're divorced, you feel relieved.

It shows that your heart has been strong to a certain point, external things can not affect you much, and you know very well that you are at a certain point in the present or future, and nothing else matters!

It's better to laugh than to cry, and the adults' affairs are solved by themselves, so that you don't have to feel heartache, take good care of yourself, learn to be strong, and live bravely.

You can't change it, all you can do is be happy. Respect their choices, and respect yours.

It's good to live without heart and lungs, and adults don't get involved.

Plain is true, stranger, I bless you!

Peace be upon you!

Those who live without heart and lungs, and live a long life.

After the divorce, parents suddenly don't like to laugh and don't like to talk, the reason is that the blow of divorce has a great impact on him, so he will become not like to laugh and not like to talk, in this case you should talk to your parents well, so that they can change their mood and face the reality bravely.

Because their relationship is broken, or rather their relationship has failed. It's a psychological blow. At this time, you should comfort them more.

The blow of a failed marriage is very big, so they become less talkative, and at this time as a child should be sensible.

Anyone is in a bad mood after a divorce, especially them, and children, one is a face problem, and the other is a relationship problem, and they are too normal to behave like this.

Because after Mom and Dad divorced, they felt unhappy, and even felt that many people in this world didn't love them anymore, so there was nothing to be happy about.

It's normal, because after their relationship breaks down, there is no way to live a normal life like the other party, so in many cases, they don't speak out of some actions for the breakdown of the relationship, so I think you still need to have some way of life of your own.

It's not a good thing for parents to get divorced, so it's normal for parents who love to talk and laugh to stop laughing, and it's not normal if they continue to talk and laugh.

Why do you suddenly stop laughing or talking after your parents divorce, because you are affected by them, and you are not happy, so you are very disappointed, so you will be like this.

Definitely, because of the divorce, I am not in a good mood, so it will be difficult to laugh again for a while, because there is no nourishment of love, no family. Relationship.

Because they will have a greater impact on themselves after the divorce, they feel that they are no longer a family, so there will be a gap in their hearts, which is a normal psychological adjustment.

Maybe your parents hurt you a lot after the divorce, which caused you to be like this.

So why don't they suddenly like to laugh or talk after the divorce, because their emotions are in conflict, they are divorced, they will be sad, they will be sad, but they can't be together.

It is estimated that after your parents divorced, you were in a bad mood, your bald personality became introverted, and you don't like to laugh anymore, and you always feel that the world may have changed.

Since your parents are divorced, it will definitely affect you, the family, and your personality.

So it's normal not to laugh and talk.

Sure, who is divorced and who is happy? It's all in a bad mood, and no one likes to laugh anymore, because he's divorced, so he's sad.

Of course I don't like to laugh, I definitely don't like to laugh after divorce, and after divorce, it hurts a person the most.

Because every child hopes that their parents can love each other for a lifetime, if they are separated suddenly, many children can't accept it, and they feel that they will be hit hard.

I think many of them are also helpless, after all, they are somewhat reluctant to separate.

After all, when a family is broken up like this, everyone is very sad in their hearts. But if you think about it, the two of them won't be happy together, so you should bless them anyway.

Now that they are divorced and have been hit hard, do they still have the heart to laugh?

This one is not affected, and the two are not related.

As long as the child is excellent.

It's good to meet the requirements for being a soldier.

He's not the person I want We're not fit in every way No communication No sense of security Thank you Lord I'm in the same situation as you So I'll borrow it back Thank you.

Why get divorced, have you asked yourself? Is it that the two of them can't get along together or something else. Think about why you want to get divorced.

If marriage is really painful for you, resolutely leave, don't be afraid of anything, your parents love you, they won't be happy if you suffer, don't be afraid of other people's jokes, others don't understand your heart. But there is one point what you plan to do after the divorce, remarriage or single, the situation after the divorce must be better than now before you decide to divorce, otherwise don't mess around, marriage is not child's play.

Don't, I've had a time when I remembered, and then I thought I couldn't die, why should I die? Am I damned? Am I superfluous?

No! No! No!

I can't be superfluous, even if you live too badly, it's not superfluous, hurt everyone, we have something to think that he and she live too happily, it's not fair. It's just a matter of reference if we see a person who lives in a ruined house on the street and is disabled. We will feel pitiful, I am so pitiful, I will have endless pain to talk about the day, but I don't want to say, I say it is useless, I still feel social inequality, I also call on the poor to unite from bullying.

It's not very useful, we all have difficulties, help each other! If you have any difficulties, you can ask me and complain.

Don't think about what to do, live your own life with peace of mind, think about me and I'm not living for those who laugh at me, what does it matter to you when my parents divorce, not to mention that there are more divorced people now, maybe it will be their turn next time, it's okay! It's good to live your life happily, it's a day to be unhappy, it's a day to be happy, why not be happy for a day, you say?

Let the past go with the wind, go your own way, there is nothing to be entangled, the matter of parents may be a helpless move, who has a good life, but to get a divorce, don't think too much, think that there are many people who are worse than me,

Everyone has a reason, parents are the ones who give us life, and they are not gods who can't do it without making mistakes. They are them, you are you, you must live a better life, and don't let your parents live in self-blame for the rest of their lives. We cannot deprive them of their happiness.

Start a new life on your own, after all, they have also raised you, so you won't contact them and live on your own. Just send some money back every month.

Perhaps they have left an indelible wound on your young heart!

You have to be strong and brave in the face.

Life, to maintain a good attitude, parents they also have their helplessness, as children to learn to understand,

When you grow up and start a family, you will understand the reasons for your parents' divorce, and you have to live well.

Life is just a mentality, how can you be happy if you can't tie the knot all the time!

Parents communicate, not to find a psychiatrist.

If you are a woman, I suggest you marry far away.

I think that children from families with divorced parents should get out of the shadow of their parents' divorce as soon as possible, socialize more with children of the same age, and contact their parents more, knowing that although their parents are divorced, their love will never be absent.

The divorce case between Jia Nailiang and Li Xiaolu seems to have finally come to light, Jia Nailiang ushered in his own filming time after the divorce, and Li Xiaolu was almost isolated from the entertainment industry, and only her daughter Tianxin and her own ** business accompanied her.

Jia Nailiang has gone through this marriage change, giving people a feeling of being rebornHis newly starred military-themed TV series has also received very good praise, Jia Nailiang is a phoenix nirvana, and Li Xiaolu's acting career is not smooth at all, it seems that no one is looking for her to film.

And Xiao Tianxin, who has repeatedly **, sometimes looks like a rural child, unkempt, and doesn't want to be a star at all, and sometimes she bursts out with a smirk**, in fact, the damage of divorce to children can be minimized, as long as parents are in line with the concept of thinking about their children, children can generally grow up healthily.

Tianxin is like Li Xiaolu when she is quiet and unmoving, and once she is lively and happy, she becomes like Jia NailiangThis proves that a complete and happy family still has a great impact on children. In a healthy and happy family, children always learn from their parents without teaching themselvesadvantages, and these advantages can only be found in the situation where parents live in harmony.

Now that Jia Nailiang and Li Xiaolu are divorced, and the children spend most of their time together with Li Xiaolu, will there be problems with the development of Xiao Tianxin's character in the days when they are not accompanied by their father.

And before the two divorced, Tianxin inherited the respective advantages of her parents so perfectly, and now that her father is not always around, the child's heart will definitely be a little lost, although she doesn't say it, but she will think in her heart. Even so, with the care of her mother and the care of many relatives and friends, Tianxin's life will not be affected by her parents' divorce.

And Jia Nailiang loves his daughter very much, and he will visit Tianxin when he is free. Looking at Tianxin's latest **, she looks so lively and cute, her parents' divorce did not hurt this cute little girl, I believe she will be able to grow up healthily.

Let it be, just do what you should do, and don't have too much psychological pressure.

Ordinary heart, divorced families are most afraid of mentality, which produces extreme psychology, so mentality is very important.

Such children generally do not have a sense of security, and it is necessary to give the child enough security.

Hello! The most innocent are the children.

It is recommended to take good care of the children.

Whether it's away or not.

I can only say that we should create a good environment for children to grow up as much as possible!

Haha, since they all explained to him that he was still okay on the surface before, I don't think you have any big problems, don't get divorced, divorce is not so simple, men may be too careless and don't know how to care about people, what can you tell him to do? Right.

Are the children all toward him? Even if you get divorced, do you think it is possible for you to take care of two children by yourself, the children have his father's surname, and his father doesn't care about his grandmother and grandfather? Divorce and don't have children, you can't go to work with children and can't earn money, what do you eat? Gnawing on the old?

Traditional concept, relatives feel that a divorced woman with children is ashamed, in fact, I think it is not suitable, you have to separate, it's nothing, don't care too much about other people's eyes, go out for a walk, take a look, let yourself sublimate, and hope that you will also work hard and find your own happiness.

It's not your fault, he's ruthless, and you should fight for greater rights through the law.

Yes, it is generally said that women are weak and easy to bully, but they have two children, how can they be divorced because of their incompatible personalities, which is quite strange.

Divorce is not a person's fault, and if you go out with your children for a while, you may see that you will not care about other people's opinions.

Why divorce, is the fault of you.

The traditional concept is that persuasion is not persuasion, you are the closest, and you are counted in order to let him turn back as soon as possible!

Find out the reason from yourself!

Smile bitterly, you don't know the pain in her heart, and she doesn't want to express it.

I guess I'm so sad that I don't have the strength to cry, so I can only smile.

No one in this society will laugh at you, only you laugh at yourself. If two people can't be together, they can't, reluctantly. Otherwise, in the end, it is you who will be hurt?