Why didn t I have the courage to rebel against my parents?

I'm glad you can have this kind of thought, at least you have your own idea now, and you're very happy for your girlfriend, and the man she likes has thought about your future for her. Many children will listen to their parents for everything because of their parents' care and education from childhood to adulthood, and forget to take into account their own thoughts and ignore their own feelings, just like their parents have helped them plan their way. Yes, our parents do help us plan for the future, but we also grow up, and we often ignore our feelings because of their love, always thinking that they may be right.

So we don't have the strength to resist, and we will even wronged ourselves. But empathy, if a child who has been cultivated for more than ten years suddenly puts forward his own ideas to you one day, even if it is wrong, will you beat and scold him? On the other hand, will you feel relieved that your child finally has an idea, even if you think the idea is wrong?

But you're still going to be happy, aren't you? So be brave enough to communicate with your parents, they will feel happy and relieved even if they disagree, and their parents are not as old-fashioned as we think, come on.

Slowly prove to them that you can live without their protection. Reality and ideals are not the same, and many of your thoughts deviate from life, however, in the face of such a situation, I chose to take my time. Start with yourself, laundry, cleaning, cooking, ......Prove that you can take care of yourself; Whenever parents discuss something, insert a few words about your own opinion on that matter to prove that you have begun to have an opinion. When the time comes, tell them what you really think.

Whether your parents are enlightened or not, it will at least make a difference.

Advice: Life is too long, sometimes what you pursue is just your own dreams, see it clearly and then pursue it, bless you!

Since you have such a question to yourself, you have a certain amount of courage in your heart. Why do you have to resist, there are some things that maybe it would be better to sit down and communicate slowly. Parents want their children to do well.

Understand each other For love, as long as you are firm in yourself, no matter how much others stop it, they will not interfere with your choice. After a long time, they will see your happiness, and they will accept it silently.

Maybe you are still young, but your parents will always be our dearest people, and they will not harm us. They are not at ease, and their concern for our survival in society is always everywhere. The most important thing for us to understand our parents is to understand them.

Unrealistic, you'll understand that life is too short and time will prove unless you have the ability not to rely on your parents.

In fact, parents are still good for you, and sometimes you should consider it from your parents' point of view.

The ideal is very plump, and the reality is very skinny.

You can try to discuss and exchange ideas with your parents.

The ideal is very plump, and the reality is very skinny.

Have I ever been hurt by a word for a long time? Then this one is definitely there.

For example, I was once sentenced: If you don't do housework and study, what else can you do? It's been a long time since I've been hurt.

This sentence actually. It may be more common in families, because it may be more normal for parents to get angry sometimes. In the families I have seen, this is the case, because if you don't do the housework, then you may say that you are not filial or lazy or something, which is what your parents think.

Moreover, in the post-00s generation, there is indeed a relationship between them and their parents. There are some generation gaps or some different perceptions. And parents may be influenced by the older generation, and they will feel that reading is the only way out.

To be honest, I think reading in my mind, he is indeed a good way out, and he can get you very quickly. Crossing a class, let's say you used to be a farmer, then you learn to become a merchant or become a merchant by studying. Intellectuals, or not professors, etc.

Learned people. But reading is not the only way out, for example, you may have some business acumen, or you have more perseverance, you can make your own outstanding achievements from other aspects, but your parents don't think so. They say that reading is the only way out, and this sentence has a deep impact, so we often clash with them.

At home, it probably is. We may play for a long time, so parents may see you when you play, and they will feel very angry because they are working hard outside, and they may be very angry when they see you playing very leisurely. And then at this stage, for example, in middle school or high school, then there is a lot of competition, because everyone may not just learn them in school.

There is also the possibility of enrolling in cram schools outside of class, that is to say, you may be in class six days a week, and you may have to write homework one day on Sunday, so the competition is very big, you are excellent, others will be even better, then this competition will be very great, not that you don't work hard, but that you work hard, and others will learn from the dead. So his parents are not. I know this too well, and they will often compare you with other people, for example, other people who are so good at reading, and you can't, if you study and do a little bit of housework, it's okay, so this is also very, very hurtful, this is something I can't get out of for a long time, because at that time I was powerless to refute, I do think that I can't read.

Then I feel sorry for them. But this one has to go slowly. Look at it, learn to be tolerant of yourself, and be kind to yourself.

Because everyone is constantly being chased by others on the road of life. Sometimes it's okay to give yourself relaxation, but what? You must do what you want to do.

That makes sense.