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It seems that your loneliness is terminally ill. You may be an introvert, introverted for a long time, you will slowly become inferior, slowly lonely, lonely for a long time, become tired of interpersonal communication, slowly become afraid of crowded occasions, in such loneliness and loneliness, you may have nothing to do. So you have to change it, you have to change it.

First practice smiling often, write more at home, thank you, talk more, listen more and exercise your eloquence, learn to take the initiative to greet colleagues, take the initiative to talk to colleagues about what you have seen and heard and interesting things around you, and integrate more into the collective life among colleagues. As long as you work hard and do things solidly, then you will win the trust of many people, and then get the opportunity to develop. You can try to work harder and do a little more every day than others, so that you will gain the attention and attention of others.

Go. In this society, being too lonely might make you look cool.

But it will definitely not lead to success.

Unless you're extremely good.

No matter how lonely you are, there is an interesting side.

If it's something you're interested in, go for it.

If you don't like it, forget it.

Again. Socially. Refuse once or twice. Others won't call it a third time.

Then you will be even more isolated in the eyes of others.

If you don't want to, you should socialize.

Although some things are also involuntary.

If you don't want to go, just refuse, it's nothing, everyone's hobbies are different, and their personalities are different, and colleagues should respect your choice

For example, if you have a colleague dinner, you should go to this kind of occasion, after all, you will continue to stay in this company in the future, so it is also necessary to have a good relationship with everyone.

I think it is still necessary to communicate with people more in life, and having dinner with colleagues after work in my spare time can play a role in releasing stress

In the future, you will have to work with them, for the sake of the future situation, you can still get together with them appropriately, don't always be alone, no one will get along with you after you don't fit in.

You can change your own, you can't change the environment, you can choose to adapt to the environment, and it's good to play with them.

In a company, some necessary socialization is indispensable, you can not go every time, but you also need to show up occasionally.