Some personality issues have been bothering me a little long, I hope to read it after reading ha.。。

Seriously, you want to get some wind and rain out to get people's attention. You don't want to be ignored, you want to have a presence. Then you can find out what are the advantages and advantages of yourself.

You say that you are not good at talking, in fact, you are good at talking, from your language, I can feel that your thinking is relatively clear, plus you said that you are very humorous to acquaintances, there are topics, this is to prove that you are born with the ability to communicate, but you don't like to show it. Maybe you are a little afraid of life and a little introverted, but enthusiastic people in society can better integrate into society, and I believe you also understand this truth. It is recommended that you learn more from your friend, how he talks to others, you can learn from it, and it is not a big deal to say wrong.

In fact, if you are open-minded to communicate with people, you can also understand people. The best way to talk is to compliment people and say that you were beautiful today, that you looked like you were happy today, that something happened. People will always reply to you.

Don't stop talking all of a sudden, think brick-on, help you talk to others.

Do I have a personality problem? Don't get in touch, so be it! You have your happiness. Are you happy or not? Please hope you can get some help from it! Haven't you heard a sentence before you finished reading lz. At.

There's no problem with that, it's just a little introverted, don't think too much, you want to maintain good relationships, sometimes it's tiring, no one is perfect, talk to your friends

Can be changed! First of all, you have to give up the idea of forbearance, know that everything can be solved, first calmly think about whether what happened has affected your life, (as mentioned above, it has affected your rest) and then explain to your neighbors politely, pay attention to your attitude, and don't let them think that you are trying to provoke and find fault. I think it's understandable that people are comparing hearts to hearts.

But if you don't have a good attitude, it's hard to do.

As for your personality, it's actually a very common human psychology. You need to be calm, that is, to be calm in the world. This can be exercised, as long as you are determined to change.

I recommend you check out Dale Carnegie's book The Weakness of Human Nature. To calm down, not only to know, but also to do. I believe you will definitely benefit a lot.

Hope it helps.

Some of the problems seem to be personality problems, but in fact there are deep causes, and even you don't realize that your current situation may be affected by some environment and events, and it is best to see a psychologist and let the doctor help you find the reasons behind your personality, and there will be a change in personality naturally.

It is recommended that you go to see a Chinese medicine practitioner, because you only belong to the category of liver fire, and your own personality is not like to cause trouble. It is necessary to take care of the physiology first, and the psychology will naturally be good. Fearless.

Perhaps, you have to overcome your two personalities and try to say what you want to say.

To vent appropriately, such as going to the gym.

Actually, what you said is similar to me. But I'm a very stable worker, but the heart is very impatient, always unhurried to do things, friends often say that my personality is too slow, as for what profession: network maintenance, engineering, pay attention to what to do to grasp, your future is very good. 、。

A slow life means that you are calm and calm.

Hello landlord, I have a little research on psychology and personality issues, and I can give you advice, I hope it will help you-

1. According to professional surveys, 57% of the world's introverts are introverts, who can get motivation from their own views on things and reasonable and accurate judgments;

2. Extroverted and introverted personalities have their own advantages, and how to make good use of personality is the key; Introverts have rich imagination and strong thinking ability, while extroverts are more energetic and enthusiastic.

3. There is no direct relationship between introverted personality and personal handling skills, speaking skills, and judgment ability;

I think so... Maybe you can start with the Internet first... Chat QQ texting or something. It is not impossible to practice your language skills first and then slowly devote yourself to practical life.

Everyone has his own personality, and you don't have to worry about your own personality. There are noisy people in this world, and there are naturally quiet people. Otherwise, the world will be unbalanced. Hehe.

If you really don't know how to talk to someone, you can start by listening. Sometimes the listener is more popular. Besides, when you listen to what people say, you will naturally become a good talker.

The key is to be attentive. Do everything well with your heart, and there will always be a change...

Introversion is not something that can be determined by how much you speak. You can organize a picnic party on the weekend and so on, and it will get better over time.

Haha, there's a way. This is the type of social phobia, but it's very light and light, and it belongs to the normal category. I suggest you take a look at Masama Morita's book, which should help you with the specific meaning of going with the flow and doing what you should do.

You always want to know how to avoid problems, and any problem that is avoided will never be solved, only by facing it, really facing it, it is possible to take the first step. Then there is acceptance, not thinking about how good you want to behave in front of everyone, no matter how bad the performance is, you can let it be natural, and then you can feel the infinite pressure brought by this fear. What you are afraid of is not a specific person in a situation, but a sense of fear.

When you realize that, then do something that makes you confident. A person who is not confident is not confident in any situation, so he behaves timidly. I believe that even small things will make you feel confident, give it a try.

Life is made up of a lot of fears and insecurities, and living with all these difficulties, experiencing and being aware of them, is the only way to transform them. There is also a book you can read "When Life Falls: Wisdom in Living with Adversity". Come on!

Judging from your writing, you are actually a more humorous person! It's not the dull type, you also have the spirit of self-deprecation, and it's rare to know yourself correctly. Since you know yourself so accurately, you must take the first step bravely, and every few more steps will definitely get better!

The key is to be confident! Don't take into account the eyes of others, even if you really make a fool of yourself in front of everyone, what does it matter? What's more, others don't pay attention to you all the time, you have to remember that you are the only one who pays attention to yourself from beginning to end, and others don't notice you that much at all.

You have to practice your composure in the crowd slowly!

You can go shopping.

There are so many people on the street, it must make you feel uncomfortable. Go a few more times and tell yourself that those people aren't looking at you at all. You can also use the excuse of buying things to negotiate with the female boss and practice calmness in front of the opposite sex.

And don't be cranky, don't care too much about other people's opinions, who says it well, go your own way, let others say it!

Good luck with your interview.

A Wallenda effect, I wonder if you know? In fact, as long as you believe in yourself. You can only think about how to do this well, don't think about the consequences!! I believe you!

It's social phobia, and I have it too. It's really hard. If you look it up, many people have the same experience, but they can't get rid of it!

You've seen complex knowledge, and you've tried hard.

And the crux of the problem is that you don't reach out enough. Even if you follow the "truth", you will always wait for others to contact you before you act, imitate and try, you have not actually taken the initiative.

To put it simply, life is like a play, and it all depends on acting skills. Be generous and decent, not stage frightened, dare to admit it, and need to be thick-skinned.

I'm not too worried about your problem, because the opportunities you have to socialize with others are very different from those when you are a student and when you come out to work, and many situations after work will make you have to take the initiative to contact people, and you have to be generous and decent.

Therefore, support the landlord to continue to work hard and imitate it step by step according to the principles you have seen.

Be yourself, keep your interests, learn solid knowledge, and have the opportunity to grasp it safely and without too much trouble, and success will slowly approach, which may be more suitable for your personality than if you strive to succeed.