Others are looking for a job in a day or two, but I am a year or two. The heart of death is gone!

Don't be discouraged if you have this situation, the key is to analyze the reasons clearly, if you don't find the right direction of development, I suggest: start with the industry that is needed by the society, for example, you can learn auto repair if you have more cars; If there are more houses, you can decorate them; If it's a girl, I think you can also make handicrafts, such as cross-stitch, and it is also very profitable to decorate beautiful watches; Now there are many empty elderly people in the city, and they can also learn advanced nursing; There are also domestic nannies, there are many rich people, and they are willing to spend money.

If you've been unhappy with the company you've been interviewed with or approved of you, it's time to reposition your requirements. Are you too demanding? Is this not a good fit for me?

Just think about it so much, in the end, friends, don't be confused, don't give up, don't affect your choice because of your momentary frustration, opportunities are only given to those who are prepared, believe in yourself. Come on!

Good luck.

Don't be discouraged, friends, the main reason is that you didn't choose the right industry, or you don't know much about yourself. Be sure to put yourself in the right position. For example, if I am suitable for trading and have the conditions (including my own conditions and economic conditions), then I will grasp the business opportunities, but I must have perseverance and not be arrogant or impatient.

If you have other conditions, the key is what kind of work you can adapt to, of course, any job has to be difficult from the beginning, remember to work on the ground. Now there are college students sweeping the streets, and maybe it is not necessary to wait until the next day to become the leader of the Environmental Sanitation Bureau, so don't be too ambitious. Find a simple job first, it is very important to accumulate experience, work experience cannot be bought with money, it includes many, many more, so it is better to see yourself clearly first, and don't think too idealistic of yourself.

Think about what kind of company you want to go to, and don't be afraid to try it because you don't think your conditions are particularly good.

Dare to think and dare to do, look for a job with a positive and enterprising heart, and treat the result with the most insipid heart.

Tired, bitter, annoying, painful, angry, only after experiencing it can you know what it feels like.

Go to work in the morning.

Try not to look for a job in the summer.

Don't rush when looking for a job.

Be patient and compare each job position.

Don't get engaged.

Isn't his family very rich, he doesn't work.

He doesn't know how to take care of the basic things such as supporting his family and taking care of his wife.

What do you want to get engaged? If you want to get married, you have to be prepared to take on family responsibilities.

He agrees that fucking words are not called filial piety, but in turn to blackmail you and make an excuse for himself.

If you are filial and love your girlfriend, you have to ensure your income no matter how hard and tired you are, you can change jobs if you want to, you can find a good job, you have to ensure that you have an income!

It's time to ask him if he's ready to get engaged or even married? What do you want to build a home in the future?

If there is no good job in the sky, what should I do? (I think that's how he is).

You must be right in what you did, don't use 3 years of feelings to weigh yourself down.

What men and women need is to pay and maintain their relationship from time to time, and they don't look for the hard work, or they still don't look for it at the strong request of their favorite girlfriend. This is the refusal to give.

You really shouldn't mention breaking up, don't mention it if you want to love, it's very emotional. But this is not considered a threat, is he not able to find a job? How can you blackmail what you can do???

Is it because of the 3-year relationship that they continue to stay together, or because they have a good future. Don't get engaged if you can't see the future.

In my personal opinion, it's best to give up on him.

I'll give it a look! 1.I once heard a DJ say something similar to you!

What did you like about him in the first place? Character, good person, so did you value him at that time whether he was self-motivated? It's been more than three years now, and self-motivation is not something that can be seen for a while, and it can't be pretended to be for a while, so I think you have to study yourself deeply, you liked him at the beginning, maybe he is self-motivated, and now three years is not the same as it was at the beginning?

So I believe that in the past three years, whether he is self-motivated or not is responsible for you, I think you can make a judgment on the relationship in the past three years! As for the fact that you have all graduated now, perhaps you have only just entered the society to experience the pressure of society, so it is inevitable that you will feel that the sweet days in college are very different from those in society, and maybe you have not adapted to this kind of social life now.

2.As for your future happiness, it must depend on the efforts of both of you, he is not working hard now, he is now on the Internet all day long, if you think she doesn't listen to what you say, then you have to be responsible for your own future, I think if he is self-motivated, she is responsible for you, he will not be idle all day not out to find a job! Your marriage and your parents' opinions are objective, mainly depends on the two of you, each parent wants to see their children can be harmonious, so if something goes wrong between you, they will inevitably have wrong judgments and opinions, not to mention that the parents on both sides of you don't know each other very well, right?

So now you do your daily work, while you have time to do ideological work with him, your happiness depends on you! By both sides, you love him, he will work hard, he will work hard, and in the same way, he is right! Oh, I hope you can be happy.

I support you, you're right, I think it may be that he is in a bad mood and you have to be considerate of him, such a result is not what you want to see, maybe he has no feelings for you, I think if you don't want to give up the requirements a little lower, but if he is not a person who can be entrusted for life, I think forget it. It's nothing, and don't let go, I'll tell you that it's just you and him, nothing wrong. After all, you didn't talk to him, you have to grasp him, he is the bet of your life, I hope you press right.

Don't make a mistake. Or he has a good girlfriend again. I suggest talking to him!

Say goodbye to quarreling, stop when you're going to fight, don't let it happen, think about it. Decisions are being made. Best to the support and blessings of the family.

Hope it helps.

Hurry up and break up. Such a man is unreliable.

And it's clear that his parents are on his side.

The man has no sense of responsibility at all.

His parents spoiled him like this.

If only the two of them were really together.

In the future, you will only have the points that you regret.

Experience. Words from the heart.

Persuading you to be ruthless Breaking up is the only right choice.

Now decide. so as not to regret it later.

You fool. Now he doesn't have a job.

You know, now in the financial crisis it's hard to find a job.

Also, it is generally after the Chinese New Year that a large number of people are recruited.

It's the second half of the year now.

It's the hardest time to find a job.

Besides, you're all college students.

Just because you don't have a job now doesn't mean you won't have a job in the future.

It's a big deal to take a break in the past few months.

After the New Year, it's not too late for him to go back to work.

It's not easy to find someone you really love now.

Don't break up for a temporary absence of work.

It's not worth it!

You've been together for three years.

You should know him better ...

Let's see if his situation is just caused by a momentary mood or something else.

It's a good thing that two people can walk together.

Let's talk about it.

Many things can be solved in the end.

Just don't look for something too extreme.

Kick it out and ask boys to be self-motivated Now like this, imagine the future unless the family can raise it for a lifetime.

If you have money, then raise it. If you can't raise it, then break up.

Does he love you? If you love you, help him.

Break up if you don't love .

Break up If you are really with him, you will definitely not have a good life.

It's pitiful, the woman who has been played with is passive, I'm afraid that no one wants it, there is no way.

Break up with him, and now all good men are...

Just like I did at the beginning, the memories of the past came back to my heart, and the painful memories can never be erased.

I was looking for a job at the end, a notice to go to the interview, I walked for more than 4 hours to the door, found that to the front door, and the back door to the front door still have to walk for an hour, to the front door was already 2 hours late, the interview supervisor looked at me with puzzled eyes and said: Why don't you call? I can't even afford a bus ticket, so I'm taking a taxi.

I left silently. The cruel experience of eating from 3 steamed buns to 2 steamed buns every day to eating only 1 steamed bun a day, and I haven't eaten a meal with vegetables for half a year. There are so many good companies that I have to give up.

The revelation to me is: everything is persistent, you can find whatever kind of job you want, and the first job is very important, and it is the starting point of your future future.

Difficulties will always be customer service, there is no money and parents to ask, I know that I have asked for many times and I have no face to open my mouth, but you have to firmly believe, wait for it, I will double my earnings.

It's important to eat, so find something to do first.

Misfortune and blessing rely on Blessing and misfortune lurk.

Finding a job is not that easy.

If your family's financial situation is okay, then ask for money from the family, your parents will not care about these things with you, and you can earn it.

If you don't have money, then find a job to eat and live together, work for a month or two, and then take advantage of this period to look at a better job, and you can take advantage of the vacation to walk around. You can't really starve yourself to death.

Work experience can be edited, but you also have to have some material, check on the Internet, what kind of work, what kind of content is done. Then when I was looking for a job, I wrote my work experience a little shorter, even if I missed the stuffing, it was fine, and I said that I was a small company, and some things could not be compared with large enterprises. Watch your own play.

Being able to surf the Internet without any money means that you are not stupid!

If you are a computer expert, teach people how to access the Internet without money!

I believe that a lot of people learn!

1) At any time, it is people who adapt to the environment, not the environment to adapt to others;

2) After leaving the school and taking Liang Kai's post, everything will return to zero and zero mentality;

3) Learning is endless, only continuous learning will make continuous progress;

4) Less empty talk and more practical things;

5) Be able to recognize the objective reality and don't overdo it. Command.

Say hello first. Let's look at luck. :) you can't die even if you find out your little fiction, don't be nervous.

The company recruits people with the first feeling.

Some companies won't greet you and go to investigate, so it's safer to say hello to your counselor first.

Don't be nervous, let it be, adjust your mentality, and you can't cheat in the future