30 year old unmarried and without a house, do you want to continue to drift in the big city?

Updated on society 2024-04-28
19 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Hello, this problem is indeed a difficult choice for unmarried people today, everyone's choice is different, you have to integrate your own conditions and advantages in all aspects, if in the big city is conducive to your work and life can consider staying in the big city, if you are more nostalgic for your hometown want to spend more time with your parents and family, it is also a good choice to choose to return to your hometown to develop, and now the rural economy is also developing rapidly, and finally good luck! Come on!

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    I would still choose to stay in the big city. Because I am 29 years old this year, I am facing this situation, I have no car, no house, no object. On the one hand, I have stayed here for many years and adapted to life here, but I may not be able to adapt to it when I return to the countryside; On the other hand, as long as you are willing to work hard, life will always get better, the city will be richer in resources, and it will provide better conditions for yourself and future generations.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    This depends on the individual's wishes, there is no absolute statement, everyone's pursuit is different, everyone's ideas are different, there is a problem of opportunity, you can't say that you give up because you don't have anything, but what you think, just like many people will say don't give up your dreams, many people will also say that you have to be down-to-earth, the two themselves are not contradictory, it mainly depends on everyone's choice, everyone must learn to make their own decisions, good and bad to bear by themselves, I won't regret it later, and when I say it's someone else's fault,.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    If I can get married and have a house when I go back, then I choose to go back. It's still unmarried and unhoused when you go back, so it's better not to go back, there are many people you know in a small place, and it's very annoying to ask around. The key is to see what causes 30+ unmarried and unmarried, if you want to choose this kind of no matter how much you earn, you don't want to buy a house, let alone get married, then you still enjoy this state in the big city, can you have so freedom when you go back?

    Estimated overhang. Although big cities are attractive, in terms of life, in fact, first-tier and small cities have their own advantages and disadvantages, and there is no obvious difference between superior and inferior, which is why the choice is more difficult. For the same job, the salary level of the two places is very different. China's high-quality medical resources are concentrated in first- and second-tier cities, and the older you get, the greater the demand for medical care.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    It is recommended to stay in the big city, there are many opportunities, all kinds of resources are concentrated, and you will find all kinds of discomfort when you go back to the countryside.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    It's up to you.

    In fact, when you ask this question, you should have an answer that you can't be sure of.

    It's mostly your ......If you're willing to go back home, don't regret it! But if you still have dreams, and there are people you love in the city, and you still have a lot to do, then stay, follow your dreams, and leave no regrets!

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    This kind of choice, the answer is definitely different, everyone's situation is different, you can't simply say, which choice is correct, it can only be said that it is the best choice, there are many job opportunities in big cities, high wages, and back in the countryside, what can you do? Now a lot of people are going out of the countryside!

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    In big cities, there are many opportunities and high ceilings, and there are few opportunities in rural areas, and there are low ceilings, but compared with big cities, there is more competition, and small cities are not very competitive, and it depends on what kind of life you want to live.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    If you mix well in a big city, have a high income in your workplace, and can buy a house and repay the loan, you can stay and develop. If your income is low and you barely have enough to eat, it is better to go home and develop.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    If you are 30 years old and unmarried and don't have a house, it has nothing to do with whether you are in a big city or a small city, but whether you have found the right direction of development, the right direction, marriage and house problems, it is easy to solve.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    You're in such a bad situation! You're just 30 years old, and you can continue to struggle, and I think you should work hard now that you're in a big city. Only if you work hard, you will not regret it in the future, and the house will be there after all.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    If it were you, you would choose to stay in Ayutthaya.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Then you have to have a clear understanding of yourself. The ability is mediocre, or the ability is outstanding; yearning for comfort or yearning for wind and waves; Energetic or exhausted......No one can help you decide. If you want to go, I think, then go.

    You might just want someone to push you while you're struggling.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    1...If you don't have a house, you can continue to struggle, and if you are tired, you can choose a small city, and the pressure will be very small.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    1. Continue to stay in the big city, have adapted to the life of the big city, and return to the countryside to live a lot of unaccustomed life. If you don't have a house, you just have to buy a house.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    You can't go back to the countryside. I have become accustomed to all kinds of life in the big city. You can't get used to it when you go back to the countryside. You can feel very lonely, very depressed, and you really don't have much to do, and you don't want to face that kind of rural land.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    If you stay in the big city, you can't go back to the countryside again.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    I just finished watching "Thirty Only", and I saw your question, so it should be in response to the situation! The subject can also take a look, Wang Manni in the play is in the same situation as you. I think 30 is just a number, looking back at which age in your life, aren't you full of confusion?

    Or look forward, how can there be a definite number in the rest of life? Fight for what should be fought.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    For a 30-year-old unmarried single young man, whether to continue to choose to drift in the big city, the most important thing is to respect his inner thoughts and make decisions and choices based on his own reality.

    First of all, if you are wandering in such a big city, you have always been unable to find a sense of belonging and identity, and you are full of confusion about your future life, then you should decisively choose to return to your hometown, or choose a city that is more suitable for you to develop, maybe the pressure of living in such a city will be relatively small, and you will live a happier life.

    But if at the age of 30, although it is okay to be unmarried, but return to your hometown or other cities, it is the same result, and you can't find your own development direction, then it is better to continue to stay in the big city and continue to drift, after all, the big city has better development opportunities, can provide a larger development platform, and the age of 30 years old is not very big, you still have a certain development potential and development space.

    Of course, no matter what choice you make, the key is still your own feelings, as long as you can really feel happy and happy, then whether you are drifting in a big city or developing in a small city, it doesn't matter to you.

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