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Because, why is the driving force of the world's prospects.
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Why do some people talk to death, while others talk more and more speculatively?
When chatting, you often ask questions to find common topics to talk about, but some people chat, just talk to death, you keep asking people, it will make people disgusted. For example, "What do you like to do in your spare time?" The other person said, "I like to read books."
You continue to ask, "What types of books do you like to read?" He said, "I like to read biographies." "If you're not familiar with it, it's easy to talk to death.
In other words, when the other person says that they like to read, you start to bring up divergent topics, which is more helpful to continue the conversation. "I'm guessing you're a very assertive person who likes to be alone, right? "It doesn't matter whether you guess right or not, the important thing is that through this topic, you can open the conversation box, and the other party will take the initiative to talk to you, and you can also take the initiative to say that you also like to read books and like to read management books.
If you don't like to read, you can also say, "I'm a person who doesn't like to read, I like to watch movies." "Next, you can talk about the movies you have watched recently, you can talk about your own opinions, you can also talk about clips from the movies, there will be endless topics.
If you keep asking each other, it will make people feel very uncomfortable, and through divergent questioning, people will not be stressed, and this kind of chat will make people feel more comfortable.
In addition, in the process of chatting, there is a small trick that can quickly shorten the distance between the two sides, that is, when asking others, also say some of their own things, and even share a little secret of their own with the other party, or the troubles they encountered, when you take the initiative to say something similar, the other party will feel that you are treating him as your own person (very simple, who is willing to tell others about their troubles and secrets, unless it is a confidant or girlfriend), you treat him as your own person, Of course, he will be willing to treat you as his own, and since you are his own, he will definitely talk more and more speculatively.
Let's share some other good ways to quickly shorten the distance between the two sides and open up the conversation.
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People are always asking you about things, probably because what happened to you makes others curious, because no one else has sorted it out. Maybe I've only seen it on TV, so I keep asking you.
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First of all, because you have strong personal ability, you can better help others answer questions, and secondly, you are more affinity, so many people are willing to ask you, at this time you should be humble to help others.
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1.Listen patiently: When others keep asking you why, start by patiently listening to the questions they are asking and make sure to understand their questions thoroughly to avoid confusion or misunderstanding.
2.Share your feast thoughts: Before the question, you can think about it for a while, clarify your thoughts and ideas, and say them separately or both so that others can understand your point of view.
3.Explain the reason: When someone asks a question, be sure to explain your own reason.
If you want others to stop asking why, you can ask your own counter-questions, such as "Do you understand my point of view?" Or, "Do you have any other ideas?" This can in some cases make the conversation more productive and enlightening.
Of course, the final strategy depends on the specific situation. Depending on the situation, choosing the right solution for you, such as admitting your mistakes, explaining the constraints, etc., can make communication easier and maintain a good conversation.
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Summary. Hello, what if a girl keeps asking you how to do this? How to do that? It means that this girl wants to get your attention, and he is interesting to you.
Hello, what if a girl keeps asking you how to do this? How to do that? It means that this girl wants to get your attention, and he is interesting to you.
It's not like that, it's an online guy who often asks me this question, how do you do it.
Do you have feelings for him.
In the same way, he often asks you this question and that, and he wants to get your attention.
I just don't know what that means.
What is he referring to by this?
Is that so? He asked me how to do it and asked me to help him.
What do you need to help him? If you only spend time holding the mask, it means that the other party wants to get your attention, if you not only have to spend time but also spend money, let the trouble then I think the other party is a bit too much, he just wants to lie to you.
I also feel like this, I spent money to help him, and I feel sorry for what to do now.
I also feel like this, I spent money to help him, and I feel sorry for what to do now.
If you have already spent money on him, it means that the other party just wants to take advantage of you, and a boy spends a girl's money, he definitely does not like you, I can give you 100% of the money to be in trouble, so you have to do something stupid now, stop paying attention to him, and refuse all his contact.
If I reject him, my money is not impossible to get back.
Do you spend more money on her.
I spent tens of thousands of dollars on him.
It shows that this boy is a ** <>
It's possible that all of your identity information is fake, so I recommend that you go to the police as the first step.
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