Why do people like to betray people? How do you feel about someone else s betrayal?

Each has its own reasons Not all of what you see are betrayals It's just that some of it is different from your own thinking Maybe it's not going with your own way We all think it's betrayal In fact, analyze it well Our thoughts are not necessarily right I hope you can analyze them all when you know that if it's really a betrayal, I still hope you can deal with it with a tolerant heart A person's life is tolerant of others, and what you get may be happiness.

Some people change their minds, some people get tired, some people are powerful, some people judge people by their appearance, some people are persecuted...In short, there are things in the world that no one can think of.

Personally, I think that his betrayal is all the fault of whom, it's just that the chord between each other is broken, and Er is not as good as he imagined, or it may be that in his opinion, Porphy is now a perfect person, so, buddy told Er to make himself rich, and all shortcomings will be covered up. Only if they betray her, they will be sad again, look at the point.

Hello, I feel that it is forgivable, as long as you make a mistake, change it, start over, give others a chance, forgive others for talking about Chi Heng is an open-mindedness, forgiving yourself is a relief, learn to forgive you will find that you are relaxed, happy, confident, and mature.

Sometimes, some words and practices of friends may hurt you, family members, colleagues misunderstanding make you distressed, there are many things in life that make you not as you wish, or even painful, why not change the way of thinking and learn to forgive? Forgiving others is an open-mindedness, and forgiving oneself is a relief.

If you don't forgive, the hatred or resentment buried in your heart because you don't forgive is often due to our own narrow-mindedness, low self-esteem, vanity, inability to let go, and lack of objectivity. It's like we often don't forgive someone for unintentional hurt, don't forgive others for the inconvenience they accidentally cause to themselves, don't forgive the blows of competitors, all of these will make us miserable and unhappy, we often have a knot of depression in our hearts, we carry the burden of the past and can't throw it away, and it affects the happiness of looking at the future now. You step on the blooming flowers, and the flowers leave you with the fragrance of flowers; You pushed open a door and window, and a fresh fragrance blew outside the window; You have climbed over a mountain, and the scenery on the other side of the mountain is even more charming; You wade through a small river, and when you see the ocean, you will feel so wide ......

Think about it quietly, is it necessary? Everyone's life passes in a hurry, just a few decades, it's too late to enjoy it, it's hard to be a day, and it's a day of happiness, why let these trivial things always exist in your future life? Why let those unpleasantness disturb our vision?

Why should those who have abandoned you and will not appreciate you still exist in your mind? Learn to forgive.

I will find that those who are confident, fulfilling, open-minded, generous, and happy in life are more likely to forgive others.

Depending on the situation, in the face of a person who betrayed me in my life, I would depend on the situation, because trusting a person tends to believe in all of him.

If the opposite is the case, and this person is just covering up his usual behavior, and his heart has been brewing in his heart to betray you, then this betrayal is not worthy of forgiveness.

The ancient Greek philosopher Heraclitus said, "It is impossible for a man to step into the same river twice" is justified. This means that people cannot make the same mistakes, and if a person betrays you out of malice, then you cannot forgive him, otherwise he will repeat the mistake again and again.

What's worse is that he sees your kindness as weak, even crushed, and will cause you more damage.

Sometimes, people who are too honest tend to be taken advantage of by others. If you are too honest, you will be stupid, and if you are too kind, you will be considered weak. After all, in this era of fierce competition, many times honest people are tolerant and humble, he doesn't seem to have any opinions, and he doesn't know how to refuse, so he is at the mercy of others.

So, when necessary, you have to show your personality and guts.

There are often such things in life, when you kindly forgive the person who betrayed you, forgive him for the first time, he will cry with gratitude and be good to you; But the second time, he would only faintly say thank you; After many times, he will not hesitate to think that you should forgive him, otherwise he will think that you are too stingy.

This is the so-called grievance, such a person cannot forgive him in the first place, let alone give him a chance to hurt you again. You should wipe him out of your circle and stop talking to him.

There are people who are close to you, not because they respect you or see you as a friend, they just treat you as a step, step on your head if necessary, and betray you at any time.

Some people have softer hearts. When others beg him, he thinks about others and makes some unrealistic fantasies, even thinking that the other party will be lost, know that he is wrong, and never do it again. This psychology belongs to the likable character.

Over time, your kindness may not be exchanged for the sincerity of others, but it may be exchanged for the contempt of others. Your forgiveness may not be reciprocated, but it may hurt. Your kindness ends up hurting yourself, but your tolerance turns into indulgence.

So, once you don't think the other person deserves to be forgiven, then you can express your feelings directly.

Some people just like to bully people, and when you learn to retaliate, they will respect you and even fear you.

The more I experience, the more I believe this sentence, and there is nothing wrong with being ruthless. As the saying goes, no one shall offend me, I shall not offend anyone, and I shall not tolerate anyone who offends me.