What does it feel like to have a belief that you have always held on to crumbling?

This earth will not stop turning because your beliefs have collapsed, no one will pity you, you can only become strong yourself, find another faith, and then work hard.

I feel that there is nothing left to be nostalgic for the world, there is no motivation to live, and everything becomes meaningless.

I felt as if it was time to start all over again, very tired, helpless, but with no choice but no other way.

As terrible as the sky falls, the soul has nowhere to rest, and the days to come will no longer be good, full of sorrow.

At that time, I worked in the company, and I did business with my very good colleagues, most of which was my credit, but I didn't say it, and later I learned that he directly told the manager a lot of his ideas, and finally he was promoted, and I understood what glass friendship is.

He and I went from college to graduation, from graduation to marriage, I originally thought this was love, but in the end he betrayed me, and I don't believe in any boy's emotions anymore.

I am a self-reliant person, it is not strange that a belief collapses, the world is cold, life is still very long, it would be good to establish a new belief.

Then I have to start over, I'm not the kind of person who can give up on myself easily, I want to push myself to see how capable I am, even if life tortures me endlessly, I will still stick to my heart.

I may be sad at first, but as long as I adjust, I will still be strong and live my life.

I worked hard for three years of high school just for the university I loved, but the failure of the college entrance examination made me feel that all my efforts were in vain, and my summer vacation was gray.

The feeling of collapse of belief is that the things that you have always trusted have suddenly disappeared, and the things you can rely on are suddenly gone, which will make people feel collapsed, and at the same time, it will make people feel empty; It is not advisable to remain in a low period after the collapse of faith, and it is necessary to establish new beliefs as soon as possible.

Belief is the unity or "alloy" of human cognition, emotion, and will. Beliefs contain certain understandings, without which people would not have the object to believe in, and thus would not have beliefs. However, belief is not a cold epistemic phenomenon, it is closely related to people's feelings as a cognition that people strongly agree with.

Strong convictions are often accompanied by fiery feelings. Because of this, beliefs are always driven by emotions to lead to corresponding actions. Belief is not something that is only hidden deep in the human heart, it must always be expressed outwardly, in the form of behavior and practical will.

Inspired by faith, people's will is strong, their actions are resolute, and they are unswerving.

I don't want to live, I don't dare to die. Losing interest in everything and finding that he has no capacity for love, nothing but numbness.

In life, each of us is judging things as good or bad as right or wrong based on our own beliefs and values, which constitute our thinking and act on our behavior and emotional reactions.

The more a thing is in line with our beliefs and values, the happier and happier we are; The more we go against our beliefs, the more sad and sad we become. Therefore, it seems that emotions are influencing our attitude towards life, but in fact, it is the beliefs behind emotions that govern all this.

In other words, each of us is being imprisoned by our own beliefs and values. And in all personality types.

Among them, the one who is most imprisoned by beliefs and values is undoubtedly INFJ.

INFJs are the people who need faith, rely on it, and live by it. They like to give meaning to things, and it is precisely because they project their beliefs onto things that they will work tirelessly to carry out something if it is in line with their beliefs.

Otherwise, no amount of facts and truths can shake this group of stubborn people, even if they do it under heavy pressure, they are unwilling and unable to exert all their strength.

That's why the biggest pressure on INFJs isn't being lonely, not being understood, and no one getting understood. It's their own choice, and if they don't want to be lonely, understood, or understood, they can do it, or at least they will do it. It's like Rick's line in "Rick and Morty", "I'm a pickled cucumber, as long as I want to".

Since my freshman year, I have been constantly participating in various organizations, clubs, and selections. I want to be good, I want to make a difference in this university for four years, I don't want to achieve nothing, but every interview, I die at the last hurdle, I think I am calm, calm, I am very satisfied. However, the final result was not what I expected, everything was not what I expected, it always failed, I don't know why, I was disappointed in myself all of a sudden!

What I'm most afraid of is this, nothing will happen in the end, from the past to the present, I have failed many times, class committee elections, speech elections, financial ** elections, assistant elections...All the failures destroyed my beliefs again and again, my perseverance, and I was afraid of disappointing my parents, disappointing myself, and making me doubt whether my perseverance was still meaningful, and suddenly I lost confidence and doubted my ability.

I always seem to fail at critical times, college entrance exams, learning to drive, various interviews...Mom always said that I didn't care enough, I really put my heart into it, I really worked hard, I didn't want to disappoint you, I didn't want to be disappointed in myself, I always worked hard, I wanted to show myself, but I failed again and again, so I kept losing confidence, I didn't know what to do...

Society is constantly developing, and people's thoughts and concepts are also constantly changing.

Life is so unpredictable, people need a certain amount of faith to support their survival.

But what we believe is not necessarily right or in line with personal and social development.

For example, from an individual point of view, I know that tobacco is harmful to health, but how many smokers are there in China? From the point of view, knowing that tobacco is harmful to the health of citizens, but still enjoying the huge tax benefits brought by tobacco in silence.

For example, if there is no crime in this society, the public procuratorate and the law will have to lose their jobs, and if people do not get sick, doctors will have no jobs. And all that.

Therefore, this society is full of contradictions.

How can something like a belief be clinging to!

All we have to do is to break down and stand at the same time, and constantly revise and improve our own concepts.

Yes, it's better to stick to it.

First of all, put yourself in perspective. Find your strengths. Then, let your strengths play to your strengths.

This is the most basic condition for gaining self-confidence. To gain self-confidence, you must first gain a sense of satisfaction and make yourself feel that you are very good.

This is the most basic. Therefore, you need to make good use of your strengths and try to play to your strengths.

Do more, only in this way can you taste the satisfaction of success as much as possible, then you can build self-confidence.

If you think you can't do anything, and you don't do anything, you don't dare to do anything. The less confident you become, it's a vicious circle.

As long as you get the satisfaction of success, you can further gain self-confidence. Of course, maybe take your time. You can start with small things and gradually increase them.

Self-confidence, in fact, is just a state of mind. All you need is to discover it yourself, and you don't need too many complicated processes.

As long as you have faith in yourself, then you will definitely be full of strength. Don't be overly considerate of others, pay too much attention to what others think of you.

Deal with any setbacks with a nonchalant and normal mindset. Self-confidence, in fact, is very simple, just believe in yourself.

When you have self-confidence, you will be able to do everything. The key lies in yourself, as long as you have confidence in yourself, you can solve anything.

In addition, the biggest factor of self-confidence is probably the influence of the outside world on you.

To know that what others say about us is always what they think, and we don't have to live in someone else's world. Just do your own thing.

Why don't you care so much about him? It is necessary to have the momentum that the world exists only for itself. Have the courage to go your own way and let others do what they say.

No one can change themselves, no one can control themselves.

When you succeed, it's your own business, but if you are influenced by others and retreat, it's your own business, so why bother to control yourself for irrelevant people.

The last sentence: Believe in yourself, and you will be full of self-confidence. It's all about the mentality.

Be confident. Many scientific studies have proved that human potential is great, but most people do not effectively develop this potential, among which human self-confidence is a very important aspect. Whatever you do, no matter when and where, with this self-confidence, you have a belief that you will win, and it will enable you to quickly shake off the shadow of failure.

On the contrary, if a person loses his self-confidence, then he will achieve nothing and can easily fall into eternal inferiority.

As the saying goes, "practice makes perfect". You are before**, and then think seriously with questions, you should be able to get started. Secondly, it is necessary to cultivate interest – interest is the best teacher.

Think about the pros and cons, the causes, and the consequences of this matter, how to do it, and how to do it better

Slowly, you will be able to concentrate. I wish you a sooner and more successful concentration!!