What should parents do with such a stall?

You can only accept it slowly. What seems to be a kind of "work" is actually a kind of "love" for their children, and parents will always care for their children in different forms. As the saying goes: pity the hearts of parents in the world.

On the one hand, the old man's desire to control his children is too strong, and he always wants to dictate the married life of his son and daughter, and wants them to live according to their own ideas, and this will cause the disgust of the daughter-in-law or son-in-law, and then there will be contradictions, after the contradictions, the old people not only do not realize their own problems, but take the stick of filial piety to coerce their children to obey themselves, and even some old people will let their children divorce their spouses.

On the other hand, the concept of the old man and the concept and living habits of the young are different, generally speaking, a very good old man must live with his children and his wife, living together all day long, because of the existence of differences, it is inevitable that there will be various contradictions, and after the contradictions, the old man will cry and complain that the children speak to their spouses, saying that they have raised a white, in fact, in the eyes of outsiders, this is a bit unreasonable.

For the elderly who do this, the children have grown up, have their own lives and choices, they have the ability and the right to deal with everything themselves, they should not interfere in their lives, to respect their choices, although this is difficult, after all, they have been in charge of their children for decades, they have been accustomed to the identity of parents, and feel that children should listen to their own words, but this is not right, to adjust from the concept, to do something they want to do, instead of staring at the children's body.

In the traditional cultural atmosphere, young people should take the initiative to understand the elders, although there is no need to be as close to absolute subordination as in the previous social period, but understanding and respect and appropriate obedience have their existence value and basis, and "filial piety" as the first of traditional virtues, which also contains the value orientation of both filial piety and obedience. Therefore, the younger generation should take the initiative to understand that the older generation is the proper meaning of the question.

I have some suggestions for dealing with family relationships:

1. Be humble, don't be a needle to each other about everything, give each other more opportunities to talk, think more about each other, avoid unnecessary conflicts, and family affection is priceless.

2. A surprise creates a dramatic effect, and it is often very wide and coincidental and many contradictions are wiped out in jokes.

3. Divide responsibilities, assume your own responsibilities and obligations, do more for the family, and think less for yourself.

4. Dualized communication, many conflicts are due to the lack of communication between family members, which exacerbates the conflicts.

5. Be open-minded, life is short, we should create a harmonious society and a harmonious family, think about everything, don't worry about everything, don't be cautious, don't be greedy, be open-minded, and be grateful to live a relaxed and happy life. Clan eyes.

Think about it: your parents also have life stresses. Such parents are the best, and of course you can be regarded as repaying the kindness of your parents.

You can face it independently in this society, which is the pressure and the motivation. Because you have no support, no way out, only to move forward.

Rely on your own hands to change your life. What's so bad??? This is the wealth that your parents gave you.

I don't understand – no parent would do that. If you say it's true, there must be other reasons.

I think the one downstairs is going too far for saying you're being selfish!

Generally speaking, parents think about their children, but there is really everyone in the world, you should help you when you are in trouble, and maybe your parents think that you have no future in doing this, so stop you, you can talk to them seriously, I hope they are reasonable.

Your parents raised you, what's wrong with taking you to order goods? Don't be so selfish? It is recommended that you go to see a psychiatrist, why do you need money if you don't even have family affection?

Go out on your own, don't be at home.

When encountering patriarchal parents, whether it is a boy or a girl, the education that Chun Mouzi has received since childhood is not sound. Boys will grow up under the doting of their parents, and girls will grow up when their parents are disrespectful, so they should adjust their mentality to protect themselves, at least let themselves be healthy.

1. Boys should be appropriate for their parents' kindness to them.

For these patriarchal parents, having a son seems to be the happiest thing in their lives, so they will spoil you as a child from an early age. He is unwilling to take social responsibility for the children raised by these parents, and they will be very cowardly even if they get married in the future. So if you are a boy in this family, you must learn to take responsibility from an early age, and when your parents pamper you, you should learn to refuse appropriately, because their kindness to you will only make you more and more failures, and will not achieve you in the future.

When you grow up, try to stay away from such parents and don't accept any help from your parents, because you are a boy, and your future life depends on your own, and your parents can only help you for a while, not for a lifetime.

2. Girls should seek help from other relatives.

If the girl in the family was unable to resist her parents when you were young, you can only turn to other relatives for help, because your parents are patriarchal does not mean that other relatives are the same. You should seek the help of your grandparents or grandparents, they can protect you when you are young, and take the initiative to stay away from such parents when you grow up, which can also make your life happier. When you have the ability to go out to work, you must remember to leave such a home early, you can find your value in the society, and you can become more and more confident.

There is no way to decide what kind of parents we meet, you can only change the family's education for you through your own efforts. In the face of such parents, I feel very sorry for you, but only you can save yourself, you must remember to leave home early when you have the ability, go to the society to realize your self-worth, and your self-confidence will slowly come back.