What should I do if something doesn t go my way, please help me come up with a strategy? Superior Ad

In fact, you know how to do it, that is, you dare not or not.

Everyone has gossip, not everyone will care, killing chickens and monkeys is not impossible, it depends on how to kill and how to make an example.

Make them fear you, and shock them.

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Let's say it for myself. I'm always very open-minded myself. But when I really can't figure it out, I try to be sad once, and no one pays attention to it, and everyone feels that it's wrong.

Then let yourself vent once. Bad things always happen. I just figured out how to avoid it as much as possible.

Is it yourself or someone else? If it's your own. Please be sure to correct it.

Although it doesn't go well, it can't go away. But we want to minimize. This is good for everyone, since it can go well, it is not good for it.

It's a very simple thing. But it's hard for each of us to do it.

It is better to reflect on yourself or think about the cause of the problem, and encourage yourself to think more openly and cheerfully.

1.Think calmly about whether this matter is worth bothering about, whether you need to work on yourself, and if it is not necessary, don't treat it as something that does not go well.

2.Everyone has times when things don't go well, learn to adjust their emotions, and since something has happened, you have to face it positively and think about how to solve it, instead of being upset.

3.Stay away from tangled people or things, because those will invisibly affect your emotions, just do your own thing. It's good to distract yourself by doing something you're interested in, and it's good to do it for a longer time.

It's normal to encounter things that don't go your way in life, just as you often encounter happy things. It's like tossing a coin with a split between the odds of heads and heads. It's just that when you encounter happy things, you think you should be, and when you encounter unlucky things, you feel that you shouldn't.

When you are happy, when things are going well, remind yourself not to indulge in arrogance and wantonness.

When you are troubled or unlucky, encourage and motivate yourself to look forward, be self-confident and self-reliant, be calm, be cautious, strengthen learning and self-cultivation, and improve your ability to deal with complex situations and things. As the saying goes, adversity produces great talent, that is, in adversity, people's potential will be greatly explored, which is the truth.

Don't dwell on one thing at a time, keep your eyes on the long term, and be open-minded, so that no matter what the wind and waves, you can deal with it with a calm and peaceful mind. If you can do that, then you've done it"General's demeanor"

When I encounter something that doesn't go my way, I often go berserk, get angry, and show others a look, such as trying to be silent for a while in the company, even if I encounter something unfair, I think it's none of my business, don't pay attention! At.

LEARN TO SEE ... Anything that happens is good ...

Just as Seon lost his horse, he knew that he was not blessed.

Bodhi has no tree, the mirror is not a platform, there is nothing originally, where is the dust. Take a look at the mantras of Buddhism!

It's not a good way to hold it in your heart, but no matter how good it is, it's better to play something else, divert your attention, or be violent, let yourself suffer a little, and learn to cherish yourself.

Everyone will encounter things that do not go well at work, and under the premise of not affecting work and unity, you can completely stop thinking about it and forget the best; If it will affect work and unity, you have to take the initiative to get in touch with each other, communicate with each other, and obtain mutual understanding, which is a matter of work, not a personal hatred, what is there to get over. The most important thing is to be happy, you live yourself, not for others.

Be calm! Nothing is unpassable.

Laugh, get some sleep, don't think about it, your question is too wide.

Open your heart, try your best to do your best, everything will pass, the sky will fall and there will be a tall one on top, don't think about it, play a game that makes people forget their troubles and get some sleep,

When you encounter something that doesn't go your way, the first thing is to solve it with a positive attitude and solve it to the best extent.

As long as you work hard, even if you are not perfect, you will not regret it, after all, you have done your best.

The rest is what we can't do. At this time, the mentality should be adjusted, and you can't always think about those things that don't go your way.

After filtering your thoughts, you can also take a vacation for yourself and change the environment, such as chatting with friends, shopping, and singing loudly, which can release suppressed emotions.

Do what you like, life has to go by day by day, happy or not.

What's wrong with solving the problem?

Can't be solved?

If you really can't solve it, learn to endure it......

No way, life is like this.

Do some healthy and soothing exercises, go for a walk outside, see the mountains and rivers, adjust your mindset, and then work hard to solve the problem.

Confident people don't get angry with themselves when they encounter people who don't go their way.

In life, we will have times when we are lucky, and we will also encounter times of bad luck, and when we are lucky, we may have unexpected gains, and some things are easy to get. When we are unlucky, there are some things that we just don't succeed in no matter what we do. ** Help you analyze how to deal with it.

You see, or you don't see me.

I'm right there, not sad or happy

You read me, or you don't read me

The love is there, it doesn't come and go

You love, or don't love me

Love is there, neither increasing nor decreasing

You follow, or you don't

My hand is in your hand, and I will not give it up

Come into my arms

Or let me dwell in your heart

Gloomy love

Silence and joy.

Cangyang Gyatso. I'm also in a bad mood from time to time, but I won't let myself be annoyed for more than 24 hours, I like to read, I like to draw, I like to draw, I read when I'm in a bad mood... This poem by Cangyang Gyatso is very popular now, and there is a lot of truth in this poem.

Just like the wisdom in Cangyang Gyatso's poem, in fact, "You are in a good mood or bad, your troubles are still there". But on the other hand, if you can first strengthen yourself, firm yourself to be happy every day, then it can also be understood as "your troubles are there or not, you are there", the former, it is you who firm your troubles, pressure, so, let yourself swing every day, live a very uncomfortable life, the latter is that you firm yourself, let your troubles, pressure sway... Why bother with yourself?

In fact, different people have different troubles at different heights, and you are not the only one who has troubles...

I suggest you go and read some Buddhist translations, and I have one that seems to be called "The Buddha for Ordinary People," and he talks not about superstition, but about wisdom. I also looked at it when my heart was very clogged, and I had some understanding.

Think about your old pleasures, or go and talk to your friends, just don't let yourself be idle.

Calm down, solve it! Keep a good optimistic attitude, there is no hurdle that cannot be overcome! I'll give you my mantra! There will be bread, and there will be rice! Be happy all the time.

If you have the conditions, go to the beach, or take a boat to the sea, and if you don't have the conditions, just look at the sky overhead. Sometimes the unrestricted eyes will make the heart empty.

What needs to be dealt with and can be dealt with should be dealt with in a timely manner, and if you don't deal with it for one more hour, you will have one more hour of unhappiness, and if you can't deal with it, you will smooth everything out.