After 16 years of marriage, my husband said that he had no feelings for me, should he divorce?

If you have been married for 16 years, your husband tells you that he has no feelings and no longer loves you. So I think if he says that he doesn't feel that he doesn't love you anymore, then he actually wants to divorce you, so I think you should take the initiative to divorce yourself, because if you wait for him to take the initiative to divorce, then you will actually be more passive, and then you don't have any mental preparation for yourself. So I think you should think about it first.

Although your husband has already said it so bluntly to you, it doesn't make sense for you to be by his side.

You have both been married for 16 years, and you can be said to be an old husband and wife, how can you say that your husband has no feelings for you anymore? You are now relatives, married life of husband and wife.

You still need to know how to run it at any time, and you can't say that you can divorce if you don't feel it.

If you don't feel for you after 16 years of marriage, it's just the feeling of love, and you have already become family, and it is impossible to divorce at all.

Marriage is a plain life, but also a life of two people who depend on each other, only when both parties care for each other, marriage can feel, can not leave or not! You try to care for him and give each other a chance.

If you say something like this, it depends on what kind of state you are saying, if you say it when you are quarrelling, then it means that he wants to divorce you, if it is a joke between two people, it means that the old husband and wife are familiar with each other.

A 16-year relationship is not something that can be put away, don't talk about divorce easily.

If your husband tells you that you don't feel it anymore, you can talk to him and ask him what you want to feel.

My husband doesn't feel for you anymore, but you still have children! In fact, husband and wife have been together for a long time and don't have much affection, only family affection remains, so let's try to live it!

Your husband must have said that by accident.

You don't have to take it seriously, so many years of old husband and wife, right?

What are you doing with divorce, and children!

Just ask your husband what he means.

I don't think your husband has any other performance besides this sentence?

For example, being unfaithful to feelings and so on.

Hello, if it is true that marriage is boring, it is possible to divorce without affecting the happiness of the children!

Husband and wife have been together for a long time, and love becomes family affection, so they have been married for 16 years, which is equivalent to relatives, and they can divorce.

In fact, it is normal not to feel it, after all, I have been married for so many years.

Should be divorced. Because the two of you don't have a common topic and don't have much communication, such a marriage is boring and there is no need to stick to it.

You should choose divorce, if the two of you talk about it, such a marriage is very boring and very tiring.

You shouldn't get divorced, you can't give up your marriage because of this little thing, it's too irrational to do so, you should carefully analyze the reasons and then find a solution.

I think divorce should be done because it's not good for the development of the relationship at all.

My husband said that I have been with you for more than ten years, and my husband said that I have been with you for more than ten years, and I am bored, what should I do if I want to divorce? That means that your husband doesn't love you anymore, he doesn't stop you from liking you, so she wants to divorce you Heng Zheng, he may have his own new love, if you have the ability to live your own life then you can, if you have the ability to take care of your own life, then you can choose to divorce him, otherwise, your marriage in the future will not be happy.

In a relationship, the most difficult thing to solve should be the differences and disagreements between the two parties. Under normal circumstances, once there is a disagreement between two people, it will eventually turn into a violent quarrel, at this time, both parties hurt each other, and what they say is a kind of hurt to the feelings of both parties. Constant quarrels will not help your relationship in any way, but will only keep eating away at your feelings, and in the end, you can only break up.

Love is a process of running in with each other, two people get along with each other, and understanding is essential.

In fact, the most fundamental reason for differences of opinion leads to quarrels is communication problems. Inappropriate communication methods will completely distort what each other wants to say, and sometimes even because of inappropriate communication, the content of the argument between two people will be shifted, from the original difference of opinion to constantly picking out each other's shortcomings and constantly attacking each other. Many people are in such quarrels, and their feelings for each other gradually disappear.

The first thing you need to do to avoid such a quarrel is to know how to accept each other's opinions and perspectives. Generally, people who quarrel when their opinions are scattered and guess because they think that their views are correct, and they both want to make the other party accept their views, and if both people think like this, then it is inevitable that they will eventually lead to quarrels. Only let yourself learn to accept different opinions and respect the other party's different suggestions and opinions.

Only by doing so will you not let the other party think that you are making trouble unreasonably and avoid arguing.

First of all, we must reflect on ourselves, find problems in ourselves, apologize to my husband and admit my mistakes, if my husband insists on divorce, you can propose a buffer period of a few months, and buy time to make a final effort, and do your best to obey the destiny of God.

Hello, in this case, you have to sort out the pros and cons, review your marriage, if you want to continue with your husband, you have to seize the time to repair the relationship, establish communication, envy and congratulate your husband! Brother Tong.

Although you have passed more than ten years, there are times when the other party will really file for divorce, at this time, you should stick to your bottom line, as long as the other party is not looking beyond your bottom line, you should not divorce the other party.

You can say more interesting things and do more interesting things in your married life so that your husband will not get bored.

You can temporarily skip the divorce procedures and live their own lives, so that after two years, you will see if you are divorced.

Then let him give a certain amount of financial compensation, and at this time he can only fight for his own interests, because he is probably determined to divorce.

The public said that he had no interest in fighting with me for more than ten years, what should I do if I want to divorce? It's been more than ten years, I have children, and I have to divorce the manuscript, what does this husband think? If you have children, don't divorce him, and if the child is older, you can divorce him, anyway, you think about it yourself.

My husband said that if I have lived with me for more than ten years, if I don't mean anything, what should I do if I want to divorce? That's definitely what you say, it's just not interesting, then I definitely think he's just talking, after all, it's a good reputation, more than ten years of feelings, it's not that you can leave it.

My husband said that after more than ten years with me, I don't want to divorce, what should I do? Tell you that since you can't get along, then divorce, it may be better to leave.

Marriage is sacred, and the choice is made carefully.

My husband said that after more than ten years with me, I don't want to divorce, what should I do? I don't think I have any feelings from this situation, and I will leave it.

My husband said that it was boring to live with me for more than ten years, what should I do if I want to divorce? I think it may be that it has been a long time, and I like the new and hate the old, and the return to Huai is not interesting, and such a person is not based on Shixian and has lived with him.

My husband said that after more than ten years with me, I was bored, and I wanted to divorce, why didn't I regret my brother? I think that since the husband said so, he must have felt that there was no fun in the dry life, and there was no way.

My husband Ming Yu said that the world and I have been with Sun Huai for more than ten years, what should I do if I want to divorce? I think you still have feelings? If there is no emotion, it is better to end it as soon as possible.

It seems that he has no feelings for you anymore, and the long pain is better than the short pain, leave him and let yourself live a good life.

My husband said that it was boring to live with me for more than ten years, what should I do if I want to divorce? If you leave, you can't leave whom.

My husband said that after more than ten years with me, I don't want to divorce, in this case, you can change yourself and save your husband.

In this case, through the description of your sentence, there is no way to help you analyze the specific situation.

I don't know if it's because of you, if it's because your husband finds it boring, or because of your husband.

In this case, I think do you want to try to redeem it? If you can't get it back, why don't you let it go.

My husband said that it was boring to live with me for ten years, what should I do if I want to divorce? In general, I don't think he meant by that? So this can be sad for the two of them to talk about it together.