My own mother wants to take me back from my adoptive mother, what should I do?

The grace of nurturing is greater than the grace of childbirth, your biological mother gave you away back then, and now she grows up and wants to take you home, you should repay your adoptive mother for her nurturing grace, and you can't follow your biological mother home.

Hello, children, you can't leave admiration when you encounter such a situation, the parents have no health, and the parents are important, so you must take care of the health care service.

I think you can go to your biological mother, but you have to take care of both mothers, because they are people you love, and they love you very much.

If adoptive motherhood means this, you can consider it, but what I want to say is that the grace of nurturing is greater than the grace of procreation.

Your biological mother wants to take you back from your adoptive mother, so you need to communicate with your adoptive mother and your own mother and tell each other what you think.

Your biological mother is your biological mother, and it is not easy to conceive for ten months, and your adoptive mother is also a reinventive person for you. You should be open to both of you and do what you can.

I don't think my own mother is as good as my adoptive mother. If it were me, I wouldn't have returned to my mother. We can go back and forth, but I still have to follow my adoptive mother.

In this case, it is best to honestly like to follow your own ideas, if you like the adoptive mother's house, it is in the adoptive mother's house, since the biological mother abandoned you once, don't go back.

It still depends on your own will, you are eighteen years old and have grown up, and you can make your own decisions. You can just be with your current mother.

I have passed through your heart, not because I don't want to stay, but because you refuse to take it in.

2. Love has a very prominent feature: people have love and can't hide it; If you don't have love, you can't pretend to be it.

If you have a very strong affection for your adoptive mother and no affection for your biological mother, you can continue to stay in your adoptive mother's family in this case.

You are already an adult and should have your own opinions, your mother's approach is understandable, but you must think twice, because it is not easy for your adoptive mother to raise you, and if you are a filial child, you must not be sorry for your adoptive mother.

Mother wants to take you back from Mother Yang, saying that she was forced to send you to your adoptive mother back then, and she will compensate you in the future, so you should forgive him for being a common child between his two mothers, and they should be filial to each other, and not have a rebellious mentality.

I don't think I can go back with your own mother, because your adoptive mother has raised you for so many years, her feelings are deeper than your biological mother, she loves you more than your own mother, and you have to think about it.

It depends on what you think, although your biological mother gave birth to you, she did not raise you, your adoptive mother worked hard to raise you, if you follow your biological mother, after all, it will break your adoptive mother's heart, and the three of you should discuss and make a decision so that everyone will not be sad.

If your biological mother takes back your income from your adoptive mother after the age of 18, I think you have a choice, after all, you are an adult, and it does not mean that you will have to cut off the relationship with your adoptive mother after you go back.

If the conditions of the biological mother are very good, you can return to the biological mother's home, and then send more money to the adoptive mother, and often go back to visit the adoptive mother, and the adoptive mother will still give the adoptive mother to the end of her life when she is old

If you really have a conscience, you should be filial to your adoptive parents through your own efforts.

That's their adult business, and if your own mother really wants to take you back from your adoptive parents, I think it's okay, after all, you are his own daughter, and he definitely wants you to come back to him.

First of all, you should praise your adoptive mother, she is reasonable and does not object to your biological mother taking you away, you are 18 years old and an adult, you should have the right choice, the grace of parenting is difficult to repay, I think you should still stay with your adoptive mother, now that your biological mother has the ability to take care of you and your adoptive mother, you and other two mothers when they are old, you have to do your best to raise them.

Then you want to live in **, how is your relationship with Yang? If Yang is also willing to accept you, you have feelings for Yang, and you don't necessarily have to go to your biological mother, after all, you are already old, can't you have your own choice when you are older?

Since your biological mother wants to compensate you, you give her a chance. The adoptive mother also advised you, which means that she agreed that you should return to your biological mother, and there is no contradiction in this matter. It's just that you accept it or not, and your mother gave you to your adoptive mother at that time.

What to do, accept it and go back, and if you don't accept it, you stay.

Let's find out why my own mother gave you away in the first place, and she didn't even contact you for 18 years. If the mother really has a hard time, then don't let the mother be sad, don't let the adoptive mother be cold, and treat both of them as mothers.

Your adoptive mother also raised you. You also have to know how to be grateful. Your own mother gave birth to you. Giving away also has his own pains. In fact, do you think that you have a habit of living in **? If you live well, you will live in **, and you must be filial to your biological mother and adoptive mother.

I think the biological mother must admit it, and the adoptive mother must also repay the kindness of parenting, as for whether to go back with the biological mother, it depends on your own thoughts!

Follow your own heart, and if you have a very strong relationship with your adoptive mother, you can reject the idea of your own mother.

This depends on whether your own mother really happened for a reason at that time, if it is also you, your adoptive mother has raised you for 18 years, and she is closer than your own mother, you can take turns living on both sides, as if you were your own mother.

Of course, the grace of fertility is not as great as the grace of nurturing. If you feel that your adoptive mother is good to you, I suggest you stay. To be a man, you must know how to be grateful, if she raises you young, you should raise her old. Now that you know that you have a biological mother, it is recommended that the two of you walk around as relatives, and this ending will be more perfect!

The biological mother didn't bite you and threw you out since you were a child, which is indeed very ruthless. He has not fulfilled his duties as a mother, and it must have been a great blow to your soul because you have lacked maternal love since you were a child.

Now he came to you, because he was old, so he wanted you to take care of the rest of his life. Like he's sick and hospitalized, so someone has to take care of him. In fact, I think such a mother is very selfish, and when you are young, she is not responsible for you.

And now he only thinks about his own feelings.

That is, he will come to you when he needs you, and he will leave you behind when he doesn't need you. As for what you should do, then it depends on what you think, if you feel that he is related to you by blood, and you can't let go of this family affection, then you take care of her. If you think she is unkind, then you are also unkind.

The landlord feels sorry for you, your mother gave birth to you but didn't raise you, this is her irresponsibility to you, it can be seen that your mother is very selfish and very ruthless, this matter is really a big blow to you! You have lacked mother's love since you were a child, and you hate your mother very much when you have a psychological shadow, right? It's normal, I can understand you.

But then again, she is your mother after all, and now she comes to you probably because she is old and wants you to take care of her, and you have to learn to be filial to your parents now that you are older, I hope you can forgive your parents, maybe your mother did it when she had something unspeakable, I want to open it, come on!

If there is no hardship, you can give him one or two hundred thousand, and tell her that this is the hard work of you giving birth to me, thank you for letting me come to this world, but you are not responsible for me, don't come to me in the future I don't know you,

It may be that parents also have unspeakable secrets, they also have their own difficulties, or maybe there are reasons you don't know.

It may be that the family conditions were difficult at that time, and it was difficult to forgive the parents.