How to break it if you are not serious when you study. What should I do if elementary school student

In fact, we all encounter this situation when studying, in fact, you just need to shift your attention and find a way to shift your attention to your homework.

That's how everybody came over. Maybe you can think about why you did it.

1.Truly understand the child and help the child find the root cause of the problem, whether it is because he is not interested in learning, or lacks self-control, or he is unable to concentrate, etc., only by finding the real reason behind the problem can he have a target and help the child solve the problem.

2.Understand the child's inner needs, if the child does not get good results in learning, parents should find ways to stimulate the child's learning motivation from the internal motivation, and at the same time give more encouragement and affirmation, so that the child feels that learning is a meaningful and worthwhile thing.

3.Put forward realistic requirements and expectations for the child, let the child concentrate on the learning time, study seriously, be proactive, if the parent's requirements are met, encourage the child to do more things that the child wants to do during the rest time, develop his interests and specialties, and do not let the child feel that learning is all he has.

4.Cultivate children's lofty ambitions, encourage children to realize their dreams through hard work, and let children have pursuits and ambitions, so that they can have goals and motivation in learning, so as to help themselves overcome the habit of laziness and lack of seriousness, and develop a good quality that will benefit them for life. Stuffy loss.

1) Find time to talk calmly about the child's understanding of learning with the child, even if the child's parents are not satisfied, do not use direct criticism and responsibility to try to correct, which is basically useless for older children, both sides first express their own views, and then find a mutual agreement together.

2) If the relationship with parents is good, parents can also be guided to think about those learning attitudes and concepts, whether parents expect them or students, and whether parents have too high expectations for their children? If expectations are too high, guide them to lower them appropriately.

First, find out the real reason why your child is not attentive in class.

There are many reasons for this, and blindly blaming will often be counterproductive!

For example: the teacher's class is not exciting and cannot attract the child's attention; The child does not have enough concentration, and it is difficult to focus on something for a long time; The child has something on his mind and cannot concentrate on the lesson; Children rarely have the opportunity to prove themselves in the classroom and have difficulty building self-confidence ......

Therefore, when teachers and parents find that their children are not attentive in class, they should not put all the responsibility on the children and blindly blame the children, but should first find out the reasons why the children are not attentive to the class and give the children targeted help.

Second, the following are 9 tricks to deal with children's inattentiveness in class.

1. Care about children at any time

If the child is only punished for not being well and is not attentive to learning, the relationship between parents and children will be destroyed.

Primary school students do not study seriously, which shows that his concentration is not enough, from now on to cultivate his good habit of being conscientious and serious, parents cooperate with teachers to mobilize the enthusiasm of primary school students to love learning, more encouragement, more guidance, less negative words, after hard work will slowly get better.

Primary school students are not serious about learning because of the lack of good study habits, this period is the stage that is convenient for cultivating good study habits, parents and teachers are required to cooperate closely, for the problem, positive guidance, perseverance. Let children form good learning habits, so as to facilitate children's healthy and all-round development.

Elementary school students have poor self-control and must be strictly managed. Rely on teachers at school and parents at home, always supervise and inspect, reasonably reward and punish, and help him get rid of bad problems.

Parents should bother with this.

In fact, primary school students learn to compare the things of the Ma Mo tribe, maybe every parent will encounter it, will be very troubled, I also encountered similar things, so I must be more patient with the child's education, find out the reasons for his sloppiness and habits to change.

1.Make it a habit to check carefully.

I have to urge myself to check, I can help my own children are good children, I like good children who are serious.

2.Use aversion**.

For children who are very sloppy, you can put a rubber band on your wrist, and pull the rubber band several times by yourself every time you are sloppy, and there will be pain.

After a few times, as soon as I do my homework, I will think that my wrist will hurt if I am not serious, so I will gradually get rid of my bad problems. At the same time, you can also reward yourself after acknowledging that you have done your homework, such as doing what you like.

3.Learn to be autosuggestive.

Tell your child that sloppiness is a bad problem, but it is not terrible, as long as you are determined to change it and do what adults say, you will definitely be able to get rid of it.

Let the child learn to write down the reason for the sloppiness every time he makes a sloppy mistake, read it several times, or warn himself, and silently say in his heart: "No one else is sloppy, why am I sloppy?" A sloppy person can't achieve a big thing.

Sloppiness is not my patent, it can't control me, I will definitely be able to defeat it. ”

Due to the heavy study load, some students stay up late at night, and as a result, they cannot get up on time in the morning, and even if they barely get up, their minds are drowsy, and they cannot keep up their spirits all day. As a student, the main learning tasks should be completed during the day, and being listless during the day is bound to be inefficient. Therefore, it is necessary to go to bed early and get up early, nourish your spirit, and improve your learning efficiency during the day.