I spent 850 on a friend party, and I was very entangled in what to do

According to my analysis, you are an introverted person, and you don't make a lot of money, and you are usually a person who pays more attention to frugality. That's why there will be a gathering of friends.,You have a treat.,It cost you 850.,It's really a little distressed in my heart.,,I've been more entangled in this matter.。。 My advice to you is to completely let go of this matter and stop dwelling on it, and the idea is to earn the 850 that cost the treat on the basis of the original money, so that as time goes by, you will slowly let go of your psychology and balance your heart.

Since you care so much about spending money on treats, try not to participate in your friends' activities in the future, and if you don't eat people's natural mouths, you won't take other people's short hands, so we also have a good reason not to spend money on treats. But if it goes on like this, I'm afraid that friends will slowly alienate you, in fact, it's not a good thing for people who don't have friends, because you haven't encountered anything, and when you encounter something, you don't even have a friend to cheer on, isn't it also embarrassing, and it will also make your path narrower and narrower. I'm saying this to make you not mind spending some money on a party with friends.

This time you spend money, the next time another friend has a treat, everyone has a relationship, it's not good, it's still necessary for friends to get together, it seems to spend some money at the time, and you will know the importance of friends when it comes to things.

I said that I don't know if it will help you, I think my words still have some truth, please give it a pass, thank you! And I wish you a happy life!

It's not going to be easy.

After all, the money has been spent, and there is no way to come back, and it is impossible to tell my friends that I feel sorry for the money I have for a treat, so you all AA will return it to me, right?

The only solution is.

Learn a lesson, and in the future, you can't be confused and treat yourself.

Treat yourself to a small feast, eat and drink enough to dissipate your anger, and spend it anyway.

If you can, I'll treat you to a meal, and multiple close friends will make you forget about it.

Friends get together, please eat nothing, this time you please, next time he invites.

However, I go out with friends to party and eat AA, and occasionally friends announce that they will have a treat when they have a happy event or something.

What are you still worried about when you have a treat, don't invite it after you spend too much money.

The vulgar point is: Okay, I'll treat you, and you pay the bill.

Fun: No problem, as long as you drink this bottle of water in one go. It's even more fun: if you can pull whoever you want, what does it matter? (Whoever must be an embarrassing character associated with it).

In short, whoever embarrasses you, you embarrass whom, the first floor is probably what it means, I added ha.

You say, "Am I the protagonist of the party?" If not, I wouldn't dare to steal the majesty of the protagonist.

If he says you are, then you say: I deserve it ...... something

If you don't want to be treated, don't go. Be sure to invite when you should ask, and don't be stingy with friends.

Okay, I'll treat you, and you pay for it.

You can say, okay. You come first!

In general, the host sits in the main seat, that is, the seat facing the door, or the seat behind the theme board. If the guest you invite has a higher status, then the host will give him the throne. Whoever gives up the throne to is the most respected person.

In addition, the worst position is the serving station with its back to the door, and it is also the closest place to press the service light. This is usually a position where you and the leader invite people from other units to dinner, and you are mainly responsible for service work.

The above are the two most important positions, and they are also the locations of the whole country, I hope to help you.

A place that is neither near the door nor far from the door means that you are neither high nor low

This kind of friend is a fox friend and dog friend, so it is recommended not to use the word friend. Next time I look for you, don't pay attention to it, and make a few more confidants.

Look at things can't be too extreme, the reality is like this, you can't ask others to think the same as you, everyone's values and interests are different, maybe you think your friend is not good to you, but it is possible that he thinks he is the best for you in his heart, no matter what kind of friend is actually not really completely heart-to-heart, making friends first depends on people, not everyone is suitable for being friends, and don't blindly pay for yourself, no matter what kind of love is mutual, friends don't need too much, It's enough to have two or three girlfriends, it's enough to eat and go shopping together, it's enough to talk about your heart, the most important thing is not to think too much, your own ideas are simple, everything is simple, the key is to be happy, it's not a big deal, it's normal for people to use each other, even if it's between relatives. , it's good to be happy in a word.

Insist on not going, you must know how to refuse, make friends carelessly, know your character, if you are a true friend, you will not be like this.

Trouble comes from the mouth, and you review your words and deeds. You can ask this question to show that you want to change the status quo and be kind to others, and slowly people will recognize you.

If you are too easy-going and good-tempered, then you will always be the one who makes up the numbers. No matter how good a person's temper is or how gentle his personality is, he must have his own character, that is, his characteristics. This person is so good at talking, bring it to the party, this person is so good at drinking, bring it to the dinner, and sing beautifully?

Let's go to KTV together, but if you don't have anything, then you're left with the representative word of stupid money. Every time I get together, I only wave my hands, I can't sing, I can't drink, others ignore you and play with your mobile phone, such people, we call them bag pickers, people who help watch bags and clothes. You have to train yourself, you have to talk, you have to find common topics, and one day they think, "Eh, I'm talking to you very much, why don't we go and play together, that's the beginning."

It may be that you are usually too silent to make a deep impression on others.

I don't even invite Uncle Hammer to invite you. Now society is playing upright.

Change yourself more, maybe you're too weak.

You're struggling with what you're doing wrong? Still not in place? Actually, don't think too much, and you don't need anyone to give you any explanation.

It's friends, and they'll be together, and if they don't respect you, you don't want to be nostalgic for them, there's no need. Even if you have something wrong, you have done your best to be a guest and host, where are we missing? Shall we invite you to dinner, and when we come back, we will review and apologize to you?

Ignore them, keep your mentality, and don't change your circle of friends.

Think about what you did to make them do this to you, if not, you don't have to care about them, there's no need to worry about this.

Forget it, ordinary villain, do what you should do, do it well, no one will not invite you if you have the ability.

Think about what you're doing wrong. Or ask someone of those classmates. The authorities are obsessed with bystanders!

They don't want to call you for a treat anymore.

You're here to complain about your relationships (.)

Ignore the block, the first time I want to take advantage, you can't have deep friendships.

Don't be embarrassed.、There's a lot of opportunity to treat it.。。 As long as the friendship is still there, when you want to invite, when you want, next time you want to have a treat, afraid of people's hospitality, then you choose a good place, order food and drinks, and call friends to have a small gathering after paying the bill!

It's okay, I'll invite them over next time, or wait for their birthday, buy some nice gifts.

Hehe, next time I go to a place where I pay first and then eat.

I guess people see that your expression is dripping blood.

Unrealistic vanity is inflated, and in the end it is you who suffers. Seriously, people with vanity generally have low self-esteem and are always afraid of losing face again, so they want to do their best at every turn, until no one can match them, and finally end up being smart and being mistaken by cleverness.

You don't want to be as stingy as your colleague last time, but you are indeed generous, and at the same time, the ** of the meal is a little high, and you feel a little bad in your heart, and you feel that it is a waste to eat this meal so expensive.

This is a normal psychology, which means that you are more generous and have a good face. People who like you like you like it, and people who are stingy don't change because of you. I'm about the same as you, who used to want to change people who play well but are stingy, and I asked him five times and he invited me to do this once, but how it should be.

The most important thing is to deal with people and things, what is the matter with spending a little more money, it is a rare thing for colleagues to get together, and it is not a waste every day, and it is okay not to compare and not lose face.

Normal, prove to others that since you have come out to eat, don't be too afraid of spending money, you have to eat and have fun no matter what, or don't invite others to eat.

People are like this, maybe that friend has difficulties, it is also difficult to invite brothers to eat, as for eating together, everyone is thinking about a happy, happy good, spend more or less can not buy a happy, meals, do not need too much, eat full, the rest of the packing, don't waste, if you spend money to invite a group of fox friends to eat, it is better to find a few brothers and sisters to sit on the street food stalls to have a good time, isn't it.

Actually, there's no need, it's good to eat normally, there's no need to care about that colleague's once, it's good that you know how to treat it differently, you don't need to order a lot when you have a treat, and you can't eat it

It can be said that this is a kind of emotion to express dissatisfaction with that colleague, you do this for good and bad, the good is that other colleagues may think that you are very generous, and the bad thing is that the colleague who had a treat last time may think that you are targeting him and causing a bad impact on your relationship.

Since you have to treat everyone to eat and drink well, the people who come are guests, and you don't entertain good people, what will people think in their hearts? They will say that you are stingy and don't know how to be hospitable, so I think you are doing the right thing.

First, it can only be said that you are more bold and generous. Second, maybe you still have a little bit to save face.

Eat, don't be too reluctant, you order a little too much, just enough to eat, don't be angry with others, but destroy your own image.

If you are a colleague, why care about such a trivial thing as eating, you will be happier if you are generous.

Of course, please eat.

It's better not to be invited, and you're still being called stingy after spending money, right?

I guess you're very unbalanced right now, aren't you?

Put your generosity as a compliment to your co-worker's stinginess.

Personally, I think that you not only have the ingredients of comparison in it, but also the ingredients of showing off in it, you also said, there is a colleague in front of you to invite dinner, almost very little, and a little is not enough, he did not say a little more, so that everyone's words, the food is not happy, and there should be an idea of his words, just didn't say it, and when it was your turn to invite everyone to dinner, you learned the lesson of the previous person, this time you ordered a lot, Let everyone think that you are a person compared to others is very atmospheric, and even if you eat to the end, you add a few dishes, and you don't finish eating, which will make others think that you are bad, you should be very rich, very righteous, I think this is not good, everyone just needs to eat well is enough, there is no need to waste a little more for the sake of face, the Chinese are a thrifty nation, so as long as everyone can eat well, don't waste.

According to your actual situation, you can't brag, you must be natural and generous, don't do things superpowered, and you can't be selfish.

Be generous and speak in a measured manner.