What is it like for someone who is super quarrelsome?

I think people who are super quarrelsome are very capable and neat people in their daily life or work;It's also a person who usually has a more cheerful personality and is impatient;It will also be a person with a strong desire to control.

In my opinion, people who can quarrel with others are more cheerful and impatient in life. Look at those who are more introverted in life are not like to talk, and they don't have many friends, they are more afraid of talking to strangers, not to mention quarreling with others, which is not in line with their character, so in my opinion, people who quarrel super well are generally more cheerful, they will know more because they have a wider range of friends, and they will be more powerful than others when they quarrel. People who are more impatient in ordinary times are also prone to quarrel with others, because their temper is more irritable, and they may quarrel with others because of their unintentional words, and if they deliberately provoke him, they will not give up.

Therefore, the more cheerful and the more impatient are more likely to quarrel with others, and they will also become super strong because of this easy to quarrel with others.

I also said that people who quarrel super well are more impatient, so this also lays the foundation that they are more vigorous in life. Therefore, they are all people who will take care of their own lives in life, and will keep their lives in order, so that their lives will become more planned and purposeful. They don't let many unexpected things happen in their lives, which will also make them unbearable for themselves.

They must be more active people at work, will take the initiative to express themselves, let their strengths play better, and like the enjoyment of being focused on them by others. Therefore, I think people who quarrel a lot are more purposeful in life and work.

People who usually like to quarrel are because what others do is not in line with his heart, which makes him feel very bored, they like to control everything within the range of their control, and once they exceed this range, they will feel that these things are beyond their control, which will make him feel very irritable, and it is easy to quarrel with others. People with a strong desire to control are relatively easy to show up on him, and they can be seen everywhere around him, so if you can know that a person is a person with a strong desire to control, then don't easily do things he doesn't like, so that it will easily cause conflicts between you and cause a storm between you.

People who quarrel super well I think they want to do the above, in fact, some of these characteristics are obvious, and you need to be more polite when you see those characteristics, which sometimes allows you to avoid a quarrel, which can also increase harmony, after all, quarrels are not good, aren't they.

People who quarrel super well have the following characteristics: 1. Too rational; Two: unreasonable; Three: Especially able to say, paranoia, as long as it is what he believes, he can break the reason; Four: Able to speak well, eloquence is special. I'll elaborate on these characteristics in what follows.

1. Too rational. People say that a person is very good at being rational, but being too rational is selfish, why do you say that, such people often only think about themselves first from all aspects, and it is not easy to consider the feelings of others, so whenever someone quarrels with him, he has the upper hand.

Two: unreasonable; The vast majority of people who have super quarrels are unreasonable, they tend to be arrogant, arrogant, and do not take into account the essence of the problem. <>

Three: Especially able to say, paranoia, as long as it is what he believes, he can break the reason; Because there is such a person around me, as long as we talk about one topic, but whenever he has different opinions, he starts to talk, whether it is reasonable or not, he breaks it out is reasonable, and even more so when he quarrels, he will not be willing to take a step back at all, even if he slowly realizes that he is wrong, he still insists on his own opinion.

Fourth, he can speak well and has excellent eloquence. Quarrel, a person who quarrels badly is not necessarily a person who has no merits, on the contrary, he has many merits. Quarrel, in other words, is a special way of speaking, speaking powerfully, can speak well, it is easier to have the upper hand when quarreling, and at the same time, if his logical ability is particularly strong, he will speak even more crackling, which is convincing.

Fifth, loud voice. People who quarrel badly must have a loud voice, otherwise they will have no momentum, and they will overwhelm others in terms of momentum, and this trick will be higher.

These are the five characteristics that I have summarized.

When I talk about people who quarrel badly, it reminds me of "Jiupin Sesame Official".

Bao Longxing played by Stephen Chow, even the dead can scold the dead, and the quarrel skills are estimated to be unmatched. Although this is an exaggeration in the movie, in reality I have also met such an aunt who has a super quarrel.

Once at the wet market.

Buying vegetables, there was a vendor who was in a hurry to go home and wanted to deal with it cheaply, and an uncle and aunt next to him fell in love with it and wanted to buy it at the same time, but there was only one fish left, and they both said that they saw it first, and insisted that the vendor sell the fish to themselves. The uncle's voice is relatively loud, and he is also strong, and it is estimated that the trader does not want to have much trouble, so he weighs the fish and prepares to sell it to the uncle, and the aunt is not happy at this time, and begins to quarrel with the uncle.

Looking at the aunt who is not tall and relatively thin, she didn't want to quarrel, it was quite powerful, first said that the uncle looked like a big winter melon, and belittled the uncle's appearance from head to toe, and then said that the uncle bullied her as a woman because he was a man. The uncle was not a fuel-efficient lamp, and he and the aunt began to quarrel. Except on TV, I have never seen someone like my aunt, who can speak for more than ten minutes without pause, and that uncle can't even find the time to interject.

The aunt finished talking about the uncle and then began to talk about the vendor, and after finishing speaking, the vendor continued to talk about the uncle, and finally said that he was tired, and took the vendor's bench and sat down and continued to quarrel with the uncle, but I also admired the uncle, although the quarrel was not as strong as the aunt, but he was always waiting there, insisting that the vendor sell the fish to him. In the end, the merchant was so overwhelmed by these two that he gave them all the fish in half, one and half for nothing, and ended the quarrel.

Auntie has such a powerful quarrel skill, it is estimated that few people will be her opponents.

People are born different, some people are born with a very strong mouth, not to mention quarreling, no one even dares to argue with him (her) even when they usually speak. But some people are born with short mouths, bad eloquence, and weak speech.

People who quarrel very badly have heard of a very typical case a few days ago. The roommate is the deputy head teacher of the freshman year, and now the freshman year is in the period of military training, because the current students are becoming more and more squeamish, so there are many parents who are with them, hoping to serve tea and pour water in time. The reason for this incident is that the deputy head teacher of the next class is more strict, but the parents who are guarding on the side can't do it, he (she) protects his children, so he or she quarrels with the deputy head teacher, and the result is that the deputy head teacher is angry and directly carried the stretcher to the hospital, which shows how bad the parent's quarrel is.

People who quarrel a lot are the first to have a strong mouth, and they speak very quickly and neatly. Such people seem to be born with a long mouth for swearing. If anyone can't think of quarreling with such a person, they are simply looking for unhappiness and "looking for death", either being angry to death or drowning in spittle.

And they're endless, they have to talk about their own pleasure, they're just demonic beings.

Generally, people who quarrel a lot are not good at stubble around, don't offend one, otherwise a group will be summoned! And when they quarrel, they have the momentum of a fight, and they can suppress you even from the momentum.

It is no exaggeration to say that if you have friends who quarrel very badly, then absolutely no one will dare to provoke you! This is the power of a person who quarrels badly. "Splashers" are generally people who quarrel very well, and when they splash, they can also reflect their ability to quarrel.

I think fighting is even more terrifying!

That's because I used to rent a house outside. Seeing a couple on the same floor as us. The two often quarrel.

Once, I don't know why. In the middle of the night, the man kept beating the woman with an iron rod. Beat the woman to the ground and roll.

It's still playing, I think it's terrible to see it! Afterwards. Look at the woman, there are bruises on her body.

Another time, it seemed that it was because the man was having an affair with the little girl on the Internet. The woman knew about it. Then the two quarreled.

Then the woman took the knife. As a result, the man robbed him. The man also cut off the woman's hand.

The blood is still flowing. I don't know how to hit Chi Da, so I threw the knife on the ground, and the man grabbed the woman and pulled her head off and hit her against the wall. Later, it was pulled away.

The woman also called the police. Then I moved out of that place! I don't know about them!

And I've been with my husband for seven years now! We never fight, only quarrels and cold wars. Even if I him off, he wouldn't hit me.

Only drop things. Or the Cold War. I think it's compared to the couple I've seen before.

It's really much better. If it is played like that. I think once I fight, for whatever reason, I will definitely leave!

It's really horrible!

Maybe it's a temper that's too straightforward, and he can't hide anything, and he says everything. This kind of personality will not be too popular with others. So it's better to change it.

It's always easy to get into conflict with others. It's also possible that you don't like other people. So it's easy to clash with him.

It's the right thing to do. Endure the calm for a while, take a step back, and the more you think about it, the more you lose. Hope you have fun every day!

Answer: Because the individual has a strong personality, strong self-esteem, does not admit defeat, is not calm and emotional, has a short temper, and so on. Therefore, we are often prone to good temper tantrums, bad moods, and it is easy to be serious with others, or even quarrel.

Good interpersonal relationships are an important part of social life, and if they can be handled well, they are an effective tool for work, study and life. So, what is the reason for the easy conflict with others? And why?

The root cause of easy conflicts with others lies in oneself, and the root of the problem still lies in oneself. Because people who are prone to conflict with others are mainly due to a lack of self-knowledge, in other words, they often think that they are right and others are wrong, and do not conform to their own ideas and practices.

In addition, it is overconfident and not modest enough to have a hot personality and is easy to be impulsive, always feeling that he is right, but not listening to other people's opinions, and wanting to impose his own opinions on others, under impulse, contradictions arise. Sometimes, because of overconfidence, knowing that you are wrong, and being stubborn, it is easier to have conflicts. For example, if something should be to the left, but it should be to the right, of course others will not agree.

It can be seen that in order to overcome the problem of being prone to conflict with others, we must first start from our own examination, learn to fully respect the correct opinions of others, and not always be self-righteous. It is also necessary to be modest and cautious, strengthen self-cultivation, and calmly handle relationships and things with others, so as to effectively avoid contradictions and conflicts.

Why do people quarrel?

Throughout the ages, across the east and west, quarrels have one thing in common: there must be two parties, and they disagree with each other's point of view, so there can be a basis for quarrels. What if you say it in unison?

Different points of view are just the basis, and you will find that it is impossible for everyone to have a complete point of view with another person, and every individual is different. But why do quarrels only happen between specific parties and not between any individual?

In any case, people always think that they are seeking the truth. Whether it's the Aum religion or the beer party, people always think that they are on the path of truth, and even if they are wrong, they will have a chance to correct them. Such a state of mind allows us to always be in the right position or tend to be on the right curve.

Human rights lie in the fact that everyone has the right to choose their own way of life. And everyone thinks that their model is the right one.

Regardless of whether his starting point is idealistic or materialistic, in short, everyone thinks it is like this. Are you willing to admit that what you do every day is wrong or wrong?

In the past, some people said that Chinese are good teachers and like to enjoy the joy of educating others to bring dignity to themselves. In fact, the Americans and the British are not good birds, and they also like this set. There is no better way to show and show off the meaning of one's own existence than to teach others how to survive, so that one's own kind knows that they have mastered the true meaning of survival, and that they are inferior to themselves, and their own superiority will arise spontaneously.

Fame and fortune can basically bring satisfaction, can show their superiority, and can make a person satisfied with the most primitive narcissism. There are often people who are not satisfied with their own pursuit of the truth, and need the approval or even follow-up of others. When two people with different views and the same needs collide, the quarrel is often the best choice.

When people promote their opinions, it is the process of trying to show off in order to satisfy narcissism. If you don't listen, then persuade you to come back to the collection that satisfies my needs; If you still don't listen, then you have to abandon you, stop trying to get satisfaction from you, and find someone else; If you say that you don't listen, you still have to talk back, when will you not be noisy at this time?

How can my narcissism allow you to destroy it? The probability of a quarrel depends on the degree of dependence of the advocate on narcissism, and if the degree of dependence is high and does not allow the slightest disagreement from others, it is imminent; If the degree of dependence is low and you don't want to force you as an admirer anymore, the probability of quarreling is relatively low.