My best friend is getting married, should I go back to the wedding?

Of course going back. What a blessing it is to be able to attend my best friend's wedding.

I remember that my best friend was also married to another place, and I also took leave to attend the wedding at that time, and before the wedding, my best friend said that you must come, you must see me happy, yes, I don't want to miss the most important moment in her life. So no matter how far away it is, whether it is by train, plane or high-speed rail, it is rain or shine to witness the arrival of that moment. During the wedding ceremony, seeing how happy she was, I also shed tears of happiness.

This is a true friend, I really hope that you are better than me, happier than me.

But I also have a girlfriend who got married in my hometown, and I didn't rush back to attend the wedding, so it's a pity to think about it. Because I was in labor at that time, I was only a few days away from giving birth, and I really didn't dare to go back and forth. Whenever I was in the second trimester, I would rush back to my hometown to attend her wedding, but at the last moment, everyone advised me not to be emotional, or the safety of myself and the baby was the most important.

In our life, in addition to love, family affection and unchanging friendship. You don't need too many friends in life, you can have two or three, and there are not many girlfriends in life. Girlfriends are good friends who talk about everything in a woman's boudoir, and the wedding of a person as close to you, how did you miss it, what a pity.

Unless you have a very special situation and cannot go back, then send your most sincere blessings. I'm sure your girlfriend will be able to understand your situation. But as long as it is not an urgent and special situation, I still advise you to go back to the wedding and witness her happiness.

Since it's a girlfriend getting married, I think you should definitely go back to the wedding. I'm a person who pays more attention to friendship, if it's a girlfriend getting married, I'll definitely go back, whether it's fake or not, I'll go back, unless there is a special reason, after all, it's a girlfriend, not an ordinary friend, ordinary friends we don't want to go can also shirk it, but girlfriends I think it's different.

In my world, I regard my girlfriend as my own, and her business is my own business, so my girlfriend's marriage is such an important thing, no matter what, I still have to go back to attend her wedding, I believe that your girlfriend also especially hopes that you can be her bridesmaid, share her joy with you, you can also express your blessings in person, watching your girlfriend happy, you will also be happy.

Maybe now many people do look at friendship relatively lightly, feel that friends and girlfriends who used to play particularly well have slowly faded over time, maybe you unilaterally feel that inviting you to the wedding is just their kind words, so you will hesitate to go back to participate, should you go back, this is because you are doubting the friendship between you, if you have no confidence in this friendship in your heart, then I don't think you need to go back, because the relationship between you and your girlfriend has faded, You can't go back to the past, and you may never see each other again, so you have to think about whether the friendship between you is still not divided between you and me, or not your former best friend, if so, don't hesitate to go back to her wedding, if you hesitate, any reason can be an excuse not to go.

It seems to me that I will definitely go to the wedding. Whether it's your best friend or your friend, if they have invited you to the wedding, you should go to it. Wedding is the biggest event in a person's life, and you, as her best friend, must accompany her through this journey at this time.

Compared to her parents, as her best friend, she herself also hopes that you will accompany her.

I remember watching "Bride Wars" is the movie starring Ni Ni and Angelababy, I saw them in the film, the two of them met together because they were learning to dance, and they attended other people's weddings together in the hotel, and I felt very good and wanted to hold a wedding in such a place in the future. When they grew up, they met their respective Prince Charming, and when they wanted to hold a wedding, due to the venue, the two of them competed for the venue of the day. Because except for that day, you have to wait three years before you can get married.

Then they began to tear each other down and not give each other a face. In the end, they reconciled. I remember a good saying in the movie:

This wedding taught me that sometimes some friendships in life will not be indelible, you can really find people with whom you live and die together, we grew up in a big city, fell in love, got married, we relied on each other, and warmed each other. After watching this drama, I feel that my best friend is the kind of person you can rely on, and I remember that the film also said that when she said that she had stomach pain, I didn't have to look at the calendar to know if she had stomach pain or menstrual cramps. Being able to get to know you so thoroughly as a best friend is such a deep friendship for so long.

So when your best friend gets married, be sure to go back and witness her happiness, because this is also a fork in the road she hopes you can walk with her. At that time, we often talked about how to ask each other to attend their own weddings when they got married, and they were the first to book the position of godmother when they had children. Friendship is really indescribable, everything should be related to fate, there is a providence in the dark, you and her will become best friends.

Each of us will have many friends in our lives, but there will also be many kinds of friends. Some friends are so ordinary that they can't be more ordinary, and they don't usually have contact and rarely see each other; Other friends are just the opposite, chatting with them from time to time, although there is nothing serious, but there will be endless topics in small talk. And I think of them at any time, they are the sustenance of the soul, and if I haven't seen each other for a few days, it seems like a long time, and I miss them very much.

These people also have a nice name, that is, girlfriends.

Therefore, for such an important person, their wedding must be attended. Such an important moment must be witnessed with your own eyes and feel happiness with her. Weddings are only once in a lifetime for most people, so such an important thing must be accompanied by her girlfriend, even if there are busy things, she must put it aside for a while, and she must hope to have your witness and participation at such an important moment.

Some regrets should be avoided as much as possible, and you may not regret not doing anything else, but for not going to your girlfriend's wedding, I can say for sure that you will regret it! Since you call it a girlfriend, that is a very important person in your life, a person who knows what you are thinking without speaking, can you not regret not being able to participate in the important moment of such an important person?!

Speaking from my own personal experience, even when my girlfriend is sad and sad, I feel self-blame and guilt, let alone when it is so important and sacred. So, don't do such a stupid thing rashly, otherwise this move will seriously hurt the feelings between you, which is by no means alarmist.

Of course, girlfriends have to go to the wedding when they get married.

Summary. Engagement is taboo, and people who have just recovered from a long illness and those who have white things around them are involved. 1. Those who have recovered from a long illness generally indicate that his bad luck is about to go away, and it also means that he will usher in good luck.

However, this kind of person is not suitable for engagement, because it will clash with the newlyweds, which will affect the newlyweds. 2. Those who have white things around them are not suitable to participate in the engagement banquet. Because since ancient times, we in China have a saying that "good things cannot clash with bad things".

Therefore, if there is something white around you, even if it is difficult to refrain from hospitality, you must try to avoid it by all means, so as not to bring bad luck to the newcomer.

I'm engaged to get my best friend married, can I attend.

Hello dear you are engaged and your girlfriend is married, you can participate.

After getting engaged, you can participate in your best friend's wedding, and the engagement is generally to get a marriage certificate, and you are a family Hu Bu, so you don't have any scruples, you can participate in your best friend's wedding to do a mountain ceremony.

Engagement is taboo, and people who have just recovered from a long illness and those who have white things around them are involved. 1. Those who have recovered from a long illness and who have recovered from a long illness generally indicate that his bad luck is about to go away, and at the same time, it also means that he will usher in good luck. However, this kind of person is not suitable for engagement, because it will clash with the newlyweds, which will affect the newlyweds.

2. Those who have white things around them are not suitable to participate in the engagement banquet. Because since ancient times, we in China have a saying that "good things cannot clash with bad things". Therefore, if there is something white around you, even if it is difficult to refrain from being gracious, you must try to avoid it, so as not to bring bad luck to the newcomer.

1. Participating in your girlfriend's wedding is neither too ** nor too casual, so that it is the best respect for your girlfriend.

2. A casual T-shirt may be your usual style, but it is definitely too casual, and it is not at all in tune with the people who come to the wedding!

3. Whether it is in style or color, you must not pretend to be cool and handsome, it looks very dull. It's also taboo to be dressed in red, and it will make people think that it's you, not your best friend, who is having the wedding today.

4. Generally, the costumes of traditional wedding banquets are required to be formal, and the clothing style is best between evening dresses and casual dresses.

5. Small dresses are most suitable, and the style of mopping the floor is too grand, which will definitely steal the style of girlfriends. The fabric must not be too bad, and the quality must be good. The style is best to be dignified and generous, formal, and not too casual.

6. Remember to keep a low profile and not be too exposed, do you want to steal the limelight from the bride, or do you want to be talked about? If you choose an open-back and off-the-shoulder style, you can pair it with a shawl, and it will be very elegant immediately.

7. It is best not to contrast the clothes with the bride. You can also speculate on different shades of white, for example, if the bride is pure white, then you choose milky white, and that's it.

Delicate but don't steal the bride's limelight, simple and generous. For example, a slim dress + a small fragrance jacket is not only simple and elegant, but also fashionable and elegant, not low-key, but also not high-profile at all, and the shoes should not be too high-heeled, and it will be more tiring to run around.

Just be decent. Just don't be too noisy, or it will seem like stealing the limelight from the protagonist.

It's okay to be concise and generous. It's not a bridesmaid's

Jia Tanchun, Ai Guan, Cui Mo, and Xiao Cicada Jia Xichun into the painting, color screen, and color child.

It depends on what capacity you go? If it's a bridesmaid, then you can discuss it with the bride, if not, then you can think it's okay to be generous!

Hello! 1. In some areas of our country, there is such a custom, when the newlyweds have just gotten married and it is inconvenient to participate in other people's weddings for less than a month, because at this time there is still a happy god in the newlyweds, then participating in other people's weddings will clash with the joyful gods on other newlyweds, harming others and not benefiting themselves, so in order to avoid the elders worrying, it is best not to attend other people's weddings. 2. If you are pregnant just after getting married, you cannot attend the wedding.

Some people are married with their children, or they get pregnant soon after marriage, this kind of people can not participate in the wedding, you must know that most places in our country are taboo pregnant women to participate in the wedding, pregnant women go to the bride's bed, etc., which is not good for the newlyweds, and it is easy to affect the body of the pregnant woman.

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I'd like to ask how you're doing.

First of all, what is the reason why you can't attend the wedding? Did you tell her why? She's angry because you can't attend the wedding or because you can't attend her wedding.

Since you are best friends, I think she got married to let you witness her happiness, want to share her happiness with you, and make you happy for her. It's a pity you can't attend, so it's normal for her to get angry. So you should be able to understand that. After all, you're very good friends.

After that, if she is still angry, then you can say sorry to her, I can't witness your happiness in time, and then chat and go shopping together, so that the relationship between the two will be stronger and eliminate the unpleasantness this time (although I personally feel that your relationship will not be discordant because of this incident. ）

In short, I believe that you are very good girlfriends, and any unhappiness can be eliminated Bless your girlfriends friendship to become stronger and stronger