How to tell a child, how to tell a child tactfully how he came to be?

I'm also a mother, and I tell my child that people I know can't follow me unless my mother tells her in advance. And got the consent of the parents. After kindergarten, every day is my grandparents or parents to pick up, suddenly change friends, or neighbors, I will tell the child not to follow, to let the teacher to ask the parents to ask for permission.

Just in case, tell the child not to go with anyone but his parents.

Sometimes there are special circumstances, when you go with your mother's friend, you should also tell your child that your child should ask your mother's friend to call her mother, and if her mother agrees, she will go with him.

You can use cartoons to popularize sex education for children, so that children can directly understand how he came to be, and at this time, children can also know the difference between boys and girls.

You can directly tell the child that there is love between the parents and then get married together and give birth to you, or you can tell the baby that you are out of the mother's belly.

Tell the child that after a certain stage of growth, the boy and the girl will stay together, so that they will have a baby, and it can also give the child a sexual knowledge.

If there had been such an opportunity, I can imagine that I might tell myself the following as a child:

1.Don't be afraid to make mistakes: Growing up, everyone makes mistakes. Don't try new things because you're afraid of failure, but dare to try and take the risk of failure.

3.Communicate with others: Communication is the foundation of human social life, learn to communicate with others to express your thoughts and feelings, and learn to listen and understand others.

4.Do what you like: Choose what you like to do and do your best. Only in this way can we truly feel fulfilled and happy.

5.Respect for yourself and others: Respect for yourself and others is the key to healthy growth, learn to respect your body, thoughts, and emotions, but also learn to respect the opinions and feelings of others.

Time can be used to study, play, and develop your hobbies, so cherish it.

We often encounter various similar problems in life. For example, when two children compete for the same item, more than 80% of parents will educate their children in this way:

The younger brother (sister) is still young, and as an older sister (elder brother), you have to let him. Is there really no problem with this kind of education?

How would your child feel if one day when he met an older brother or sister who happened to have an item in his hand that he liked but didn't have, and he wanted to try to ask for that item, but the older child refused to give it to him? In the child's mind, he may think: I want to let the little child, and I want to let the big child, so what do I don't need to let go?

The older children tell the younger ones to pay attention to the way.

The older children should let the younger ones go; Adults should let the children go; The young should let the old be old. "There is nothing wrong with respecting the old and loving the young, which is a traditional virtue in our country, but in essence these are the actions of the disadvantaged group in order to protect the rights and interests of the disadvantaged group, so as to promote social harmony.

But when someone uses these words as a tool to seek benefits for themselves, it becomes a weapon of moral kidnapping, and the original intention is to obtain benefits, not to pursue harmony and equality, so are these words still correct?

Learn to try to refuse some unreasonable demands.

Do you want to let the arrogant and unreasonable child? Do you want to let the old man who relies on the old and sells the old? Do you want to let the vulnerable groups who are exhausted by the authorities?

The main question of this kind of question is not "why do older children have to let the younger ones?" but "as an older child, how should I refuse the unreasonable demands of these parents?" ”

2. How to correctly teach children to deal with similar problems.

When two children have a dispute, one of them always has to give in, which is like a tacit and unspoken rule that everyone tacitly acquiesces to, but it is not that older children should take the initiative to take responsibility. Parents should be relatively fair in dealing with problems, and educate children from an early age that they should know their mistakes, recognize their mistakes, correct their mistakes, learn to share with others, and learn to be humble to others.

Parents should instill in their children a correct way of thinking.

When there is a mistake in the child's behavioral awareness, parents should do the right guidance. Teach children to learn to share, but the premise of sharing is based on the child's own happiness and willingness, and the same is true of humility. For children before the age of 3, parents should try not to persuade their children to share, because at this stage, the child's thinking is in a sensitive period, and they will think that what I like is mine.

Parents of children after the age of 3 can try to teach their children to learn to share, but be careful not to force their children. When a child learns to share, it means that the child's self-awareness is starting to increase. Of course, it is the responsibility of parents to educate their children correctly.

Let children be exposed to new things and divert their interests.