In the third year of junior high school, I am in love, hesitant, and at a loss

You think you are ambiguous, and your classmates can see it, the so-called bystanders are clear, which means that you have to subconsciously like this boy and want to develop with him.

You can learn together and promote each other, but you must not fall into it again, otherwise you will regret it.

Love is often irrational, you are only in the third year of junior high school, and a great life is still to come.

You are still young, pay attention to treat it with a clear mind, and you don't need to deliberately avoid anything, just calm your mind.

I feel that you should be a very good girl, don't let your parents and teachers down, the feelings of adolescence are the purest, if you restrain yourself, you will be very good friends in the future, otherwise, you may not even be friends, I have seen and experienced, believe me.

Classmates,This is considered early love,Do you know,When I was in my first and second years of high school,The teacher told us that this period is also early love.,I didn't think so.,If I became an extrovert,Maybe I was in love at that time.。。。 But then again, you're only in junior high school now, this period is really not suitable for love, you think about it yourself, the study life of junior high school is very busy, especially the third year of junior high school, busy and busy, I have experienced this period, although I am relatively stupid to do homework or do it late every night, but even students with excellent grades have no time to do other things every night, every day of life is spent in study, not even extracurricular time, this is not me making it up, in such a learning atmosphere, What time do you think you have left to fall in love? If there is, then you have to choose one of the two, some people say that as long as it is restrained and does not affect learning, it is true, how many people may do it?

Isn't this unrealistic for junior high school students? Therefore.. If you take a step back, if you can control the two well, and allocate time reasonably, it will not affect your studies or your love, then this is the best, but I still want to advise you to postpone your relationship, it's okay, this is just my personal opinion, just for your reference,。。

You can find a time to talk to him and explain your intentions... For example: It's the third year of junior high school, I want to study hard, I don't have the idea of falling in love, although you like me, I also refuse, but please don't make the atmosphere between us so ambiguous...

If he confesses to you during the summer vacation, it means that he is serious, I hope you promise him, it is difficult to find a good boy, after all, you also have a good impression of him.

The body is not afraid of the shadow crooked, don't believe their words, be normal, even if you are thinking about it, but you can also do nothing, I believe that if he really likes you, he should not treat you well, just be an ordinary friend. Study hard. Well, hopefully.

The third year of junior high school is a more critical period, love is too early for you, serious study is the key, have a good high school, go to a good university, the vision of things will be different, then life will be different, now is to study hard, just treat it with a normal heart, I hope it will help you.

Since you don't want to fall in love, don't get too close to him, and don't be ambiguous if you're afraid of being said. Just like a friend. Try to stay close to him or talk to him as much as possible.

I would like to ask LZ, who said that love affects learning? I think it's good, I have a boyfriend by my side to take care of, but falling out of love is very painful, you haven't experienced this feeling, you like to compete together, you just don't think about it in class. I'm the boyfriend of the 2nd year of junior high school.,I split up once in the middle.,And then reconciled.,It's been almost 3 years now.,The grades haven't fallen.,And I feel very happy.,He's good in science.,For me.,Enrolled in liberal arts.。

On the one hand, love can promote learning, as long as it doesn't meet the bottom line. Encourage and support each other.

Well, early love is nothing, the premise is that it does not affect learning, and if you like it, you will be together, it's really nothing, but you have to pay attention to it, you have to learn to control yourself.

Yes, just be like-minded. Don't delay your grades.

Being in love can ruin everything, and believe me, that's how I got through.

No one knows what will happen in the future, encourage him not to waste his studies, and everyone will be admitted to the ideal school together, but love is still love, don't make a life (pregnancy) because the consequences are not something you can afford at your age.

Everything is unknown, and there is no one in the world who cannot live without ... You're talking about how he is, but what about yourself?

My brother and his elementary school classmates are getting better and split, and now they are in their third year of high school, and they are still together, so I don't know if they can be considered a good example.

The point is not how you are to him; It's how he treats you.

The love of junior high school will basically fade away with time.

Little sister, remember, if the man's words are reliable, the pig can go up the tree, I believe, it won't be long before the freshness passes, and he will definitely not say a word Kick you, the man is unreliable.

I've never seen junior high school lovers hold hands in high school.

It's okay to talk, but you have to be cautious! If you don't get it right, it is a trivial matter, and if your feelings are hurt, it will bring a "shadow" to your future love life, and even cause psychological disorders. At the same time, it will also affect your learning, distract your energy, and if you don't get it right, it will "destroy" your "foundation" for future development.

The wisest choice is to think twice!

Whether you are in a relationship or not depends on whether it has a positive or negative impact on you, if it does not affect your studies, it is okay to fall in love; If it seriously affects your grades, I advise you to give up this idea, think about the future, have the ability, have a good job, don't have too many objects, and you will be happy in the future!

If you do talk about it now, what's the benefit? After the third year of junior high school, you will face different middle schools, and you can guarantee that you and your future girlfriend can be in the same school? If you can't guarantee it, then how can you prevent her from secretly splitting her legs in different schools, or saying that you are empathetic.

I'm also a beginner. Third, although the results are not good, I still work hard to move towards my goal! Oh yes!

Therefore, it is better to study hard every day

And oh, a little piece of advice - fall in love again in high school.

In fact, falling in love is not as terrible as imagined, the key is still in yourself, if you can stay sensible and know what is important, it is nothing to fall in love, and it is not necessarily that falling in love will affect learning! As long as you can tell the difference.

I'm also in my third year of junior high school, and I passed the middle school entrance exam, and although the person I talked about affected my studies, I liked each other, so I still had to work hard to chase them.

It's better to study, it's not so easy to have both academic and love.

Choose a target and attack with all your might

It's 3 years old, and I've graduated, so let's go find one in the summer.

Then you can just talk about it.

Now it's time for the final sprint, put it aside for the time being, sprint first, after all, I've studied for so long, I'll let it go right away, don't fall in love now, it will affect your learning, don't say that you will study harder after falling in love, I'm in the same situation as you, the result is a mess, I hope you can learn from it, the danger is too great, so, wait until you take the college entrance examination, then the test will be tested, no pressure, it will be better, I hope it can help you.

Cardamom is in the prime of life, and when he is ignorant of men and women, he can't talk about love. Sometimes the feeling is more like camaraderie. Treat her like a good friend and let it be. Don't be too deliberate in love.

Cardamom years, how can you know love, it's just a lonely lie! Child, you don't have the ability to live independently, even if your family has the money to fall in love, but what about her?

Now students are so cool, love if you want to love, don't let yourself regret it, youth is only once.

Love in middle school is early love, which can easily cause opposition from teachers and parents, and will bring a lot of psychological pressure to yourself. And he is still young, and his understanding of love is not comprehensive, and he is easy to go wrong. So it's better not to fall in love.

It's normal to have a good relationship with some friends of the opposite sex, but don't mistake that for a romantic relationship. Sooner or later, love will be experienced, and we hope that it will bring us happiness rather than annoyance.

I have a friend who is also in junior high school.

She's a jerk. She talks about a dozen. In the end, he was covered in bruises.

She is now studying hard, and she only said one thing to me, I used to be frivolous. But I feel helpless. Everything is so ridiculous.

So. I let go of all emotion. Do what you should do.

After listening. What do you think?

I think your most important task now is to study Falling in love is a beautiful thing, but try not to conflict with the high school entrance examination I don't think there's anything wrong with falling in love, but the third year of junior high school is not suitable for love Let's be friends first

Well, it's a little bit early, and I think it's early to go to college. If you talk about it now, it's just a moment of happiness, and you'll regret it later.

I can only say that I am a little curious about love.

Also, when I fell in love in the third year of junior high school, I went my separate ways after graduation, how to maintain it?

It's not good, kid, now you have to study hard, and it's still college to talk about falling in love...

If you want to read good books, don't talk about it, it will affect your learning. And even if we talk about it, 99% of the time we won't be together

If you can study together, you should, otherwise you shouldn't.

You're out, and they're talking about it in 6th grade.

nonono

No, by the way, what grade are you?

As far as I can say, if you have this heart, you should actively pursue it, rather than waiting for love, expand your circle of friends, and carefully understand what your favorite girl should be like, and then pay attention to it in work and life.

Finally, I hope that you are motivated by love, do a good career and chase your girlfriend to you and say that you no longer believe in love, which shows that you still believe in your heart and look forward to high-quality love with a good girl The pay in love is worth it and sweet Truly love a person regardless of the pay and gain And in fact, you will really learn how to get along with girls The truth will help you find the love that makes you happy and sweet.

In addition, I personally feel that if you have a love relationship after your existing career, without her company, you will be lonely and the relationship will not be strong enough.

Hope you can find your sweet happiness.

After reading your question, I guess you are still in school, I personally think that you must fall in love when you go to school, because it is easier to find pure love when you fall in love when you go to school, after all, you are still a student, you don't have to worry too much about career problems for the time being, and people's eyes are not so utilitarian, when you have a successful career, the girl who comes to you is interested in your career, your rights, or your money, or yourself? Everyone is three-dimensional, and every girl is the same, it is impossible for people to be gentle and considerate in front of no one, how do you know if you don't try? I promise, as long as a girl falls in love with you, that girl thinks about everything she does, it's just a matter of whether you are annoyed or not, you say that a good girl is still far away from you, how can it be, in fact, a good girl is by your side, a person who wants to fall in love, there should be no less than 100 girls to know, how can there not be a good one?

Pluck up the courage and go on, don't wait until you want to fall in love and find yourself old!!

In fact, there are quite a lot of good girls, but they generally don't fall in love easily, and I believe that you are also a good man, so you will be entangled in this matter.

Correct your mentality Feelings depend on fate.

If you can't eat hot tofu in a hurry, your feelings will always come.

If you've been hurt, you can always come out, and time can erase everything.

You can't overturn a boatload of people with a rod There are also good girls you haven't met, there must be a person in this world who belongs to you A high-quality relationship that belongs to you A man should be busy with his career first Just like you said, at least it can ensure your woman's happiness in the future and concentrate on her work What kind of thing can not be found in the future? Some things have to go with the flow, so I wish LZ the best of luck in the end.

First of all, we must self-reflexively, think about why there has been pain, will it not be your own reason, and the reason is **, if you have not changed this reason, then you will still be hurt in the future, in addition, it should be explained that if you are tired of chasing girls, you can let girls take the initiative to chase you, in modern society this is possible, it is also a very happy thing to have girls take the initiative to love you, but this has a premise, think about it, why do you attract the attention of girls, what charm do you have. This is a problem that should be thought about at present, after understanding this clearly, there is one more thing to consider, girls are more realistic now, having a house, a car and money is now the first criterion for girls to choose a mate, so RV money, you must at least solve one of them first, it is best to be two, and the two are more sure of the letter, which is also very helpful for you to be chased in the future.