What does it feel like to suddenly find that your standard of living has improved?

Now most of our families basically have no worries about food and clothing, and their living standards have improved a lot compared to before. But we don't feel easy. In the city, the average young person has a mortgage and a car loan.

And they deduct the mortgage and car loan every month, and the rest of the money can only barely sustain their lives, and they can't save money, and if they lose their jobs one day, their lives will become a problem. If the parents are in good condition, they can help the child, and the child will be less stressed. If the parents can't help, then the child suffers, and they are busy applying every day, family after family, day after day.

While being unemployed, paying off mortgages and car loans, and having to maintain the most basic life, how much pressure they have is can only be experienced by themselves. This is the case of young people who are better off for themselves and from their families.

Why is it that the richer a person is, the more empty and stressful his heart becomes? This reminds me of a sentence that the Japanese writer Takaji Nakano once asked in a developed modern society: "What more do you need if you have rice in a bag and firewood by the fire?"

This is an interrogation of impetuousness and an examination of the infinitely expanding desires of human nature. Yes, there is food, there is shelter, what else do we need? If we maintain our inner peace and don't have too many material requirements, on the contrary, we can think more about a person's social value and devote ourselves to public welfare, and your feelings may be completely different.

However, in this era of becoming more and more impetuous and realistic, when you have rice and firewood, can you still stop your pace of plundering? Life is a circular runway, once you set foot on it, you can no longer stop ......This is what makes you richer and more stressed, because once a person's desires grow, they are never satisfied.

The pressure of life is relatively high, and there is not much money left after paying off a series of living expenses such as housing and car loans, as well as children's expenses. In the face of these difficulties, they can only hold on, and they can't give up for life, so they feel that life is more stressful.

With the improvement of people's material living standards, everyone's requirements for the quality of life are getting higher and higher. Now people are thinking about whether I should buy a car for my family, you see that the neighbor also bought it, so how convenient it is to go out and do things! So now people are giving themselves more pressure for a higher quality of life, after all, they have to work hard to earn what they want, and the sky will not give you a big pie!

Everyone wants their family life to be better than others, the quality of life is higher than others, and the living environment is more comfortable than others. Then you need to constantly recharge yourself and work more diligently and hard.

Soaring prices, advanced consumption, so that many people become "negative wealth", and now, looking at bank deposits, most of them are deficits, and even many families are negative assets, housing loans, car loans, let us completely become "forced workers"! If you don't owe money, you can earn less and spend less, but a life with mortgages, car loans, and credit cards is a mandatory life, and you can earn more if you spend less, so it makes people feel even more tired, because you can't have the slightest slack!

Basically want to eat what to eat, one thing that impressed me is that there was no air conditioning at home more than ten years ago, my dad told me that the biggest wish in this life is to live in a house with air conditioning, now there are 4 air conditioners at home, and the electricity bill is not lower than 1000 a month every summer. Mom and Dad can still travel once a year.

Ten years ago, I didn't have a house or a car in the city. It's painful to eat a meal of meat. Now I have a house and a car, and the down payment for a second home has been paid. On Sundays, I buy a week's worth of meat, and pork trotters and pork belly are eaten in different ways.