How to stop my sister from marrying a man who is not responsible and not down to earth at all?

How so? After all, you are an outsider, the two of you are fighting hotly, and they are ready to marry men and women, what can you talk about? It's only advice, it's another thing to listen to you or not, and it's another thing to tell you or not, as long as you do it, or don't get involved in other people's affairs.

Let go when it's time to let go, and rest assured when it's time to be reassured.

Then you have to expose his ugly face.

If you come up with a problem, that is, arrange a difficult task to entrust to your brother-in-law to test him, or ask your sister to complete it together, your observation may not be accurate.

If this person really can't do it, your sister will find out for herself.

Since this is the case, you have to make it clear to your sister and explain the reason to her clearly, because after all, when you reach the age of finding a partner, you have your own choice, and this is to make the reason clear.

I'm still too young, and I will have a good memory by planting a few heels. It's counterproductive for you to block it now.

If you have a relationship with a man, the woman will be hurt.

Since I'm afraid of getting hurt.

Then don't start any relationship lightly.

Let's talk to her!

Do as much as you have the ability, and thinking too much about some things is really not conducive to development. Some jobs may pay a low salary, but you can gain a lot and learn a lot; Perhaps this may not be possible with a high-paying job. Therefore, you only need to do your job within the scope of your ability, so that you can already gain a lot.

So as to continuously improve yourself, there will be more and more better and better opportunities waiting for you!

Baby, when you feel unsteady, when you feel that he is drawing a big pie, I think you actually know very well what kind of person this boy is, but because you are reluctant to let him be good to you, and reluctant to leave the feeling that someone cares about you, so you hesitate。On the contrary, because he is afraid that there will be no one to accompany him, he is reluctant to be in this state, so he can only keep you by being good to you.

My dear, there is a final explanation for this question: the person who draws the pie is not a person worthy of long-term relationship, or rather, not a person who is suitable to finally walk into the marriage hall holding hands.

If you feel ungrounded, eventually it will come true, women, sometimes, feelings come from facts. In fact, when we study the life trajectories of those successful people, you will be able to find that they are very pragmatic people, they have lofty goals in life, they are working towards their goals step by step every day, and there is no hesitation, no hesitation, and no utopian dreams in their life dictionary.

One should have lofty ideals, and without them one will lose one's way. However, in order to realize the ideal, we must start from the things at hand in a down-to-earth manner, and we must not be too ambitious. Because, every little thing at hand is the brick and tile of your ideal building, and the lofty fantasy is just a castle in the air.

Tell him that he must be down-to-earth in order to succeed.

Let him experience it a little more, maybe he will be able to keep his feet on the ground.

You're going to hit him and tell him that people who aren't pragmatic will never succeed.

Then let him suffer some blows, so that he can be sure.

Set a basic goal for the other person, and then give him time to achieve it.

What are you waiting for if such a man doesn't break up? Waiting for you to be delayed?

For this situation, you should know the most real thoughts in your heart, and you know whether he is the person you want, so generally for this situation, it is better to be ruthless, otherwise there will be a lot of problems and contradictions in the future.

Then why are you bothering about him?

Live in the moment. It's good to cherish what should be cherished, no.

Man has only himself and cherishes himself.

Learn to run yourself.

Try harder. Enhance your charisma.

So that others will cherish you.

I think that whether there is a sense of security comes from oneself and the other is from the other party, and what the other party gives can only be auxiliary, so what you should do is to be able to see his pressure at all times, always pay attention to him, and care about him. Make him feel like you have him in your heart. The rest of the security can only be given to himself by himself.

I didn't feel good after just dating, so what should I do after that! There are no shortcomings in true love! I only found out slowly after I got married! You have to be careful!

Do you want to know how to help him or make any decisions yourself? Also, how do you understand what you said about not being down-to-earth?

Heart. If you are sure that it is love, go to tolerate and talk to him about the love you want, if you feel tired, you will be happy to leave according to your heart, the simplest coin toss When the coin is tossed, you will know the answer. What you wish for.

Go with your heart, life is short and there are too many passers-by, you think you will be happy in the future, grasp it, if you feel tired, then this relationship will not last.

Because you didn't give her a sense of security.

Make him believe in you, he just doesn't feel secure.

Women are like this, yearning for such a responsible and temperamental person.

But you have to think about it comprehensively, how can you live a life, how can it be completely compliant, and it is not easy to change your mentality with an honest person, so talk to him more.

If it doesn't work, choose to separate. But I hope you also have a responsibility, since you have chosen, you have to work hard, and you really can't give up.

Say that your husband should look at yourself before you say that there is always an excellent woman behind a successful man, and your husband also has your responsibilities like this, in fact, you must think it is good when you think about it sometimes, so you can be sassy. There is personality. Is it okay to beat you, since he is honest, can't you complement him.

It's okay to say that some of these things don't have to go, if he really changed, would you still choose him in the first place? Wake up. Don't live a good life if you don't want to live it for a long time, and life will be dull.

Whatever you want, if you don't want to leave. You can do what you want, but the consequences must be borne by yourself. That's what this world is.

A man who does his duty treats you sincerely, do you like bad men to play you around?

People, just don't be satisfied, many men beat their wives, bets, prostitutes, your luck is already very good, don't think about it.

Girl, you know how to cherish the person in front of you, you will understand, look at his advantages, don't always stare at you, think other people's shortcomings, okay?

You are content, you don't like him to have no temper, you want to find a bad temper, do you like others to commit domestic violence against you, others still ask for a good-tempered man.

You should be glad that there are fewer and fewer men like this now, will a bad man with a temper and personality give you happiness, maybe he still wants you to support him, that kind of man is suitable for love, not for marriage.

Then leave and find a man who is not honest, not responsible, and not down-to-earth. There are three and four children outside. When you see a beautiful woman, you can't walk. It's not common to go home, but when you go home, you will quarrel with you, and you will do it at every turn. Do you like such men.

Of course, you should admit that you are wrong, you know that your father is for your good, but the temper is a little more short-tempered, and patience is over, who is your father?

Not satisfied, when lost to know regret.

You don't like his character, why did you marry him in the first place.

Now is the era of women's independence, your husband has no ability, you can just have your own ability.

When she has a temper and personality, you will want to divorce him even more.

The world is sinister, but it is better to keep to yourself.

There is never a satisfying heart.

Teach him badly. Become what you like.

You mean your husband can do it, you can do it? Otherwise, how do you think your husband is so ordinary, so ordinary.

Since you chose it in the first place, let's cherish it now.

Talk to him in depth about your current situation, future goals, and plans. If he doesn't have the slightest idea of that, you'll have to push him to think about it. As a man, you should have responsibility, this is a minimum of awareness.

If he doesn't, you should consider whether he's worth your wait and pay.

If you don't have feelings for him, don't follow him because he doesn't have a certain material economy, and his life will be very embarrassing.

If there is one and love him very much, follow him, and persuade him to find a job or something, so that life will be better.

should not be followed; This person is a mixed society, and sooner or later he will enter the class room...

Women are animals that look at their looks and look at their money... What do you see?

Adolescent children are sensitive, and if they are treated in a tough way, then there may be some undesirable consequences, such as rebellion, which may lead to unjustified indulgence; Subservience, for example, can lead to apathy and indifference to anything. I think the best way to communicate with children is the first premise is respect, respect is easier said than done, because in our traditional concept often adults talk to children to listen, adults often take the reprimand, scolding these methods without using brains, in the open-minded modern age, need to move more muscles, do not think that you can use one or two methods, one or two sentences can make children change, to be prepared for the long term. Personally, I think that first of all, start with respect, don't speak in a tone of elders or admonitions, don't force children when communicating, take your time, if the child doesn't want to say anything, just talk about your own things, don't say it for the time being if the child doesn't want to listen, care more about her, don't talk about the truth, everyone understands the truth, but it doesn't happen to you and you won't pay attention to it, think more, integrate the truth into your own things, and after the child is willing to communicate, talk about your own things, and tell the truth imperceptibly, And when you speak, it's best not to talk about what you think is right and how good you end up, you just need to list the different results of different choices, let the child think for himself, and don't expect the child to mature overnight, I believe that in a respectful and equal atmosphere, the child will slowly change.

Coercion doesn't work at all, it's likely to be counterproductive, and now children are amazing, and it's normal to run away from home in a hurry. Since you can't reverse this form, ok, find a way to turn a bad thing into a good thing, and let your uncle call these two people to him and make it clear that he wants to fall in love? No problem!

I have all the grades for me, I have no objection, not only the woman, but also the man's grades, don't you love the woman? Isn't it dead and alive? Okay, don't ask you to swear an oath, take something practical, if the man's learning is indeed because the woman has repeatedly improved, then the man is still good, first, it shows that the man does like the woman, and secondly, the man still has great potential.

If the man is indifferent and nothing has changed, okay, tell the girl, nothing more, see for yourself, in fact, this is the law of discord, no matter what the result is, it is not your uncle who suffers! Pay attention when you say it, play the emotional card, and sincerely say that you want them to be together, but for the sake of their future, you have to use a little means, and make it clear, this is also a test for this man, ok, don't say much, they are all cultural people, you know, be flexible!

For people of this age, it is 100% useless for you to reason with her, and what people in the rebellious period are most disgusted by other people's preaching. You should guide correctly, as long as the man is okay, you should call him to his home and say that he has no objection to you being together, but I hope you can study hard together and not delay your studies. This way the children will feel that you understand them and that they will appreciate you.

In fact, don't stop her forcefully, just tell her some big truths, seventeen or eighteen is the time to judge rebellion, if you force her to stop her will be more annoying (the more you don't let me talk about it, the more I go, there will be such a mentality).

Don't be so forced, she will be more rebellious, or give her the right space If falling in love doesn't affect her studies, it's okay If it does, talk about it slowly After all, high school students are in love a lot now, and she will think it's nothing, and your thinking can't keep up with the times... Hope it helps.

Give her a time limit, and if her grades don't improve during the relationship, she must give up. Otherwise it can be discussed. Check your scores as soon as you take the exam!

The rebellious psychology is relatively strong, don't be tough in this period, you still have to know it with reason and move with emotion.

The one on the 12th floor, that is, the one that the landlord asked. If nothing else, if I go back another 3 years and become a freshman in high school, then this plan will work! It's up to your uncle to do something!

But then again, this one on the 12th floor is so bad. People are only one year taller. You will count them by "counting."

And it's still a divisive "plan" bad! Too bad! But the landlord can really try!

Let's top it!

Actually, don't worry too much, my cousin and his current wife started talking in high school, and now both of them are studying for medical degrees in the UK, which is very good. In fact, the main thing is to guide, don't hear that falling in love is like the sky is falling, just guide them to study hard together. In addition, you need to improve the relationship with your sister first, for example, you can call the little boy to the house for dinner, treat him as a friend and family, and then guide them to study hard together. Try.