I am a post 80s generation, how to communicate with my post 90s brother?

Updated on society 2024-04-27
38 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    My sister is also 90 thick.

    You have to communicate with him in the same way she communicates.

    Soft-spoken, relaxed-minded, listen to her start talking, then find out what interests her in his words, and then continue.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Don't be so strict with your brother, and don't force him if there's something he doesn't want to say. If your brother does something wrong, give him face, don't scold him in front of many people, reason with him in private, and don't beat him. Be kind to him, but don't spoil him too much, criticize when it's time to criticize, praise when you should praise.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    There are many aspects.

    We post-90s generation just want to live like ourselves.

    There are many aspects that have a generation gap with the post-80s.

    Not easy to communicate.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Hello, has your brother been lukewarm to you all the time, or has he been like this recently? You have to figure out if it's the generation gap between the two of you or if your brother does the same to everyone else. Communicate attentively, don't mind the age gap, you can take the initiative, tell him about it, understand the reason, and then make a plan.

    If your brother has any hobbies, you can play with him, cultivate feelings, ask your brother about the latest situation, often help him solve problems, and, depending on your brother's character, whether he is naïve or mature, you should also be easy-going, no one does not want someone to communicate with him, your brother will become a confidant with you, come on!

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    You might as well learn about his hobbies, and then you can cultivate his favorite hobbies, and you also need to understand his personality, in short, knowing yourself and your opponent, I hope you can have a better relationship with your brother.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Violence certainly doesn't solve the problem. Hehe. I am 87, my sister is 94, when she is disobedient, I give her reason, talk to her feelings, it is not easy to be brothers and sisters, parents accompany us for half of our lives, lovers accompany us for the second half of our lives, only brothers and sisters can accompany us for a lifetime, to cherish.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Adolescent rebellious mentality, no way.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    91 years, do not copy.

    The small ones also went to the Internet café to play all night

    Hey, if you think about the type of person around you, you will know your brother's character.

    I don't think the problem is the problem of the post-80s and post-90s, the key is that your parents did not discipline them strictly, and your younger brother no longer knows what is right and what is wrong.

    But how can your parents discipline you, or the two of you are not the same by nature. Some people can understand everything, and some people can't teach anything. It's not easy to enlighten others, it depends on whether they appreciate it or not.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Maybe you're too 38, right?

    I think the way I can be with him is by going shopping and talking together.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Very precocious. You don't need to tell him what to do, or what not to do.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    How to communicate? Then you should ask your girlfriend The girls of the 90s and the post-80s are actually almost the same, both girls like boyfriends and care more about themselves Of course, different girls like different boys.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    First of all, you have to be rich, the potential world is omnipotent, I believe, the kind of person who really doesn't love talent hasn't come out of the womb, secondly, you have to be mature and steady, although many girls like that type of gangster, but, can really be entrusted for life, or the kind of mature and steady man, and, now isn't it also popular to be controlled by uncles. As long as you have these two points, a little more romantic, and you're good to go. It's easier to communicate, know her preferences, and when you chat with her, lean on the things she likes.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    I am a post-80s generation, I am a teacher, and there is no generation gap with the post-00s, and the post-90s generation seems to have no generation gap.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    1.Peace of mind 2Don't look at it with contempt 3Be honest and understand what they are doing 4Don't believe what others say about how bad the post-90s generation is.

    5.Imagine that you are the post-90s 6Don't be too impulsive.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    If it's the opposite sex, get to know each other well, you have to know what he likes and what he hates, and if you don't even know what the other person likes, people will be lazy to pay attention to you.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Find a breakthrough in the words they like, and then communicate further.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Please try to accept their strange ideas and interests, communicate more ideas, and understand their behavior and language. If they do something wrong, they advise you to be tolerant and remember not to indulge.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    I'm also a post-80s generation, and it doesn't seem to be much different when I meet a post-90s generation.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Even hahaha, not all the post-90s are what you imagine after the 80s, and the post-90s will also be very afraid of people who are insecure and untrustworthy and lazy, their thoughts are very realistic, but they need romance

    Don't follow the sycophants in front of them, you can have your own opinions, if it is a good post-90s, they will think for themselves, and finally choose to believe in the opinion, but don't quarrel with him, don't just be silent when she quarrels with you, coax her more Even if it's just a sentence (I don't know what to say, I'm afraid you won't be happy to hear it) They will also want to test, but the premise is that you have to treat it with a sincere heart, the post-90s hatred is also very strong, all the lovely post-90s people, You will find that they are really not what they say in the society and in society, independent, strong, afraid, insecure, will want to rely on, but do not know how to rely on them.

    Mutual respect, saying their opinions to each other, and occasionally small romances that are not too extravagant will move them very much.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Understand each other, think more about each other's position, and have the heart to communicate!

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    Don't be domineering, it's okay to be disrespectful.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    These have nothing to do with 80 90. Don't be too nervous, don't be stressed, just relax and be natural.

    Express your true self! ha

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    I don't think it's difficult to communicate with the post-80s, everyone has a mature side, everyone has a cute side, when we meet, you can talk about life, talk about what is delicious, as long as you find common ground, you can talk together, work hard, come on".

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    At least there are no obstacles to communication after 8090. They are all the flowers of the Motherland.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    Generation gap, generation gap, young man.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    Nope. You are not really understanding their hearts. In fact, more communication is the best way. My girlfriend of '87. I'm 91 years old. Understand what is in his heart from the heart. Something he really wants.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    There is a generation gap. Absolutely. It's just that your boyfriend probably loves himself more. Moreover, he chased you, so naturally he won't cherish it much.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    I'm in a similar situation to you. I'm ninety-zero, he's eighty-seven. We're in a long-distance relationship again, and we'll see you once a month. Many times I feel that he is not considerate at all, and he will be noisy, but the relationship has always been very good. Remember to care more about each other, think more about each other, and cherish the opportunity to be with each other.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    Men are good to you when they are in love, but once it is over, it is difficult to say.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    Wrong, you're wrong! Because people need to understand and communicate with each other.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    I'm dizzy, are the post-80s so arrogant, that's looking at people, I think the post-90s are a bit very...

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    Actually, no, this is not necessarily related to the post-80s and post-90s, but it may be that the age gap between you is a little big, and it is a little difficult to communicate, in fact, this is more due to personality. However, you must believe that the estrangement will always disappear because of the pass. Is it that the way you communicate with him is not right, the timing is not right, or he has encountered some troubles, and he doesn't want to trouble you, so learn more about his habits and ways of doing things with his friends.

    Let's talk to him easily. However, I think that if he is so cold to you, you should think about whether you are the right person. There's nothing wrong with liking someone, but don't lose yourself because of it, because no one will give you a sense of security for the rest of your life, and people always have to rely on themselves.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    It's not a few years old at all, it mainly depends on character, and it has nothing to do with age.

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    It's hard to say, it's not easy to communicate between the post-80s and post-90s!

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    I'm born in the 70s, and I can communicate with them!

    It's all people!

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-04

    Talk about online games! Love both! I'm born in the 70s! My nephew is born in the 90s! Like friends! He also told me about his girlfriend!

  37. Anonymous users2024-01-03

    Don't put on a show, do what you like.

  38. Anonymous users2024-01-02

    See people talk about people, and talk about ghosts!

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