Accidentally conceived a second child, will you choose to stay?

The cost of raising a child is too high now, and one child can sometimes exhaust others, let alone raise another one. Some people are very hesitant to have a second child unexpectedly, and if it were me, I would choose to keep this child. Because after all, blood is thicker than water, and the second child can also give the child one more companionship, and life is worthy of our awe.

1. Blood is thicker than water When you learn that you are unexpectedly pregnant with a second child, then there is a life in your belly, and he is one of the closest people to you in this world. We often say that blood is thicker than water, and in the face of our own flesh and blood, how can we be so ruthless that we don't want him. Maybe it will be a little harder to raise this child, but isn't this what parents are willing to pay for their children.

2. Give the child more companionship Giving birth to a second child can also give Dabao more companionship. Nowadays, many families are only children, and the children are too lonely, and giving birth to a second child can give the child one more playmate. In the future, the pressure on the child's pension will be relatively smaller, and there will be someone to discuss when something happens.

Therefore, I will choose to keep this child, and I will have one more person to rely on in the future. <>

3. Life is worthy of awe No matter what, the second child is a fresh life after all, and life is worthy of our awe. In the face of life, we must always maintain a sense of reverence and not dispose of it at will. We can't kill a child's chance of coming into the world because of our own selfish thoughts.

In fact, although raising an extra child will be a little tiring in the early stage, you will receive more sweetness and warmth. If you don't want this child, then thinking about it in the rest of your life will only be regret and regret.

I am the mother of the unexpected second child, and I was struggling with the whole pregnancy, after all, I was not ready, and I was a little caught off guard by the sudden pressure! I read some articles every day, and when I see the positive, I want to leave him, and when I see the negative, I start to struggle with whether I should give birth or not! Look at the friends around me, the ...... of two children of one childIn the end, two treasures were born in the entanglement!

Two boys, five and a half years apart! Now Erbao is almost five months old, and the pressure is also very high, and sometimes I am a little overwhelmed! But seeing his unique joy to see his mother, he was also very satisfied!

In the final analysis, the most important thing depends on whether the husband is reliable or not!

I will stay, I have been born for more than 100 days now, to be honest, tired, my body is not recovering well, but I feel that everything is worth it when I see the baby, and I don't regret it.

I will choose to stay, because it is the crystallization of me and the people I love, and it must be kept.

Personally, I think that if I accidentally conceive a second child, then I will still keep this second child, because I think it is not easy to conceive a second child.

stayed, it was about eight months, and there was more than a month to give birth, and my own child was really reluctant, and he could raise it no matter what.

Dabao thirteen, I didn't get pregnant for a few years before, and I was pregnant for a few years, but my mother-in-law and mother were gone, and no one helped take care of the child, and the family had no money, but considering that the child was given by God, I couldn't bear to beat it off, and I was afraid that I would regret it later.

I will choose to stay, after all, it is a small life, and I can't bear to beat him, since I came, it was fate.

Accidentally conceived with a second child, if the family conditions are very allowed, then I will choose to stay, because there are many children and it is more lively.

I will definitely choose to stay, because after all, it is also a small life, and I don't want to strangle the other party.

If the physical condition allows, the child checks that everything is fine, of course it will.

I had a second child for a few years to get pregnant, and I was going to give up, but this year came, I was going to take out a loan to buy a house outside and take over the big one to go to school, but now the accident is so stressful, my mother-in-law passed away last year, and now it's so difficult to have this child, no one takes care of it, and the economic strength does not allow it, but I am reluctant to give up this little life, ready to stay, ready to sell the house, do you think I did the right thing?

The accident has been left behind, and it's a male doll again, it's been eight months, it's very tired, it's tired, and the road of life has been rewritten.

Cherish life! Abortion is strictly forbidden!

Born at the age of 36, now 8 months old, it's hard, but it's getting easier and easier after walking.

Will stay! Saving someone's life is better than creating a seventh-level floating slaughter, not to mention a child who was inspired by his karma.

No. Those who are preparing for pregnancy dare not ask for it, let alone accidents!!

Beat it off immediately because I was too tired to be a man, and I still didn't feel anything if I didn't come out.

I am 37 years old this year, and my second child came to ...... unexpectedly

I left it and went to check the molding.

This is not the case at the moment.

Speaking of the accidental second child, I think that at the end of 2019, a pregnant woman in Fuyang who was 400 pounds in 6 months pregnant, her second child came by accident, but she left the baby.

Let's review this incident: On October 21, 2019, a pregnant woman weighing 400 pounds in Fuyang only ate one bowl of rice a day in order to control her weight, but despite this, her weight was still growing uncontrollably, and the fetus was a little small.

In fact, what I want to say most is that I have to be responsible for myself and my family, and I know that it will be difficult when I am pregnant with my first child, so why not take measures to get pregnant unexpectedly, and after she became pregnant, she went to consult a doctor, and she is not suitable for pregnancy? I think when she went to the prenatal checkup for the first time, the doctor should have advised her not to keep the baby, after all, we all know that pregnant women of this tonnage are pregnant with great risks to themselves and the fetus.

For example, there are many pregnancy complications in severely obese pregnant women, among which hypertension and diabetes cannot run, and these complications are the most worrying during pregnancy. For the fetus, it may be due to the uterine environment or maternal reasons, there may be stunted growth, premature birth or miscarriage. Even if the fetus is born successfully, the child may inherit this physique, which will have a great impact on the child's life.

Tell me about my side:

Therefore, I think there is nothing to regret about the accidental second child.

My cousin's second child was born by accident, but she doesn't regret it at all, but is very fortunate that she originally had a son, and then accidentally gave birth to a younger sister. After that, my brother took special care of my sister, and the two of them played with each other, giving people a particularly warm feeling. Happier people!

I also accidentally conceived a second child, only gave birth to a daughter and did not plan to have it, afraid of having an extra burden, high pressure, afraid of not being able to raise well, can not give better living conditions, but, when Dabao was three years old I was unexpectedly pregnant, had to give birth, unexpectedly, another daughter, haha, this is good, I look forward to hope that it is a daughter again, when the moment of birth, it is a daughter, I was so happy, since I had a second daughter, the sisters played and made trouble, and the family was also a lot of fun, I'm also very happy, although one more child increases the burden, but it is also poor and poor, rich and rich, how will I raise children, besides, raising girls is different from raising boys after all, it is easier to talk about raising boys, now in a blink of an eye, the two daughters have grown up, looking at the daughters every day, my heart is warm, very happy, very happy, full of self-confidence, so I don't regret having a second child, I am very happy, I am very happy, however, it is enough to have two daughters in my heart, haha!

My second child was born unexpectedly, the child was given to me by God, I have no regrets, and now, my daughter has grown into a big girl. Girls are mother's intimate little padded jackets. That's a good point.

I'm glad she was left behind. However, when I was pregnant with my second child, I was not yet 30 years old. So, dear friends, if you are under forty and pregnant with a second child, give birth if you want to!

After all, talent is priceless. ‍‍

There is a plan, the birth of a son is a caesarean section, and he will be on the ring when he is one year old. I never wanted a second child before, and I thought that one son would do. After the son was four or five years old, the husband and mother-in-law and their parents began to give birth to a second child, last year suddenly figured it out, I think there is a second child is not bad, I went to the hospital at the beginning of this year to do a b ultrasound, I took the ring, the doctor recommended to recuperate for three or four months and then conceive, in April, the menstrual delay test strip was a try, after a few days the stomach has been uncomfortable, brown discharge, go to the hospital to do an examination and say no, it seems to be a biochemical pregnancy, three days of progesterone on the number, the doctor said that the biochemical pregnancy to the doll does not need to be separated by time, Who knew that at the end of May, I came two or three days after menstruation, and went to the Chinese medicine shop to take the Chinese medicine to eat, the Chinese medicine said that after menstruation, you don't need contraception, you can directly conceive, and you can take the medicine that regulates qi and blood, and when you take the medicine, you deliberately ask him if there is any medicine for men and women, and I want a female treasure, the doctor just laughed and didn't speak, and then there was it at the end of June.

Compared to seven years ago, when I was pregnant with my son, my husband is much more considerate, I think he is a little older and sensible. Almost four months later, I went to the Chinese medicine shop to let the doctor who took the medicine in front of him take the pulse, saying that it should be a female treasure, and said that at that time, he took the medicine and prepared some medicine for giving birth to a female treasure, and the day after tomorrow was twenty-three weeks and then five or six days to do the fourth dimension, and then spent money to see again, hoping to be a female treasure as he wished.

The boss is an unexpected joy, this is not easy to conceive, and when I learned that I had him, I called my family, and both sides cried with joy. Erbao was also an accident, but he didn't like it, and he cried with her husband. Now he's born, more than five months old, and it's lovely.

I told my husband that my brother has it, and Xiaobao has it too. Whether it is material or spiritual, there are no regrets.

My first and second children were both accidental, and they were both born...Now I regret having a second child....A son and a daughter! I have to save up for a 3-room apartment! Originally, in addition to the tuition fee, I could have spare money for my daughter to learn some dancing instruments or something for half a year, but I didn't think about anything after giving birth to a second child!

I don't know where to get Erbao's tuition yet! I can't cry even if I want to.

My first child was an accident, that will just get the license, ready to hold a banquet, between more than half a year, I wanted to finish the wine and then get pregnant, but I didn't expect to be unexpectedly pregnant during this period. I was born when I was pregnant, and I didn't bother about it, anyway, I had to get pregnant sooner or later, but I was very tired on the wedding day. I don't dare to have a second child anymore, and now I am careful to do a good job of contraception.

Regret it. My second treasure is an accident, I was almost dizzy when I knew, I didn't want it, my husband was reluctant to beat it off, saying that he was willing to be tired no matter how tired he was, both men and women kept it. If I want to **, I will turn my face with me, coercion and temptation, I can't be born a boy, I have a very severe depression, and I almost committed suicide.

Fortunately, now that my child is one and a half years old, I am slowly recovering, living hard, and trying to love my child. Accept reality.

When the eldest was one year old and three months old, he found out that he was pregnant, it was too unexpected, it was not easy to get, and he was reluctant to beat it, because the first child was a caesarean section, and the doctor did not recommend me when the second child went to the hospital for examination, saying that it was too dangerous, and I insisted on keeping it myself, but fortunately, everything went well, and now I have both children and daughters. ‍‍

My second treasure is an unexpected pregnancy, I have thought about it for a long time, since the child is here, it is a mother and child fate with me, whether it is male or female, as long as all the indicators are normal, then let's do it, I don't regret it at all, it is my pistachio.

During the confinement, the eldest was born by caesarean section, and he didn't plan to be the second soon, and after the accident, he communicated with the doctor, and he gave birth, he had no regrets, and his children were complete, and he grew up together in the future.

Alas, I really don't want it! It's useless for me to say it alone! Wife, mother, father, mother-in-law, father-in-law, and daughter!

Treat me as a fart! But you can share some of the baby's education expenses, milk powder fees, diapers, and various counseling fees! It's said that it's okay to raise one, and you can barely live!

Regenerating a boss not only lives a decline in the quality of education! My married life is even more declining! I don't know when it's a head.

My little two is an accident.,In fact, I don't want to be born without it.,It's just five and a half months.,Anyway, I regret it now.,It's said that I won't regret it when I'm older.